Update on Curvy

[Grumble]

Well I have found her and spoken to her on the phone.

She is in a very difficult situation indeed. She went to help her mother who lives in CA after she developed a brain tumour and had it surgically removed. Her mother then needed chemotherapy.

Her father was very badly effected over his wife's condition and had a stroke that has left him paralysed down one side. She has moved both her parents to her little house where she is caring for them as well as her 2 children and working a part time job. She has had to drop out of her Uni course and is living to care for her family.

Life can be so cruel at times, all the things she planned to do with her life have been put on hold for the forseeable future.

Naturally it puts our marriage in doubt but I am going to see if we can work through it with her. She needs someone to give her some support and the person in my skin is the one who will try the best to do it. Just sent her some flowers. I can be patient she is the woman I love and now I know what the problem is I will do my best to help her through it.

[jseal]

Grumble,

Good luck sir.

[flutelady]

I'm very glad you were able to make contact with her and receive some answers. I'm sorry about her parents. My best to the both of you. She's damn lucky to have you!

((((Grumble))))

[LixyChick]

Just logged on and signed in and this is the first thread I've seen. (((((Ian)))))...so sorry to know of the troubles Curvy is having and I send my best to her and her family. I can't foresee the future, but at least the present has brought you both together, if only by phone. I hope for clearer and brighter days in the very near future!

[Belial]

I'm pleased you have been able to get some answers and wish you and Curvy all the best.

[musicman]

thoughts are with both of you.

[imaginewithme]

I am glad you got to talk to her. Maybe that will put your mind at ease some. I am sure it must be so difficult being that far away from someone you love, espeically when they are going thru a difficult time. I am sure you wish you could be right there with her, holding her and telling her everything will be ok. And I am sure she knows that. Keep your chin up. Things will work out like they are supose to. Hugs.

[WildIrish]

My thoughts and prayers are with Curvy and her parents.

I know how helpless you feel being so far away, but I'm sure that knowing you're thinking of her helps.

[Prophet Reality]

Grumble... I am glad that you now know the situation she is in. Even though it is still not the best, but at least now you know that it had nothing to do with you and Curvy. My prayers will go out to you and her and her family and I hope that you can work things to be closer to her. It is so difficult with long distance relationships, but if your Love is true and strong, nothing can destroy it. Best wishes and many positive thoughts out to you.

[osuche]

(((Ian))) ~ glad you and she are starting to sort things out. Please let her know that I send her the best, and wish her strength....she's going thru a tough spot.

[OzKristin]

Keep a smile on ur face. One thing I've learned despite how few years I've been on this earth, is that when things can't seem to get any worse (even if they do);things ultimately get better and you are a stronger person for persevering through it all.

[Mae]

Grumble...I am so glad to hear that you were able to get hold of Curvy. I am so sorry to hear of her situation and her parents' health difficulties. I am praying and pulling for all of you. Many hugs to you and Curvy.

[Oldfart]

Grumble

Tough it out and see where it goes. Glad to hear you've touched bases.

[kathy1]

Prayers, good thoughts and hugs to you both.