Lilith
06-28-2004, 09:31 PM
Saw this article (http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_150/155_love_tip.html) for men and agreed.
Anyone have any other tips to add???
1- Want it
You can't go down there only to reciprocate or worse, hoping that it'll encourage her to pay your manhood a visit -- you should want to be there. Encouraging sounds like "mmm," "ooh" and "aah" will make her feel like you're enjoying the act. And you should be enjoying it.
2- Move slowly
Nothing heightens a sexual experience like taking things slowly. Start out with small, slow strokes of the tongue and gradually make the strokes longer (covering the labia), but keep the pace slow at all times.
3- Use a strong tongue
Instead of keeping your tongue relaxed whilst tickling her pink, opt instead to give your tongue that razor's edge by making it pointy and licking her all over the area. Soft is nice, but hard can be fantastic for her.
4- Use fingers
While the tongue is great and, well, necessary for oral sex, throwing a couple of fingers into the mix will definitely up the ante, so to speak. Use your clean, nail-trimmed finger to manipulate her body from the inside, while your tongue continues to do its thing on the outside. Multiple sensations may lead to other multiples.
5- Play with her butt
In the spirit of fingers, while your index finger is finding its way inside her vagina, use your thumb to simply rub the rim of her anus. If she reacts in a very positive way, wet a finger with her juices and slowly insert your finger into her anus. But remember; once that finger goes in the back way, you shouldn't put it in the front again.
6- Massage while you eat
You are not restricted to the genital area of her body; you can periodically use your hands to hold on to her waist and hips, and you can always manipulate her nipples with your fingers while your mouth is busy at work below. As well, you can massage her butt cheeks, rub her thighs, or even play with her ankles and feet.
7- Spread those lips
Use your hands to spread her labia apart and lightly flick your tongue against her clitoris while the cool air does its thing to keep it cool. As well, lightly massage her outer labia with your fingertips periodically.
8- Penetrate her with your tongue
You've spent so much time catering to the outskirts of her honey, now it's time to move on in. Point your tongue and make it as hard as you can (like an erection of sorts), and slowly penetrate her with it, slowly going as deep as you can.
9- Close those lips
Lightly squeeze her outer lips together so that her inner lips form a closed mouth and start off by licking one side to completion, and then the other. Let go of her lips, wait a moment, and start all over again.
10- Suck that clitoris
When she's well on her way to flowing pleasure, take her entire clitoris into your mouth and slowly suck on it, all the while constantly rubbing your tongue against it. Remember to take your time and keep your ears open for her reaction.
11- Use a mint
Whether you opt for Altoids (the curiously strong mint) or Halls (the black variety), placing a mint in your mouth whilst arousing her love button will provide that cooling sensation we all love so much (blowing air is not necessary). Pop a mint into your mouth and get to work. And if you're lucky, she'll do the same.
12- Alternate between mouth and manhood
Give her a piece of oral and penile penetration by alternating between your tongue and your penis. Lick up a storm for a while, then make your way up to kiss her while inserting your manhood into her. Withdraw after a minute, get back down there and eat some more, then penetrate again. Keep her guessing all the while.
Anyone have any other tips to add???
1- Want it
You can't go down there only to reciprocate or worse, hoping that it'll encourage her to pay your manhood a visit -- you should want to be there. Encouraging sounds like "mmm," "ooh" and "aah" will make her feel like you're enjoying the act. And you should be enjoying it.
2- Move slowly
Nothing heightens a sexual experience like taking things slowly. Start out with small, slow strokes of the tongue and gradually make the strokes longer (covering the labia), but keep the pace slow at all times.
3- Use a strong tongue
Instead of keeping your tongue relaxed whilst tickling her pink, opt instead to give your tongue that razor's edge by making it pointy and licking her all over the area. Soft is nice, but hard can be fantastic for her.
4- Use fingers
While the tongue is great and, well, necessary for oral sex, throwing a couple of fingers into the mix will definitely up the ante, so to speak. Use your clean, nail-trimmed finger to manipulate her body from the inside, while your tongue continues to do its thing on the outside. Multiple sensations may lead to other multiples.
5- Play with her butt
In the spirit of fingers, while your index finger is finding its way inside her vagina, use your thumb to simply rub the rim of her anus. If she reacts in a very positive way, wet a finger with her juices and slowly insert your finger into her anus. But remember; once that finger goes in the back way, you shouldn't put it in the front again.
6- Massage while you eat
You are not restricted to the genital area of her body; you can periodically use your hands to hold on to her waist and hips, and you can always manipulate her nipples with your fingers while your mouth is busy at work below. As well, you can massage her butt cheeks, rub her thighs, or even play with her ankles and feet.
7- Spread those lips
Use your hands to spread her labia apart and lightly flick your tongue against her clitoris while the cool air does its thing to keep it cool. As well, lightly massage her outer labia with your fingertips periodically.
8- Penetrate her with your tongue
You've spent so much time catering to the outskirts of her honey, now it's time to move on in. Point your tongue and make it as hard as you can (like an erection of sorts), and slowly penetrate her with it, slowly going as deep as you can.
9- Close those lips
Lightly squeeze her outer lips together so that her inner lips form a closed mouth and start off by licking one side to completion, and then the other. Let go of her lips, wait a moment, and start all over again.
10- Suck that clitoris
When she's well on her way to flowing pleasure, take her entire clitoris into your mouth and slowly suck on it, all the while constantly rubbing your tongue against it. Remember to take your time and keep your ears open for her reaction.
11- Use a mint
Whether you opt for Altoids (the curiously strong mint) or Halls (the black variety), placing a mint in your mouth whilst arousing her love button will provide that cooling sensation we all love so much (blowing air is not necessary). Pop a mint into your mouth and get to work. And if you're lucky, she'll do the same.
12- Alternate between mouth and manhood
Give her a piece of oral and penile penetration by alternating between your tongue and your penis. Lick up a storm for a while, then make your way up to kiss her while inserting your manhood into her. Withdraw after a minute, get back down there and eat some more, then penetrate again. Keep her guessing all the while.