Self Love? *Puzzlement and Query from a new guy*

[asearching1]

Alright, I may be a bit dense here, but I've always considered myself to be fairly self-aware. Little did I know that I'm completely at a loss with myself. Although the sex is good, by hitting the "love" button on one of my own replies, I found that I only have a 19% love between myself and I.

My question is do I become a little more aware of my own feelings, do I spend more time initiating conversation with myself, even when I may not feel like I have anything worth saying, or do I simply end things before I become too deeply involved and end up with hurt feelings al around?

Any assistance would be appreciated.

[Lilith]

It means you don't practice *wink*wink* self-love enough:p

[asearching1]

Originally posted by Lilith
It means you don't practice *wink*wink* self-love enough:p

No. That's not it. Although I hve an open relationship with myself and see women on a regular basis, my sexual relationship with me is going strong. I see myself once, sometimes, twice a day.

[thereIam]

Hmmm. This does not sound promising. I recommend that you sign a prenup. That way if something (heaven forbid) does go amiss, you can't take yourself to the cleaners.

[cowgirltease]

well if it helps.............I love ya this much!:D

cowgirltease and
asearching1
have 48.5 % love between them




Hey, I'm glad to see you posting!;) :)

[Teddy Bear]

WELCOME TO PIXIES!!

This is a very loving place. Hang around and you'll find 'self-love' and probably any other kind of love too. :D :D

Have fun. :)

[LixyChick]

LOL! Poor baby! Welcum to Pixies...BTW! Glad to see ya jumping right in! Maybe this is the beginning of a beautiful relationship...with us (Pixies) and with yourself. Keep checking that score babe! It, and other things...*wink*...might go up in time!

LMFAO@thereIam!

[TinTennessee]

Welcome, told ya this was a wonderful place :)

[lakritze]

19% ? A lot of people stay in bad relationships out of habit. Have you ever heard....."I think I'm great,I think I'm grand,when I go to the movies I hold my hand.I put my arm around my waist and when I'm fresh,I slap my face." heh heh Welcome to Pixies.......

[Teddy Bear]

lakritze,
Thats terrific! LMAO.
I'd never heard it before. TY. :D

[wyndhy]

that love button was invented by a cruel god who wants to drive you into the arms of another. hold on tight to yourself, touch all those special places, and for goodness sake, ignore the nasty voice telling you you don't love yourself!

[asearching1]

You know, I'm beginning to wonder if I like myself, but "only like a friend".

[WildIrish]

Buy yourself some flowers, split a bottle of wine over dinner, and cuddle up on the couch in front of a good movie holding yourself. You'll be happy and relaxed...and you might even get lucky! (If you're in the mood) :D

[asearching1]

I dunno if I deserve that. I'mbeginning to suspect that I'm seeing someone behind my back.

[imaginewithme]

YOu are so funny!!!!!!

[asearching1]

Originally posted by imaginewithme
YOu are so funny!!!!!!

Oh sure, take my side.

Don't let me fool you. I charmed the pants off of myself when I first got to know me, but then I began to see the real me....

[imaginewithme]

OH thank you so much for the warning!!!!! Man, I am glad you told me ahead of time.

[asearching1]

I know!! Those pants came off an I scared the hell out of myself!!!

[imaginewithme]

OH STOP IT

[asearching1]

Would that be self-restraint? ...and if so, would I be into that?

[imaginewithme]

you tell me.....what if i told you we have 68% love????

[asearching1]

I'd tell you to add 1. :D

I'm getting a 28% love for us... weird huh? Perhaps there is hope for me and myself. Better yet, maybe a threesome? ;)

[imaginewithme]

YEAH good idea........ man you are smart!!!!