She's too quick!

[damnmozzies]

I have the opposite of the normal problem - instead of me, it's my girlfriend who cums too quickly!! Once she's done she doesn't continue for my benefit so i end up getting nothing! She says if she continues it hurts because she drys up, apparently. Is there a way we could make it last longer? Does anyone have any suggestions.

[Lilith]

I would suggest that after she cums, give her a few minutes to pull away from the ceiling:D and then begin heavy foreplay again. You could alternate between intercourse and oral. If you take her to brink of orgasm again she will most likely be begging you to continue.

[LixyChick]

Welcum to Pixies damnmozzies!

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and assume that your girlfriend is around your age (23ish?).......and so with that idea in mind I have to say that lubrication (or the lack of it) shouldn't be a problem with someone in her age group.....but it's not unheard of. She should see her gynecologist or family doctor and make sure this isn't a medical condition.

There are lubricants on the market to assist you in this situation.....so you might want to suggest one of these to her. If she refuses to try them.....may I suggest that she may be avoiding more or longer sexual encounters with you for other reasons? You'll have to talk with her and have her open up, as communication is key in making sex as wonderful as it can be. Whatever you do...don't go accusing her of anything....but ask her questions like, "Is there something I could/should be doing to make it more pleasurable for you"? More and longer foreplay may be just the solution for you both. She might like a certain type of foreplay that you haven't even touched (pardon the pun) on yet.

I hope this helps....and BTW....there is NO such thing as cumming too quickly for a woman (as a woman I can say that with assuredness...lol!). If it takes 2 hours or two minutes....it's all good! Take pride that you are able to help her reach an orgasm at all! Good luck hun......and I hope to see you round the boards!

[jseal]

Originally posted by damnmozzies
... Is there a way we could make it last longer?

damnmozzies,

Have you tried handcuffs?

[skipthisone]

My S/O is very fast, but I must say she has never been one to stop either. I agree with trying the lube, but if she doesnt up the ante after that I think there is a bit of selfishness going on here and to me selfishness has no place in sex.

[damnmozzies]

thnx guys!!! You were right Lixy she's 23! We've been there done that with the lube thing but she doesn't want a bar of it. I'll talk to her again and keep you posted.