When you make love, do you look in the mirror???

[skipthisone]

Sorry, bad music flash-back....


Ok...but do ya??? The metaphorical mirror aka the past that is.

[Lilith]

Hey I have fucked many another lover past and present with my eyes closed but sometimes I am so focused on the here and now , the connection is so intense that not another thought comes between me and him.

[Aqua]

Not very often really. Occasionally I might think of someone I haven't slept with, wondering what they would be like in bed.

[WildIrish]

I never reflect upon past real life experiences but sometimes, when things are really out of control, will psychologically wander to people I haven't had the pleasure of being with.

[flutelady]

Nope, never. I'm always right with him, in the moment, in the present.

[Belial]

...Who do you think of? Does he look like me?


Never slag Def Leppard! :D

[quisath]

NEVER .................... !!!!!!!!!!! I usually find that my Next Trip is better than the last.

[osuche]

I save those reminisces for the times when I am in bed alone. When I am with someone, I live in the moment. Never really had abysmally bad sex -- they've all been worth my attention :D

[denny]

Never. I live in the here and now. Reminiscing sounds too depressing to me.

[BlueSwede]

Originally posted by osuche
I save those reminisces for the times when I am in bed alone. When I am with someone, I live in the moment. Never really had abysmally bad sex -- they've all been worth my attention :D

My thoughts exactly.

[bordendazed]

IN the mind's eye - YES. Both with the partners I have had and those I have only imagined.

However, in the literal sense, how I wish I could - even if I was in a house of mirrors I can only focus up to a foot w/o my glasses - and it's no fun to have to worry about knocking, fogging, or splashing those things...

I did the contact thing once, but I failed the test - got some stuff in on eye with them and turned that contact lens opaque - Thus I was warned not to do that again...