how to meet....

[pyrokittie]

hey, i was wondering where one could meet other bi's and lesbians? i know that sounds retarded.
i have never been with another female and i have a very strong desire to try it at least once. i am not looking for a romantic life long relationship. i just want to become friends and hook up. but the problem is i don't know where to find someone. i have tried online personals and chatting...
does anyone have any advide before i go crazy?

[Lilith]

Does your local universities have a GLBT group? I live in a university town and all the schools have organizations for support. It might be a place to start.

[Lilith]

Oh! and welcome to Pixies:)

[Sharni]

Welcome to Pixies

[Casperr]

Welcome to Pixies!

You might also want to try online Swingers sites. Lots of people looking for the same things as you - doesn't have to be group or couples like people often think.

Good luck!
CasperTG

[pyrokittie]

okay
thanks for the help.

[PantyFanatic]

I can send you the pictures in my mind pyrokittie.:D You'll see a lot of our members.;)



Welcome to our happy hime.:)

[Missy1965]

Hi Kitty, Missy here. My boyfriend and i have been talking about bringing in a woman into our relationship as a one shot deal only. This has been a very strong fantasy he has had for a long time
(don't most men...lol) The thing is I am 100 percent heterosexual and i am not into women at all but after a flat out NO to him for so long I have been reconsidering. So we have been seriously talking about this but trying to attempt this isn't exactly easy. Plus I have a few conditions that will definatly need to apply or I just will not do it. First it started out with wanting to watch a woman go down on me but the problem is there is no way I will go down on any woman. Now the biggest problem I have is that NO WAY could I see my man with another woman it would just hurt me way too much. So where do you find the right person for
something like this because it can not be anyone either of us knows and wouldn't be seeing again. Where would we even go to find someone. Is there any professional places you could call?

[eliza261]

I have used Lavalife .. and go onto the woman line section.. i am in the same boat as u.. just curious about being with a woman..
lavalife is cool because there are people of all ages there.. and u can chose what kind od realationship you are looking for.. and it is annonymous.. its pretty cool.u chose who u want to talk to..

anyway.. that worked for me,
im curious too..
-ElizaLavalife

[Slow Ride]

Hi pyrokittie..........welcome to Pixies..........I think I'm a lesbian at heart ;) or atleast I'm willing to learn*GRINS*

good luck in your quest.............and if you ever down South:slurp:


AND a warm welcome for Eliza261 TOO!!!!!

[pyrokittie]

okay this is getting me no where....
i have tried lavalife and a few others and i keep chatting with people, but to no avail.
i live in a small type town where being bi is such a bad thing.
i have explainded this to my boyfriend and he wants to have a threesome, but i am back at the same problem.... can't find anyone...
anymore ideas?

[kinkyfairy]

pyrokitty , same probs here girl, keep looking have several online dating threads going and yet nothing :( its hard when u really want something and cant do it, specially when ur S/O is not only cool with it but exicted as hell about it LOL. good luck. (hope i have good luck to for that matter)