How do YOU know??

[jennaflower]

How do you identify the spark? How do you know it is mutual and not just a wishful interpretation? How do you pick up on the signs and not doubt yourself? Is there a specific moment that you say "Yeah, that is a definete YES", or does it usually require a obvious innuendo (a pan over the head sort a speak)?

Do you give clues? Or do you possess the ability to be up front and crystal clear on your motives and intentions? Do you worry that your intentions (or lack there of) are being misread and miscontrued?

Do tell...

and yeah.. I guess I am in a deep type of mood...

[Catch22]

You need some sun and a pillow fight.

[quisath]

It's in the Kiss ...................... and the warmth of an Embrace. (What do I know.................... I'm just a Hopeless Romantic) :)

[Booger]

Good question jenna I wish I knew a sure fire way to tell if that someone was intrested in you. Diferent people give off diferent signals. I've found out later that I've missed out on chances. The best way to find out is ask them if they do or out on a date.
I know this can be hard for some people (me being one of them) but if you don't put yourself out there you'll never know. So I say go for it you really have nothing to lose.

[Lilith]

It's all in the eyes. The eye contact that lingers because you can't.... not look. when I smile sheepishly and bite my lip, it means I'm not gonna be satisfied til I taste him.

[east]

i agree with Lilith its all in the eyes, a certain glow or sparkle is there, and it hypnotises you and the other person. or a quick slap on the butt, that seems to get my attention.

[exhib_it_all]

When you cen get close to their face (in their space) and it doesn't seem to bother them, there's quite possibly something there...


Just my 2 cents

[celticangel]

It's in the subtle non verbal communication~~a look, a touch, a kiss~~~~~~~~~~~~

[skipthisone]

I hate to sound this sentimental, but I think it is in the eyes, but can only be sealed with the kiss...the moment the lips touch you will know.

[Catch22]

Are you talking about in person or on here Jenna?

[Catch22]

I note most of you say the eyes. If they have something wrong with their eyes then what?

[flutelady]

Catch 22 asks a good question. What then?

I think it's a variety of things. Yes, being allowed into their personal space or being comfortable with them in my personal space is one of them. Being comfortable with them is a huge one, actually.... on a variety of levels.

The eyes and the things they communicate is another.

Yes, the kiss. I agree there too.... the first kiss can clinch it. I've been with my man for almost 2 1/2 years, but I can remember sooo well that first kiss, how I felt, and how he tasted.

[Lilith]

I have a person at school who is visually impaired and yet knowing that I still make direct eye contact. He says he can feel me looking at him and knows I am paying close attention to him. If the eyes are truly the wondows to the soul then your own emotions and personality eminate from your own. To me it's not just the looks they give me but how they receive the energy I am exuding.

[Ryan²]

Ocean blue eyes do it for me.

[Eros]

I'm the type that is blissfully unaware when someone is hitting on me. If you're interested, you better come right out and tell me, or just grab my crotch and say "I want to fuck your brains out." That seems to work too..LOL

[Mae]

Facial expressions and body language. Eyes are the first spot I look. I've noticed that certain forms of body language and "twitches" are difficult to disguise.

[jennaflower]

In answer to your question Catch22..... both... in everyday life... and even here...

[Vigil]

"Is that a gun in your pocket?...................." is an obvious signal.

But for all a man's self confidence, bravado and experience, I think we all get a little bashful and awkward when we're in the presence of someone we like. Awww.

And I agree that the eyes don't lie.

[Oldfart]

There is a spark, a moment of electricity, when eyes meet

and hands touch.

The lips and heart confirm as an afterthought.

[Catch22]

Originally posted by Lilith
I have a person at school who is visually impaired and yet knowing that I still make direct eye contact. He says he can feel me looking at him and knows I am paying close attention to him. If the eyes are truly the wondows to the soul then your own emotions and personality eminate from your own. To me it's not just the looks they give me but how they receive the energy I am exuding.

I have a eye and a hearing problem, so I make up for it other ways. I have a sense of humour and some say a quick wit. But I can not look direct at anyone, nor do i let anyone look direct into my eyes. I can 'feel' people. Can not explain how. I can also tune into someone, and feel their feelings somehow. Even at long distance.

[osuche]

Every person sends different signals. That's part of the fun -- deciphering the puzzle! And if you get it right, you get to claim your reward. :D