Today is the first day of the rest of my life

[cowgirltease]

As a single woman. My divorce is final and I'm going to take it one day at a time. I'm going to make "ME" happy for once. I feel like a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders and I'm ready to go on.
Just had to share that with you guys. Thanks to all of you who have been so supportive of me. Been there when I needed you and helped me through the really rough times. I love you. :)

[imaginewithme]

Congratulations...now you can concentrate on YOU....
Proud of you!!!

I am sending hugs to you!

[GingerV]

Congratulations CGT. I think you're greeting this event with exactly the right attitude. More, I think you're already well on your way into the rest of your life.....and may it be all the wonderful things that you deserve.

[darogle]

Congratulations honey! Glad you came through it and with your head held high I might add! You deserve to finally be happy. Hope each day for the rest of your life is better than the one before. Pursue your happiness with all the fervor and zeal you can muster. I hope that I can take your hand and walk beside you on the journey of the rest of your life; I want to see what a happy you looks like in 50 years! :love:

[Lilith]

(((((((((((((cgt)))))))))))))))

[cowgirltease]

Thanks guys. I still need every hug I can get right now. Yeah it still hurts.

[Steph]

(((((((((CGT)))))))) You've got a lot to look forward to! Whoop! Whoop!!

Best news ever! :D (OK, best news since Lou and Fussy's announcement, but it's right up there!!! :D)

[rabbit]

(((CGT))) you need to celebrate with a nice long therapeudic trail ride!

Enjoy!!!!


rabbit

[flutelady]

Hey CGT, I'm really happy for you! You're such a good example to me of a strong courageous woman, thank you for that.... and best of luck as you begin this new journey.

(((((CGT)))))

[dicksbro]

Best wishes CGT. Take a hug. ((( CGT )))

[gekkogecko]

hugs.

[Pegasusx62]

CGT...you know that I am always here if you ever need something or need someone to talk to. I love you and am happy that you are feeling better now. WOOHOO ....think its time for me to come down so we can celebrate ;)





Hugs & kisses :love:

[cowgirltease]

(((CGT))) you need to celebrate with a nice long therapeudic trail ride!

Enjoy!!!!


rabbit
You are so right about that!

[cowgirltease]

CGT...you know that I am always here if you ever need something or need someone to talk to. I love you and am happy that you are feeling better now. WOOHOO ....think its time for me to come down so we can celebrate ;)
Hugs & kisses :love:

Okay now you're starting to put the smile back on my face. :)
I love you too girlfriend. Hugs and kisses back.

[boilergirl1]

trust me the worst is over and the healing seems to go alot faster than the shit that came before it.....i don't know you but i can feel you and it's all good girlfriend!
Now the fun in life returns :jester:

[kathy1]

Congrats CGT!!! I'm just beginning to walk the same road you've already been down....so good to see someone come out the other side a better and happier person....it's also good to know I'm not the only one who needs some real "me" time (makes me not feel like such a selfish twit)....I wish for you only joy, peace and happiness ahead

[LixyChick]

The best is yet to come hun! My best wishes for a happy rest of your life!

*hugs*

[cowgirltease]

The best is yet to come hun! My best wishes for a happy rest of your life!

*hugs*

Thanks Lixy. That means a lot coming from you.

kathy1... I'm here for you too ya know.

boilergirl1......been a long time since I had FUN. and I'm damn sure ready! ;)

[Sugarsprinkles]

Congratulations, CGT!!! If any of that "ME" time includes a trip to Branson, you'd better be sure to look me up.....I'd love to do what I can to help you enjoy some of that much needed "ME" time. HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[cowgirltease]

Oh my!!!!! Some lil Pixie was happy my divorce was final. :love:
Thank You Honey! You're the sweetest.

[Vullkan]

Ms ...Tease

I am sorry for you in that you had to go through a divorce. No one I hope ever marries with the expectation it will end in divorce. And I am too familiar with the saga of going through a divorce and have some idea what you might have endured--again for that I am profoundly sorry.

Yet I am happy for you that you are free to discover yourself. So often we lose ourselves when we get married. Myself I was the hardworking fool that eventually forgot how to laugh--and now am enjoying life, being litteraly a Vulcan (God of the Forge) making things that I've always wanted to. Now you have the time to discover what it is you desire in life.

[cowgirltease]

Thank you Vullkan. No, When I married I thought it was for the rest of my life. He changed. We changed and the relationship got very absuive. I think my daughter has suffered the most and I am so sorry she had to witness this. It really should have happened sooner for her sake but I just couldn't. I too, am one of those hard workers who feels like I have to get many things accomplished before I die and I forget to enjoy life as it passes by.
All I truly desire is happiness. I know it doesn't come from money. I have everything I could ever want or need. I'm just not sure what it will take to make me truly happy. Who knows.

[cowgirltease]

Congratulations, CGT!!! If any of that "ME" time includes a trip to Branson, you'd better be sure to look me up.....I'd love to do what I can to help you enjoy some of that much needed "ME" time. HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you Sugar. :) Hugs back to you.

[huntersgirl]

I know how good it feels to finally have it official 1/27/04 for me, I will never forget the date especially since it took sooooo freakin' long!!! So big hugs to you CGT!!!!! Congratulations. Here is to the beginning of the rest of your life :cheers: I wish you lots of hapiness and satisfaction in whatever you persue! :)

[sodaklostsoul]

:line: Congrats CGT, I'm so glad things are going well for you now.

((((((((((CGT)))))))))))) If we could I'm sure we would all get together and give you one of these :grope:

Beautifull roses, your one lucky lady to have a pixie like him.

May you both find happiness in the rest of your lives together. Let's see how many days to go 45?? :)

[cowgirltease]

I know how good it feels to finally have it official 1/27/04 for me, I will never forget the date especially since it took sooooo freakin' long!!! So big hugs to you CGT!!!!! Congratulations. Here is to the beginning of the rest of your life :cheers: I wish you lots of hapiness and satisfaction in whatever you persue! :)


OMG!!!!! You too?? What the hell is wrong with these guys?????? You're so awesome! :confused: :rolleyes:

[Midnight Kiss]

{{{{hugs}}}

[Vullkan]

Ms ....Tease

It makes me sick to here about abuse done to anyone. More so that you have a child involved at least seeing it...again I am so sorry for the whole of your family--perhaps someday you may wish to commission me to make a sword that could be put to good use-HAHAH!

Best wishs and good luck in your new life :)

[flywater]

:love: My dear CGT, congrats! I am glad to hear it is finally final! May you enjoy the rest of your time and have great fun while enjoying life! You will be fine and if you ever get out east, cum see me love!!

[musicman]

you go girl.....

you DESERVE this happiness!

[osuche]

I am so happy for you! Sometimes the hardest thing in life is learning that we need to look out for #1.

[cowgirltease]

Ms ....Tease

It makes me sick to here about abuse done to anyone. More so that you have a child involved at least seeing it...again I am so sorry for the whole of your family--perhaps someday you may wish to commission me to make a sword that could be put to good use-HAHAH!

Best wishs and good luck in your new life :)


yep, She now has night terrors and panic attacks. To those of you who are staying in your relationships because of the kids...... I beg you NOT to! I learned the hard way what damage can be done to a child as young as 2 years old. You don't think they can't remember? OH YES THEY DO!
I could have used the law on my side Vulkan but, it's hard to convince them when members of his family ARE the law. :rolleyes:

[cowgirltease]

I am so happy for you! Sometimes the hardest thing in life is learning that we need to look out for #1.

Yeah and when you do try to look out for#1 you're called a selfish bitch. :rolleyes:

[cowgirltease]

:line: Congrats CGT, I'm so glad things are going well for you now.

((((((((((CGT)))))))))))) If we could I'm sure we would all get together and give you one of these :grope:

Beautifull roses, your one lucky lady to have a pixie like him.

May you both find happiness in the rest of your lives together. Let's see how many days to go 45?? :)


44 :D

[cowgirltease]

I know how good it feels to finally have it official 1/27/04 for me, I will never forget the date especially since it took sooooo freakin' long!!!


7/14/04....... I gave him a Birthday present he will never forget. :devil: :D

[Fireguy1222]

Hey CGT-

I am just starting out on the divorce path. Any advice for a guy who didn't do anything wrong? All replys are welcome.

J

[cowgirltease]

Find someone who can live with your hours being a firefighter or find a different profession.

[BadChicken]

Congratulations on getting the big D finalized. Just remember "That which does not kill us only makes us stronger".

[cowgirltease]

That's just it. It damn near did 2 years ago. I hate to say it but it doesn't make me stronger. It only just makes me very tired and bitter now seeing what he put me through. I'm getting too old to put up with immaturity and I won't hesitate now to stop it. Like I said before life's too short. Either get on or get the hell out of the way. ;)

[denny]

(((((cgt)))))

[babybunny]

I'm sorry I missed your big day. But here is lots of hugs for you! :hug: :hug: :hug:

Take care of yourself and your baby. Life is hard alot of the times but it makes us better people for it if we can make it past the bitter part. :wine:

[PantyFanatic]

7/14/04....... I gave him a Birthday present he will never forget. :devil: :D

What a coincidence.:D

14 July~ Bastille Day
The day the French stormed the kings prison and set the people free. :)

[cowgirltease]

I tell you what..... I definitely feel like I've been set free. Even tho I have stumbled and fallen down since then. :p :rolleyes: But I'm back up and runnin. :)

[cowgirltease]

I'm sorry I missed your big day. But here is lots of hugs for you! :hug: :hug: :hug:

Take care of yourself and your baby. Life is hard alot of the times but it makes us better people for it if we can make it past the bitter part. :wine:
I'm gettin there babybunny. I may be takin baby steps but I'm GONNA get there. :)

[IAKaraokeGirl]

That's just it. It damn near did 2 years ago. I hate to say it but it doesn't make me stronger. It only just makes me very tired and bitter now seeing what he put me through. I'm getting too old to put up with immaturity and I won't hesitate now to stop it. Like I said before life's too short. Either get on or get the hell out of the way. ;)

Send some of that attitude my way, CGT. :) Mine was very peaceful...we agreed on most things...until $$$ came into it. Instead of signing the decree and getting things over with, he has decided to fight, just to, as my *seven*-year old told my *sister,* for Christ's sake, "get revenge on Mommy." He's jeopardizing the purchase of a new house, and he's not paying a dime in the meantime.

Good thing I have a good attorney/boss/friend. Did I mention I pointed Child Support Recovery in his direction? :banner:

[cowgirltease]

1. Don't believe a word he says
2. Don't talk to him. It will only make you angrier.
3. You are paying that lawyer, you make him work for it and you stand your ground with him! (your lawyer)
4. Don't sweat the little shit if it will make him settle.
5. Go for the stuff you can sell or is worth the most money. :D
6. Make sure EVERYTHING you want is documented in the divorce!
7. If those taxes aren't paid you make sure it's in the divorce too how your goin to settle the problem so you won't be liable on down the line.
8. Good Luck my heart goes out to you! :hug: :hug:

[Belial]

Sorry I missed this thread before.

*huge hugs* to you and your daughter, cgt :hug: :hug: :hug:

Love you :)

[cowgirltease]

Belial what you just said means the world to me. you've always been there for me. You are a true friend and I love you too! :x:

[Aqua]

(((((((((CGT))))))))))))

Where the hell have I been? I just now saw this thread. Those Demon Bitch Goddesses are awfully distracting, you know?

I am glad to hear it is final and that you have done what is right. Better late than never does apply in this case and it's good that you can march forward armed with the memories of past mistakes to shield you from similar ones in the future.