...But I Won't Do That

[Lilith]

cheesy over played song but I adore Meatloaf sooooooo....


*sings "I would do anything for love but I won't do that."*

What is your that?

What have you been asked to do sexually that you refused?

Have you since done it?

Why did you say no then?

[cherrypie7788]

My boyfriend recently tried to get me to suck him off after anal sex, and I told him absolutely not. I will NEVER.

[jennaflower]

I agree with cherrypie on this... that is my NEVER too

[Loulabelle]

I told my first lover (and myself) that I would never masturbate in front of him (or anyone else for that matter).......my how things change! :D

[Summer]

Mine was anal. Like Loulabelle said .. "my how things change!"
Though don't get me wrong it still is a "sot so sure" thing.

[BigBear57]

I refused a blowjob from a teacher when I was 15.... what can I say? He wasn't my type!

[texascubfan]

incest. just about the ONLY thing that turns me off.

[rabbit]

incest. just about the ONLY thing that turns me off.

Me, too.

[gray]

so far none of my partners have asked me to do anything I didnt want to do.

i guess i am not into the idea of giving another guy a blow job...but then i have never been asked.

[lakritze]

#1 can be quite interesting at times.But #2 is to be taken care of in private behind a closed door with a good magazine.I would never do that. Quite open to anything else though......Except the top three no no's....kids,animals and dead people...

[osuche]

I once refused to do golden showers with someone...but upon further consideration I might be willing to try it.

Oh ~~ and I am with lakritze on the #2 thing....actually, I prefer to do #1 on my own unless I am in a pinch. Some things take the romance away...I know it happens...but there is such a ting as too much comfort in a relationship. :D

[cherrypie7788]

I agree with the #2 thing..I let my bf watch me do #1 when he just wants to be a voyeuristic perv :D lol

I'd adverse to anything involving #2, though. That's another NEVER for me. Anal sex is as kinky as I go in that department, and that happens only when he forces it (once in a blue moon).

[darogle]

I've never had the instance or inclination to refuse anything I've been asked to do...so far. As to what my "that" would be, if asked, kids, necrophila, and scat come to mind.

[scotzoidman]

Hard to believe, but I once refused to eat her pussy...so long ago, i'm not sure why i didn't wanna do it...

[Navarre]

Blood play
Breath play
Kids
Scat

Those are my hard limits.

[WildIrish]

I've never turned anything down...but then again, I haven't had any special requests.

[Aqua]

About the only thing I remember ever turning down was a request to role play as Grandpa. Mainly cause I didn't think I could do it in a sexy way.

[WildIrish]

About the only thing I remember ever turning down was a request to role play as Grandpa. Mainly cause I didn't think I could do it in a sexy way.

Grandpa Munster? Now HE was a sexy dude! :D

[flutelady]

If both partners are ok with it, then whatever they agree upon is game.

At this point in time, there are some things I can't see me agreeing to...

No kids, pets, poop, pain (well, maybe just a little pain). But mostly, no sharing. I know that's not a popular stance, but it's mine and I embrace it.

[imaginewithme]

I am just not too much into him squirting cum ON my face....... that's all i can think of.

[dicksbro]

Kids, pets, or poop ... definitely on my "nope" list.

[vampeyes]

Ok OK first Meatloaf cheesy? Awww Lil you hurt me with that one..... But alas on with the answer :D

I remember once upon a time I absolutely dead on refused to even consider anything to do with anal...... Man am I glad I eventually reconsidered that one :halo:

The only hard and fast rules I have now are pretty much the same as most no kids, necrophelia doesn't do it for me either (although I have always loved Cold Ethel by Alice Cooper... and plus the "undead doesn't count does it? lol) and no scat.

I try to have an open mind on almost anything and always love to try something new.

[Loren]

If both partners are ok with it, then whatever they agree upon is game.

At this point in time, there are some things I can't see me agreeing to...

No kids, pets, poop, pain (well, maybe just a little pain). But mostly, no sharing. I know that's not a popular stance, but it's mine and I embrace it.

Yeah, pets are a problem. I remember one afternoon early in our relationship. We needed to know if anyone was coming, we had to leave the door open.

The cat (it belonged to others there) saw affection going on and was determined to get in on it. Unfortunately, she is a bit afraid of cats. I kept trying to shoo it off without disrupting our activities too much, but the cat wouldn't get the message.

(Of course I'm sure this isn't what you meant by pets!)

[AZRedHot]

I've never been asked to do anything I didn't want to do, or at least, didn't want to do after a bit of thought. ;) As for my limits, no purposeful poop play (there's going to be some collateral damage with ass play, and that's not what I'm talking about here). No pain, pain being defined as something I want to stop RIGHT THIS SECOND. No animals. No minors.

[LixyChick]

There was a time...when I was quite young (don't ask how young...just suffice it to say I was yoooooooooung) when I found out that some women actually take a penis into their mouth!!! My best g/f and I pinky swore (we may have even pricked our fingers and drew blood and swore on that) that we would NEVER EVER take a penis into our mouths!

I was just a pinch more advanced than her after a while (bearing in mind, she and her cousin were the ones who gave me "the sex talk"...actually it was more like a lesson with lots of giggles...but I digress). OK...I caved first cause I have always been curious of things I don't know or understand! Now...what the hell was all the hub-bub and pinky swearing shit all about???? ROFLMFAO!

I'm with everyone else with the poop thing too! And...dead people scare me to the point of wetting my pants...and not in the good way either! I'm sure there's stuff I've never heard of...so if something crops up and I refuse it...I'll know where to talk about it!

[Oldfart]

We all seem to be hung up on the Big 4, kids, pets, poop and (a lot of us) pain.

I won't hurt a partner nor give up my place on the SOFA.