its official

[imalikalotapuss]

Well, today my marriage of 15+ years is now officially over with. Cant really describe how i feel right now. Part of me is happy and part of me is really sad. I imagine that those of you that have or will be getting a divorce must kinda know how i am feeling. I guess you could say that i am numb. I want to thank the special pixes that know the sitiuation and have helped me deal with all this. Thank you all.

[Lilith]

((hugs)) sorry your dreams didn't turn out.

[WildIrish]

I'm sorry to hear the news. Let me know if you need a shoulder.

[cbass1976]

a buddy got divorced a few monthes ago and he celebrated with a few cold beers and a few jaeger bombs

[jseal]

imalikalotapuss,

You can't change the past. Move on. Focus on the rest of your life.

[jennaflower]

HUGS.. wish there were more that I could say... or do... to help... just know that you are in my thoughts... and I am sending you lots of hugs.

[Belial]

Sorry to hear that. I hope it's ultimately for the best.

[Kissy]

15 years is a large part of your life. Just keep the good memories in your heart, throw out the bad ones, and look at tomorrow. You deserve the best and I hope you find what you want. ;)

~Kissy:p

[imalikalotapuss]

Lilith
wildirish
cbass1976
jseal
jennaflower
belail
kissy

Thank you all so much for your thoughts and best wishes. i hope that i can move forward and make a better life for myself. Everyone tells me that things like this happen for a reason and that it will get better. I just wished that i knew exactly what reason that it did happen..I think that this was the only solution to a very difficult relationship. I really do appreciate all of you for caring..

:)

[Sharni]

*many hugz*

[LixyChick]

((((((imalikalotapuss))))))

This is one of the toughest times! You're on an emotional roller coaster now. When it stops, it gets better inside...I promise it does!

Hang in there sweety...and try and focus on the present and future. To quote a corny cliche'..."This is the first day of the rest of YOUR life"! Live it to the ultimate potential!

[huntersgirl]

I will keep you in my thoughts! Hang in there, it is a difficult time for you, but I can assure you things do get better!:D

[Steph]

I can definitely see why you'd be feeling numb. I hope things stop feeling numb and you start feeling "good" soon. ;)

[Grumble]

its a tough journey pal and the best advice is to look forward.

Retain the good things and concentrate on the good times, easy to say, hard to do.

best wishes for a brighter future

[Aqua]

(((imalikalotapuss)))
It's tough ending a long relationship, no matter how it's ending. I pray that you will look forward to better times, and that you will find them.

[nikki1979]

not much more that i can say that hasnt been said so ill just send u some (((((((((((((((((BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIG HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS)))))))))))) and let u know ur in my thoughts, i hope the numbness goes away quickly.

nikki

[imalikalotapuss]

Sharni..thanks for the hugs..i need all i can get right now
LixyChick..thanks for the encouragement, i truly hope that you are right..
huntersgirl..i really really do appreciate your thoughts and concerns..thank you
Steph..thank you and i hope that the feeling of numbness will go..and be replaced with happy thoughts..but i guess it will take time
Grumble..thanks for the advice..the future i hope will look better,right now things arent real great..but no need to look back.
Aqua..thanks i appreciate your thoughts and prayers
nikki..thank for for the hugs and thoughts they really do mean a lot..

Thanks to all of you believe me the thoughts and comments really do help..
:)

[Pegasusx62]

Hugs to you sweetie...you know where I am anytime you need to talk... :)

[imalikalotapuss]

Thanks Pegasus..i will definately cry on your shoulder:heart: