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fun_lovin_bitch
03-22-2004, 02:01 PM
has anyone here (who isnt gay) ever had sex with someone of the same sex as them? i have personally had sex with another woman twice, and its pretty good, i have to admit. we women know how to pleasure...

imaginewithme
03-22-2004, 11:43 PM
No I never have...been close, but didn't happen. But I imagine that it would be wonderful knowing that we know all the exact buttons to push.....

Oldfart
03-23-2004, 08:57 AM
Define straight, please.

Sorry PF, had to get in first. LOL

Wildeye
03-23-2004, 05:13 PM
Yes

Once, but I'm not straight or gay or Bi, just like sex.

Wildeye

WildIrish
03-23-2004, 05:20 PM
Adolescent exploration but not full out sex. Not opposed to it, just never did it...yet. ;)

LixyChick
03-23-2004, 05:35 PM
Yes I have!

PantyFanatic
03-23-2004, 05:55 PM
Originally posted by Oldfart
Define straight, please.

Sorry PF, had to get in first. LOL

So do I get an "A" for consistency or a “F” for predictability? :confused:

jseal
03-23-2004, 06:31 PM
Oldfart,

I too find the leader intriguing.

always_horny
03-23-2004, 07:47 PM
Really wan't to, but would have to be with the right guy. I'm like ultra-specific where that would be concerned... totally shaved, pretty "fem"... stuff like that.

Actually, a beautiful she-male would probably suit me better ;)

Best of both worlds, there ;)

MinnesotaGuy
03-23-2004, 07:52 PM
Would love to try it.

XX-Access
03-23-2004, 08:44 PM
Well.... If you're feeling like having sex with the same gender, you can't be 100% "Straight" in my book.

That said, I consider myself 10-20% bisexual, meaning I like to have a look at a nice dick every once in a while... As for experiences.... Interested, but doubt it is going to happen.

BlondeCurlGirl
03-23-2004, 08:58 PM
I've had a thought or two about it...would like to try a 3-some experience

Mercury_Maniac
03-23-2004, 09:08 PM
the only time in my life that i could see another guy being involved is in a mmf threesome,

but only the woman is getting the penetration

bordendazed
03-25-2004, 01:02 PM
only 19 votes?

Geez....

Yea, and it was interesting - I decided that it's not the gender, it's the intent....

GusAspar
04-26-2004, 03:07 AM
I've voted "yes, but not by choice", but that is really stretching a point. When I was about 13, a boy about a year older than me (and very much bigger than me) took me into the toilets at school and made be fondle his cock. He got a very impressive hard-on, which had no interest for me at all. He went into the Army later, but what happened to him I don't know and I care less.
But fun_lovin_bitch, the idea of you having sex with another woman is a real turn-on...bet she did lovely things sucking those gorgeous tits...

lakritze
04-26-2004, 01:14 PM
I may be hetrosexual,but please don't call me straight.The word seems to be the antithisis of the idea that people can make personal choices regarding what the can do with their lives. When I was in high school, the common question was,"Are you a doper?" If you experimented with illegal drugs,you were considered a doper.If you did not,you were called straight.HHHMMMMMM Think about that one.

nikki1979
04-26-2004, 03:02 PM
yes i have , was during a MFMFM , wud luv to do it again, in a debate as to weather or not im Bi, i think ill always prefer a nice cock, but damn women are sexy!

~nikki

skyler_m
04-29-2004, 01:54 PM
I too did some experimenting when i was a teenager. Was fun, but haven't found the right situation to try it again. I would, though.

Lilith_82
05-02-2004, 06:26 PM
Um, where's the bisexual option?

I'm bi. I've fucked and loved both men and women.

darogle
05-03-2004, 08:13 AM
would like to experiment a little...

denny
05-03-2004, 06:55 PM
Just once, merely adolescent experimentation and outrageous hormones.

Rick Forbes
06-08-2004, 03:19 PM
Yes. Group sex with three other boys when we were all 12 or 13. One of the guys' moms had a copy of THE SENSUOUS MAN and THE SENSUOUS WOMAN and we read it aloud and practiced oral and anal sex on each other in the rec room above their garage.

I liked it very much at the time, particularly giving oral sex (the oldest guy was HUGE) and both giving and receiving anal sex, but I never repeated it after that and rarely return to those early experiences in my fantasies.

marilynpage
06-08-2004, 04:25 PM
I just kissed a girl recently and am currently thinking about having a ffm threesome with my fiance. Im really curious and lately have always been masturbating about other women. Hmm

LindyP
06-09-2004, 09:49 PM
I have to say I was pretty much hooked after my first female encounter.

Sex with another woman is a whole lot more tingly than with a guy.

But that is just my opinion.

MinnesotaGuy
06-11-2004, 01:11 AM
I'm 21 and have been looking for my first homosexual experience for a year or so now to be honest.

Mercury_Maniac
06-12-2004, 05:05 PM
and you haven't found one yet?

SuzyQ
06-12-2004, 06:20 PM
Originally posted by Lilith_82
Um, where's the bisexual option?

I'm bi. I've fucked and loved both men and women.

I agree we need a bi-sexual option. I consider my self bi and I enjoy both men and women..and both together...

MinnesotaGuy
06-13-2004, 11:36 PM
Originally posted by Mercury_Maniac
and you haven't found one yet?

Unfortunately not.

Loulabelle
06-16-2004, 10:37 AM
I consider myself to be heterosexual, as I'm not sure I could fall in love with another woman and be in a relationship with one, but the idea of sex with another girl is a big turn on for me.

Having said that I'm soooo fussy I doubt I'd ever meet a woman who I'd fancy and who'd also fancy me.....added to that I'd be really insecure about my body in the presence of a woman who's got the kind of body I like.

The woman I'm currently in complete lust with is this one:

http://www.alex-parks.co.uk/

As you can see, she's somewhat androgenous in looks and she's a lesbian - for some reason I only ever fancy lesbian women, not straight ones.

rabbit
06-18-2004, 08:29 PM
Yes, I have been with another man before.


rabbit

Nomad
07-03-2004, 06:17 AM
To be honest YES. When I was young about 13 with my friend the same age. I think it was more of a pure lust thing than Male on male sex.
Then again with my Ex.Mrs. we had a MMFF , turned out to be a very sexy Bi cpl. she had known.

one4u2
07-03-2004, 02:51 PM
Yes I have.
Once when I was a young teenager with a friend and once together with my wife and a room service boy at a hotel in Spain.

Conclution; I would love to do it more (with the right person)

ndugu
08-04-2004, 07:37 AM
I once had an older guy get me strip when i was a teenager. He pulled me off saying that it was like fucking a woman - nuthin like it really

sweetlady
08-04-2004, 08:35 AM
I said yes, but not by choice. I guess it really sort of was by choice.. my ex-husband brought a woman in to fulfill his FFM fantasy, and we had sex. I had said I would do it, but wasn't prepared, really. And I had agreed to do it once, in order to give him that fantasy, then never again.

I did not enjoy it. I didn't like the taste of her, I didn't like the feel of her "softness," her shape was not appealing to me, and she BIT my clit, very hard, which was not remotely pleasant to me. I have less than no interest at all in ever doing it again. He, on the other hand, loved it, became obsessed with it. To the point he was constantly taking me to bars and asking me to "pick us up a woman."

I have only a couple of times even remotely considered it, with dear friends, and even then, I found if I went on to fantasize about what I was thinking, I lose interest quickly.

I simply find the male body to be FAR FAR more erotic and attractive than women. In fact, I would find a technically "unattractive" man over a very "attractive" woman in a heartbeat. Oddly enough... I fantasize about heavy men, I fantasize about bald men, I fantasize about every shape and size of man. None of it turns me off, only if they do not maintain good hygeine. It makes me sad sometimes to see men without self esteem because of their hair or their weight... all men are beautiful! I honestly have yet to find anything about men except ones that look mean, or ones that don't bathe/ brush their teeth/ etc that is unattractive.

osuche
08-04-2004, 08:59 AM
Yes, I have...once. And I did enjoy it. But I find few women *really* attractive. I'm like Lou, kinda fussy.

rustler
08-04-2004, 12:25 PM
No, I have never touched another man or been touched. I would really like to, but only if the right situation presented itself. I have never been attracted to any man I have ever met, but the idea of performing oral sex on a really good looking cock intrigues me. I am married though, and will not cheat with man or woman, so will probably never actually try it. I may just remain a nice fantasy.

GingerV
08-04-2004, 12:37 PM
Oh, anyone who knows me at all here knows my answer is gonna be "it's the wrong question."

Have I been with other women. Yup....loved it. Am I straight? Dunno. Don't care. ;) Not entirely sure why it makes a difference to anyone.

scotzoidman
08-04-2004, 09:41 PM
Oh, anyone who knows me at all here knows my answer is gonna be "it's the wrong question."

Have I been with other women. Yup....loved it. Am I straight? Dunno. Don't care. ;) Not entirely sure why it makes a difference to anyone.
GV, if you read WickedWanda's sig, you'd understand what difference it makes...

it's all about whether you get a parade ;)

sweetlady
08-04-2004, 10:01 PM
You know what bothers me about the whole thing? As a woman, I get a lot of attitude that amounts to me being "bad" or somehow something is "wrong with me" because I'm not bi. It seems to be fine if men are hetero, but somehow women are freaks if we're not. This attitude has been on an exponential rise recently... it's starting to make me feel like an estranged minority.

Lilith
08-04-2004, 10:20 PM
Sweetlady I think it was you who said something about other people's thoughts/opinions not applying to you unless you apply them to yourself, so I would not get bent out of shape about it.

I'm straight. I have no urge to FFM or FF and I certainly would not do it to please someone else. I think women are beautiful and I understand completely how easy and wonderful it would be to have a female lover but when it comes down to it, I've got a dick fetish and I happen to be crazy about the men that usually come attached to them.That being said...

I know men who are completely hetero on a daily basis who if the situation came in to play they would not be squeamy and would just do whatever felt good in the here and now. I can not say that I would behave any differently, I just know it's not something I would actively seek out.

GingerV
08-05-2004, 01:15 PM
When Wanda finds her parade, I'm more than happy to march in it, Scotz ;)....it'll be one hell of a party.

Sweetlady, I didn't see anyone doing anything but confessing their own experiences/preferences. But I can see that if you're already feeling a little singled out, some of the posts might have felt like jabs to an already sore spot. For what it's worth, I liked what you said in your original post. I think people come in amazing and wonderful variation, in all dimentions. Sexual preference is just one of them...but like all others, no-one should ever feel their answer is the "wrong" one. There is nothing wrong with your not be turned on by women. Zip. Zilch. It's totally you. I think it was generous of you to give a MFF a try for your then partner, and I think it's fabulous that you were honest with yourself afterwards and decided it wasn't for you.

But I think you raise an interesting question....maybe it is more acceptable in today's society for women to be bi (or whatever..I still don't like the labels ;) ). Maybe some people even expect women to be bi. I think it's possible to build the argument that "het. male" oriented pornography (ok, that's three different fights I might have just picked) contributed to the idea that bi or FF action was desirable, in the same way it contributed to shaved pubes being defined as sexy. I actually don't know a lot of bi guys to ask...sounds like there are a bunch here who could weigh in on the subject of whether they feel as accepted as the women.

However it came about, though, I just don't think it's as big a problem here as elsewhere. Is it possible that you're still reacting in part to your ex's pressure to keep trying MFFs after you'd told him you weren't interested? Cause that sounds like it was just downright inconsiderate.

G

sweetlady
08-05-2004, 01:37 PM
No no, I am sorry, I didnt' mean anyone at pixies was treating me that way. I apologize that it sounded that way. It's a workplace/ friends thing.

smoothballs
08-08-2004, 03:17 PM
personaly
i find that if a bloke ask's a woman if shes bi and she says yes they think thats cool (for a hetro bloke theres only one thing better than 1 woman and thats 2) if she says no its like why not.
if a bloke was to admit to being bi, they will just say he's completly gay and trying to deniy it in some way.
i hate labels why why why as long as your happy and not forcing anyone its no one else's business.
if group situation turned up who could honistly say 100%

Blueb57
08-09-2004, 03:46 AM
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oh yeah. 12 and 13 years old found a lot of us boys jerking each other off. I remember it as fun. It was then forgoten once we got girls to do it.