Foreskin, condoms and sex

[Belial]

Hi guys,

I am uncircumcised, and even when I'm hard the foreskin still covers most of the head. All of the directions I've seen or heard of for putting condoms on say to roll the foreskin back, and while I can do this, it's not exactly comfortable. The foreskin is kind of bunched around the underside of the head and the inside of the foreskin is exposed and is extremely sensitive - and not in a fun way. Is this something I have to get used to or is this not necessary for using condoms?

Also, does the foreskin get pulled back during sex? I'd have thought not but I'm interested to know....

[dreamgurl]

You might want to try the female condom, they don't require anything special being done to the penis. I hope you find something that works.

[osuche]

Hmmm....when we used condoms we never pulle dhis foreskin back -- he finds this feeling somewhat painful as well. And yes, the foreskin does move during sex -- I think this provides some of the plesaurable feeling during sex....and I think it also moves a bit even when in the condom.

LMAO...Not that I am an expert, but this is my observations after having sex with a guy who has foreskin for the past 10 years... :p

[Belial]

Hmmm....when we used condoms we never pulle dhis foreskin back -- he finds this feeling somewhat painful as well. And yes, the foreskin does move during sex -- I think this provides some of the plesaurable feeling during sex....and I think it also moves a bit even when in the condom.

LMAO...Not that I am an expert, but this is my observations after having sex with a guy who has foreskin for the past 10 years... :p

Indeed, this is how I masturbate....so the foreskin doesn't get pulled all the way back? Does this depend on the tightness and lubrication of the woman?

[Casperr]

I have no idea about this, since my foreskin moves behind the head easily.

I hate recommending surgery for anything that isn't absolutely necessary, but if you're bothered by it it's a fairly simple operation called a dorsal slit. It's basically a small incision that then allows the foreskin to move back more freely. After it's done there's no noticeable effects or anything. Radical I know, just letting you know in case you're interested.

That's one of the great things about sex.... there's so many tiny details! :D

CasperTG

[Loulabelle]

My ex's foreskin was like yours I think.....it didn't go all the way back completely exposing the head, and it was something I had to bear in mind when I was using my hands to pleasure him. It did however, move a little during sex, and wearing a condom was never a problem, but then I don't think the instructions on the condoms I've used, have ever mentioned pulling the foreskin right back.

As for how far it gets pulled back during sex, I'd say it can depend on a lot of things. I'm afraid to say that on two occasions, I've caused some mild injury to penises during sex, where the foreskin has gone too far back and the skin has split a little. On the first occasion, it was with the above mentioned ex while he was taking me from behind: in my enthusiasm, I pushed back onto his penis a little more energetically than I should have done, pushing his foreskin back further than it would comfortably go, which did cause him a little bleeding and some pain (nothing compared to the pain he'd caused me in the past by not being gentle enough though!). A similar thing also happened with Fussy once, which, again, was entirely my fault, as I 'raped' him one afternoon, mounting him before I was quite lubed up enough for it to glide in easily (damn me and my nymphomania!)

However, I'd say that the risk of that happening when you're wearing a condom is pretty much nil, since they are quite protective and that it really isn't something you should worry about, since it's not exactly a frequent occurrence and on both occasions, I think I felt worse than the man in question, for being too enthusiastic.

[Belial]

My ex's foreskin was like yours I think.....it didn't go all the way back completely exposing the head, and it was something I had to bear in mind when I was using my hands to pleasure him. It did however, move a little during sex, and wearing a condom was never a problem, but then I don't think the instructions on the condoms I've used, have ever mentioned pulling the foreskin right back.

As for how far it gets pulled back during sex, I'd say it can depend on a lot of things. I'm afraid to say that on two occasions, I've caused some mild injury to penises during sex, where the foreskin has gone too far back and the skin has split a little. On the first occasion, it was with the above mentioned ex while he was taking me from behind: in my enthusiasm, I pushed back onto his penis a little more energetically than I should have done, pushing his foreskin back further than it would comfortably go, which did cause him a little bleeding and some pain (nothing compared to the pain he'd caused me in the past by not being gentle enough though!). A similar thing also happened with Fussy once, which, again, was entirely my fault, as I 'raped' him one afternoon, mounting him before I was quite lubed up enough for it to glide in easily (damn me and my nymphomania!)

However, I'd say that the risk of that happening when you're wearing a condom is pretty much nil, since they are quite protective and that it really isn't something you should worry about, since it's not exactly a frequent occurrence and on both occasions, I think I felt worse than the man in question, for being too enthusiastic.

tyvm Lou :hug:

So....when those incidents happened, were you being abnormally vigourous? Is it like the vagina "grabs" the foreskin as in masturbation?

[Loulabelle]

I'm not sure that 'grab' is the word I'd use exactly but basically the penis moves inside the vagina and the foreskin kinda lags behind a little so that on the inward thrust, the head of the penis is uncovered more and on the outward thrust, the head disappears back underneath the foreskin.

I'd say on both occasions you could have described the sex as 'abnormally vigorous' and in both cases it was I who was in control of the movement which caused the problem. In your standard missionary position where you will be in charge of how deep the thrusts are and of how they are timed, I really don't think you're going to encounter the same problem. Afterall, if you feel any discomfort you'd stop, wouldn't you?

Ah hell, this is so difficult to explain.....I should just come over there and SHOW you that you have nothing to worry about! :D

[Belial]

I agree that you need to show me :)

Still, I want to be able to have her on top too...

[Daft]

I've always wanted to try a foreskin lol. I was cut so I guess I'll never know for shure what it feels like and if its better or worse or no different.

[joys]

I am circumcised but can give you an idea. The uncircumcised foreskin can be long to cover the tip of penis. There is nothing wrong with this if kept clean. Of course it is the most sensative part and yes, you must still use condoms if you are not with your usual partner.

Your foreskin does not have anything to do with protection or pleasure

[snaf]

I'm uncircumcised and when I discovered that there was a little treasure hidden under that skin I also quickly discovered that the head was extremely sensitive. So much so that I couldn't bare to even lay a finger on it when exposed. I did a little reading and porn watching and it occured to me that since most guys don't have that skin, overcoming that sensitivity was indeed possible. So I did that. I started by peeling the skin back (may need lube at first) and just lying in bed like that, not touching it but letting it be exposed to air and the skin of my belly as it just lied there. Eventually I worked myself up to touching and holding it (though gently). Then I would pull the skin back, put on underwear and pants, and walk around with it rubbing around in my undies. One day I went to school like that. Then I started touching it while masturbating. The rest is a blur but it took work and now I'm fine with it. I actually found that when fully hard it became less sentitive and easier to work with. Even still I prefer to be handled by my girl with the skin in place unless she's lubed up her hands a real real lot and during sex the skin comes back on its own and all is well. Lubing the inside of the condom a bit might help the comfort too. Also remember the foreskin will become more stretched out if you practice pulling it back so if it's too tight to be comfortable, just practice.

On a slightly different note, I've always wondered something. When I first exposed that skin to the world, it hurt. It was nestled in the foreskin and protected for so long. I wonder if that's how babies feel when born. Their skin has never had unlubricated touch. It's never been exposed to the elements and dried out. No wonder they cry and memory of those times is blocked out.