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[Lilith]

I told Mr. Lil that before I kick the bucket I would like to experience 15 more lovers.


For those of you who are in committed relationships, do you wish you had more or varied sexual experiences?

How many lovers do you think you personally might need to feel sexually satisfied?

[Aqua]

I only need one more, Lil, to feel satisified. ;)

I think I have had plenty of varied experiences. Out of things I really wanted to do, the only thing I have not experienced, which I don't have to have, is an FFM. I've been in MFMF's and MMF's but the FFM has eluded me. LOL Ah well... now if I just had a ticket to Florida... ;)

[darogle]

No regrets as far as numbers go really, even though it hasn't been very many. I do wish the lovers that I have had in the past would have been better though. After finally finding someone so sexually compatable with me, I look back and really think I got robbed. :p Plus, I can't help but think it would have made me a better lover too.

p.s.
If you're ever in need of filling one of those 15 slots Lil, I'd be more than happy to oblige...what are friends for after all??? :lust: :D

[cyberkitten]

if there are grrlie spots open, i wanna be first in line plz :D

[LarryL]

Without a time frame, I am bewildered. Is the question about the past or present? I'll answer both ways and see what happens.

*****
Do I wish I had had more or varied sexual experiences in the past before I began my current committed relationshp?
No. Back then, way back then, in the days of free love, love in's, the sexual revolution, wife swapping, we had sex all over the place. Group sex was quite common.

*****
Do I wish I had more or varied sexual experiences now?
Yes, I do. Ooooo I do. I do, I do, I do.

****
As concerns the number of lovers I personally might need to feel sexually satisfied--unknown. In this case, quality outweighs quantity.

[Coaster]

I'll hop in your line too LIL...along with the others, that will help me experience something that I never have.... MFMFMFMF and any other combination..... cause i've always been monogamous.:D

[WildIrish]

I pretty much agree with LarryL.

Quality makes quantity irrelevant, and some variety right now would be great!

I don't regret my lack of experience but if Mrs. WI ever went to the great beyond...moment of silence, please...there wouldn't be any place for you to hide! Um, I mean, I would eventually get back into the dating scene and want to experience sex at some point. :D

[wyndhy]

i had never thought about it before, but i'd have to say no. i've only been with two guys and i had one lesbian experience in my salad days, but i am more than content with big, and the sex is varied enough, and great enough, that i don't feel the need for more partners, just more experiences. :D even if it involved other people, i'd always want him there.
besides, i can always live vicariously through lil.:D (provided she shares)

[Lilith]

Trust me...if I ever do something sexy you'll be hearing all about it :p

[The Shadow]

What we really want and I think several of the people around here would agree with , IS FILM !!!!!!!

[osuche]

You know, every person is differnt....kind of like a fine wine. I think I'd like to sample more, but I don't need to get drunk. ;)

[LarryL]

Well put osuche. I like the way you think.

[WildIrish]

Don't forget, when sampling fine wines...you usually rinse your mouth out in between each one to cleanse your palate! ha ha

[naughtyangel]

Do I wish I had had other partners before my husband? No, never in a million years, because what we have together is very special :) Like I mentioned in the fantasies thread, a very common one of mine involves other men...I'm sure in large part to the "unknown" factor....and in even larger part to Pixies :p But, like wyndhy, if ever my experiences bring me into that sort of contact with another man, it will be with my husbands blessing...and hopefully his participation!

[marilynpage]

ive only had one partner and thats my fiance, i think im really young im only 19 so i don tknow how ill feel in a few years, but i dont think i want any other man maybe a girl or two...

[nikki1979]

i had pleanty of lovers before i met jeeping, sinc i met him almost 5 yrs ago hes been the only one....................
that said, no i dont nessacarly want more lovers outside his and my relationship, but i wud totally absoluty positivly LOVE to have some couples WITH us, or singles with us whatever we happen to find.
also i have said to him that when hes deployed he is more than allowed to have one night stands, i have rules for this tho NOTHING is to be broght home, kids or STDS , and he has to 100% use protection . he has not taken advantage of my offer yet i think its only because he knows when he does i do LOL (sames rules apply to me) i seriously wud have no probs over that, ive thought long n hard about it and just am not an jealous person.

~nikki

[osuche]

Nikki -- I am the same way. Too bad he's such a stick in the mud. :D

Jealousy just wastes time and energy...I know that I have his heart....although I also believe that the heart is big enough for more than one person.

[flutelady]

I don't feel that for me, it's a question of how many. If my first lover had been the right man for me, I'd have never looked beyond him. But he wasn't, and that's ok. My hope is that I'm older and (hopefully) wiser now.... and that maybe my search is over.

[Scarecrow]

Growing up at the time of free love and Woodstock I've had a lot of different experiences. I've also had a few since being married, both together and seperatly with full consent. But is there more? I'd like to think so.

P.S. Sign me up on your list Lilith

[denny]

I'm not going to tell you how wide and far I have spread my seed. I need to find emotional and sexual balance and things are looking up.

[connor]

don't feel that for me, it's a question of how many

I'm the same way. When I finally find the right one I'll be satisfied with that. I'm a quality over quantity person too.

[quisath]

Depends on a lot of things.

[Loulabelle]

I honestly don't think I want to experience any more lovers.....I've had 5 so far, and the fifth will probably be the last.....unless Fussy and I do ever experiment with threesomes etc, but at the moment neither of us feel the need to do anything but talk about it.

[Oldfart]

Every lover is different and deep down I hunger for that variety.

I won't risk my relationship for a fling, but still . . . . .

[cowgirltease]

I've had more than my fair share of lovers. I really don't know what I want. It's very hard to me say I'm sexually satisfied. I get bored easy with the same ol thing.

[Steph]

I've had well over 30 and there'll probably be a few more this summer alone but I'd settle down if the right guy came along. Then again, I tend to move so the "right guy" can't find me. :D

I think I've experienced pretty much everything, just have to get to a group sex party.

Having a variety of lovers has made me realize we need more men like WI (apologies to other Pixie men who share his philosophy). Men who love, nay need to perform oral sex, unselfish lovers. . . those men make women settle down.

[huntersgirl]

Originally posted by flutelady
I don't feel that for me, it's a question of how many. If my first lover had been the right man for me, I'd have never looked beyond him. But he wasn't, and that's ok. My hope is that I'm older and (hopefully) wiser now.... and that maybe my search is over.

I'm with you on this one! That doesn't mean that the fantasy of the possibility isn't fun or exciting. Like others have said if the opportunity and timing were right for others to join in, I would be open to that. For me the most important aspect to being sexually satisfied comes from having someone in my life who allows me to be me and express the possibilities of new sexual experiences. Being able to appreciate openly a strangers sex appeal goes a long way! Being able to play here and flirt and perv without jealousy is also a huge part! :)

[Glyndwr]

Originally posted by Lilith
I told Mr. Lil that before I kick the bucket I would like to experience 15 more lovers.


Is that all at once?????

You do realise that there are 15 in a rugby team? I normally play at Number 8 ;)

[Loulabelle]

Glyndwr, don't get me thinking about yummy Welsh Rugby lads....I'm an engaged woman! LOL

[imaginewithme]

I have only been with one person, my husband. At times I am curious about what it would be like to be single and how far would I go and how quickly, but then again, I would be single and be sitting in front of this computer not meeting anyone to hook up with.

I am too scared to be with anyone else and know that if it was a "cheating" situation, I just couldn't live with myself.

I remind myself daily "there's nothing wrong with dreamin'"

[SuzyQ]

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is what I want




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[jentheredhead]

Originally posted by naughtyangel
Do I wish I had had other partners before my husband? No, never in a million years, because what we have together is very special :) Like I mentioned in the fantasies thread, a very common one of mine involves other men...I'm sure in large part to the "unknown" factor....and in even larger part to Pixies :p But, like wyndhy, if ever my experiences bring me into that sort of contact with another man, it will be with my husbands blessing...and hopefully his participation!

this woman really loves her husband. he should know this......

[Lilith]

Well he didn't take the time to find all that out...







which speaks volumes.

[imaginewithme]

I JUST WANT MORE MORE MORE OF EVERYTHING

[denny]

I will be happy with just one more.

[flutelady]

Me too.... just one more.

[imaginewithme]

:love: :love: :love: can you feel it?

[HuggleZ]

Originally posted by Lilith
For those of you who are in committed relationships, do you wish you had more or varied sexual experiences?

Definately more and varied..

But everyone tells me the grass aint greener on the other side..

[Lilith]

Originally posted by HuggleZ
Definately more and varied..

But everyone tells me the grass aint greener on the other side..

I agree....the grass may not be greener but hey...I've got St. Augustine and I'd like to see what Bahia, or Fescue, or Rye, or even Centipede feels like under my toes;)

[skipthisone]

Ill go for having a few more. Maybe just the small sample spoons for a while.

[Lilith]

Originally posted by skipthisone
Ill go for having a few more. Maybe just the small sample spoons for a while.


The little pink ones????

But when I order a full quart I know just what I want :p

[Ryan²]

Alright, so I haven't had that many women, but it's enough to admit that variances do certainly apply.

[rabbit]

Before I tied the knot, I experienced a very wide variety of sexual experiences.

Since getting married 12 years ago, I have been a "one woman" man.

Do I wish I could have more of the variety, especially with a woman that enjoys oral (my wife doesn't...)? Sometimes yes...who knows what the future will bring? :D


rabbit