Your Household

[Porn_king]

ok, ive noticed that people on this site are of varying age so heres an interesting q....

if you have kids then what is your household like in terms of nudity/sex

if you dont then what is/was your household like when you were at home and growing up?

mine wasnt sheltered but i never talked about sex with my parents, but i had an incredibly intimate relationship with my brother.... i saw him as more of a friend, we watched porn together, went looking for girls together and everything

i remember probably the most intimate time was when for my 16th birthday he arranged for his girlfriend and my girlfriend to take part in a threesome with me, to celebrate my legality

[SexKing]

That sounds quite cool - was his girlfriend fit?

[Porn_king]

very nice

[SuccubusKitty]

Wow...
We don't have kids yet, but we had a roomie with a daughter for a while. We didn't walk around the house naked anymore, we didn't look at porn anymore, we were asked not to kiss or fondle even if they child wasn't home. We didn't do alot of things, we rearranged our whole lives for her. We still talked about sex though like we always did.

[LixyChick]

I don't have children....and while growing up....things were taboo but the taboo was an unspoken understanding! In otherwords...we'd get "the look" if we were out of line (example: walking around in panties from bathroom to bedroom).......and "the sex talk" never came!

Ergo (I'm assuming....and parents take close heed)....the reason I had my first sexual intercourse encounter at age 14....not to mention experimenting with all other phases of sex from the age 12. It was such a mystery to me.....and I am such a curious type....and a HUMAN animal.....that I HAD to know in any way I could find out!

I had friends who's parents walked around naked in front of their children and spoke of the sexual being (us humans) all the time.....and those friends weren't as curious as me.....not to mention they got quite a kick out of teaching me!

We are a sexual species.......very physical and curious! I feel, to this day, that if you take the curiousity away from a child.....and replace it with knowledge....they will curtail needing to experience what we would prefer they wait on for just a bit longer than age 14. Think about it! If someone told you NO.....you can't look at and you shouldn't speak of.....oh....let's say......what's behind door #1 (as an example).....wouldn't you want to know what the hell was behind door #1?

[Lilith]

Visiting family recently my husband was accosted by my very rightwing, pro-gun, pentacostal/evangelical Christian, uncle. He was subjected to to a 30 minute lecture because we would not let our kids shoot air rifles and bbguns with his grandkids. He explained to my husband that when you explain to kids how to use weapons, it takes the mystery away and allows for them to be responsible, be less curious, less experimental, and to be prepared to use one wisely. My husband, ever respectful, patient, calm, quiet, and non-argumentitive, waited for him to finish and then quipped, " I see your point! That's exactly why we believe so strongly in sex ed in schools" :p......I would have given a zillion dollars to see my uncle's face:D

[BlueSwede]

My ex-husband and I didn't think anything of being nude in front of our kids; we'd be taking a shower or getting cleaned up in the bathroom, for example, and the kids (1 boy and 1 girl) would come in to ask a question or want something. We didn't think anything of it. I still don't think anything of being nude around my daughter (now almost 19) or in my pjs or underwear around my son (age 26).

We talked about masturbation w/each kid when the subject came up (when we saw them masturbating at around age 2 or 3) and explained that it was fine for them to enjoy their bodies but that it was a private special thing for them...in other words, don't be jacking off in front of the TV when Grandma and Grandpa are over visiting.

I gave my daughter a pocket rocket vibrator, a soft porn book, and a how-to book on masturbation when she started her period at age 11 to celebrate her entering womanhood. I explained to her that I wasn't trying to say that masturbation was for adults only but just to celebrate her threshold into adulthood and to let her know that she could bring pleasure to herself; she didn't have to go hunting for someone else to supply her w/that...that it's a dangerous world out there w/regard to STDs, etc. and to take her time in being sure she's ready for such activities w/others...and so on.

[nikki1979]

if you have kids then what is your household like in terms of nudity/sex

well i have a 2 year old here w me , i have been known to walk around naked while changin w her in the room, i dont think its a big deal. i hav never done nething intamite w her in visual range. w my luck shed go to the park and try it w a little boy there! i just dont wanna explain that one! he and i do cuddle and kiss around her . i dont look at any porn w her in viewin range tho. i do belive were gonan have to have the PrivatePlace talk w her soon. we tend to let her run around naked after bathtime, we dont dress her till she brings me her diaper and jammies, well we walked into the roomand found her on the couchw a hair brush between her legs. my friend was over and thought it was the funniest damn thing in the wolrd, i just cuddnt stop from laughing! 2 and already tryin to use toys JEESH!

~nikki~

[sillyme]

We have 2 teenagers. Neither my husband nor I have worried about being naked in front of them... still don't worry about though I think they would rather we didn't.

We neck and snuggle in front of them and are fairly frank about our sexuality. Given that both kids have had sex education in school we haven't had to have the nuts and bolts discussion about sex. I have spoken with them about respect for themselves and others and waiting for their first sexual experience with another person (more along the lines of if I catch you sleeping with anyone or if you get a girl pregnant I'll kill you :)).

Growing up neither of my parents paid particular attention to their state of dress around us children and it never bothered me. Mom gave me a booklet about reproduction when I was about 11, I read it didn't have any questions and didn't think about it. My first period was traumatic... I thought I was bleeding to death! :) Wish I had asked more questions :)

[Ryan²]

I don't have any kids, but in our household, sex, the dangers, and the consequences have been discussed. "Bloody killjoy" you might think, well there's a serious side to everything, and sex you mist certainly understand the serious side.

I am very shy about sex and talking about it.

[Casperr]

Originally posted by ukG²
I am very shy about sex and talking about it.

Yes, I've noticed that ukG2!!! lol!

Just kiddin' mate :)

CasperTG