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[dirtheadex]

Can you deep throat and is so how large is your partner. My wife is trying but has a hard time it makes her sick. She does this on her on and she likes to do it. It does feel go!!!!

[wyndhy]

yes i can! not to brag;) but i am rather good at it, too. i have no idea how big hubby is, we never measured. he is not too big or too small for me. when i do deep throat him, he does definately touch the VERY back of my throat. i have gagged on occation, but i find if i can relax in a zen-like way there are nooooo troubles. it's so worth it because he LOVES it and i LOVE pleasing him!!!!:slurp:

[IAKaraokeGirl]

It's all mind over matter, so to speak. It does take practice, and even the best of us at doing this have to fight the gag reflex occasionally. Still, it's all about relaxation. If there's less pressure to perform flawlessly, it will develop over time.

[Lilith]

Practice makes perfect...gotta learn to breathe through your nose and to relax your muscles.

[Gilly]

Some people have a worse gag reflex than others. Just depends on the person.

[nikanik]

I can and the best way to do it is just relax and go for it. Tell her to practice on a cherry popcicle thats what i did it helps to soothe the gag reflex.

[Lilith_82]

I can deep-throat. My partner is about 8.5 inches long, and I've never had a trouble with larger ones (the longest dick I've ever sucked was about 9.5 inches.. I kid you not.. it was magnificent). I was bullimic for years in my past, though, and I have no gag-reflex, so it just doesn't affect me.

[Nor_Cal]

MY FIRST POST:

My g/f hasn't been able to deep throat me yet. She says it makes her gag everytime and ruins the moment. I'm not saying I'm big or anything, maybe 6.5 (close to 7 if i'm ROCK hard), but I agree with the old "practice makes perfect" idea. But at the same time I don't think it a necessity to a great blowjob!

[Lilith]

Welcome Nor_Cal...and might I add a great answer. While I'm sure it must feel wonderful, I think all blow jobs are probably do;)

[katekate42]

I can do it, and my partner is about 7 inches or so. I still have a hard time relaxing when he goes really deep (as in part of the way actually down my throat) but no problems if he just touches the back of my throat. One way that might help is to have her lay on her back on the bed with her head hanging over the side and try it that way- with the head tilted back the throat becomes straighter instead of having that pesky bend in it :) That's how I learned how to do it- one word of caution- This position puts YOU in more control than her, so you'll probably have to work at making her feel more comfortable if she's going to relax at all.