Erections and loose skin....

[kitkate]

So awhile back I posted about my b/f and I, and asked for advice on things since he had not achieved orgasm with me.

Since then, things have been great- your advice all around was wonderful and we're slowly but surely making progress...we kind of backtracked and have been working on mutal masturbation or post-sex masturbation with my assisting. He is now able to cum in front of me and we've made great strides in out love life! (Thanks again guys!)

In our exploration, we've found one of the problems in that he masturbates with a hand at the base of his shaft because he doesn't like the way his skin moves - he likes a wet hand to glide over taut skin. When we make love, we use a condom and he doesn't have a hand holding him, so the skin "slips" a bit. He's circumsized and erect completely- no problems there- just seems to have a bit of skin, maybe only a centimeter, extra.

We were wondering if you all, being so knowledgable and wise, might have sugestions. Maybe a cockring?

[Lilith]

amen to the cock ring...could not hurt to try it!

[Jude30]

I didn't read the original thread but I think you've found what his real problem is.

If a guy masturbates the same way all the time he can train himself to only orgasm one way. I doubt the cock ring would help much but you can try it. I say it won't help because even with the cock ring your vagina won't feel like his hand.

He needs to change his method of masturbation and retrain his body to accept different stimulation.

[kitkate]

lil: any suggestions on types?

jude: I know you're right- we kind of had the "combo retarded orgasm" problem in that he was afraid to open himself up in front of someone and he is used to masturbating the same way. We're working on that- just wanted some other suggestions so that maybe, somehow, we could meet in the middle. The skin thing really seems to bother him and I was hoping that we might aid that a bit, and with the retraining, be able to reach a sucessful climax.