Sexy or cute?

[Belial]

This may seem fairly obvious to many of you, but until recently, I had been led to believe that when a person of the attractive sex was described as "cute", it basically meant they were sexually attractive. However, I've recently had discussions that indicate this is not necessarily the case. My question for you Pixies is, do you see these qualities as clearly distinct from one another, or even mutally exclusive? If possible, also describe the differences.

Thankyou :)

[Steph]

Cute ain't necessarily sexy.

Cute can be a teddy bear. Aim for sensual.

[Catch22]

I have been told a couple of times by females that I have a cute butt. Does that mean I have a Teddy bear butt??? (Looks for a made in China label)

[pinkbutton]

i have to agree with Steph. Although i guess cute does u mean u fancy a person more than normal up to a certain degree.
For example of u had two people together next to u and one was normal looking ie u didnt fabncy them and the other one was cute youd go for the cute looking one.

Although saying that i guess it works both ways. Some women may say a guy is cute but wouldnt consider fancying him.

Sorry to confuse u babe!

[Lilith]

Cute and sexy are not the same thing. A cute person could be sexy too but not necessarily. Not in the way that I see the word used. Cute tends to be used as an endearing quality where as sexy is about lust.

[Casperr]

I think Pinkbutton's pretty close when she says that while cute doesn't necessarily mean sexy, it DOES mean they are more preferable to, say, an 'ordinary' person.

It's hard to explain what cute means. I think actually Steph used a word that in my mind comes close to it - sensual. Cute is a person you just want to hold close to you, to treasure and love.

Sexy means they're hot - a bombshell you just wanna fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck and, well, you get the picture.

I hope that makes sense - personally i don't think it does, but hey, at least I tried!

CasperTG

[Tess]

In my opinion, cute is a softer, vulnerable, more approachable person. Sexy is more unsettling, lustful, and edgy.

Cute is soft, Sexy has an edge.

[WildIrish]

Sexy demon-bitches hate being called cute!

[dreamgurl]

cute can be sexy. sexy isn't always cute.
i don't think that helps you any but i try

[babybunny]

:( Everyone calls me cute. Dammit I wanna be sexxy! *pout*

[cowgirltease]

<----------- doesn't wanna be called cute either. Rather be called a sexy tease bitch.:D

[cowgirltease]

Originally posted by babybunny
:( Everyone calls me cute. Dammit I wanna be sexxy! *pout*
SEXXXXY BABYBUNNY!!!!!;)

[WildIrish]

<--- calls babybunny sexy

[cowgirltease]

Thinks Belial is SEXY AS HELL!!!;)

[Oldfart]

I find cute girls generally pretty sexy, as in you'd most like

to wake up next to a cute girl.

I have known very plain girls who broadcast pheromones like a

moth in heat, turning heads almost without trying.

I have known very pretty girls who have the pizazz of Barbie.

Cute and sexy can be the same thing, but not always.

[BlueSwede]

Hell, I'd be thrilled if anybody thought I was either one. :hot: :heart:

[celticangel]

DM is cute and sexy!

[Ryan²]

I regard cute as complimentive word.

[osuche]

Cute = I wouldn't be repelled by sitting across from them while having a beer.

Sexy = I'd be willing to forgo the beer to have sex with them

[lakritze]

Well,now that we have defined the words cute and sexy,now lets work on what it mens to be "attractive".After that,we can work on, buxom,comely,pretty and wholesome (ugh).

[Cheyanne]

LOL!!

Cobalt always says cute is for puppies and kittens... you know, the awwwwwwwwww factor. Cute for me is usually the look and behavior... mostly kids are cute.

[Ryan²]

Judging by your avatar Cheyanne, I'd agree on cute for you. ;)

[Belial]

Originally posted by cowgirltease
Thinks Belial is SEXY AS HELL!!!;)


:hot:

<--- blushes and thinks the very same about CGT :p

[Tess]

I got my new makeover kit today, so went to work :)

You tell me... sexy, cute, or OMG!

[Lilith]

nice......love the new look;)

[SuzyQ]

Originally posted by Tess
I got my new makeover kit today, so went to work :)

You tell me... sexy, cute, or OMG!

Sexy, Cute and OOOOOOOOOOO YEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSS:heart:

[SuccubusKitty]

You look very sexy Tess.


Sexy to me is a way of saying, "Yeah, I would sleep with you".

Cute to me is a way of saying, "Yeah, I would sleep with you, but you'd definitely have to charm me too."

Hope that helps.

[Tess]

Thanks, ladies!

I have a new appreciation for what has to be done just to go outside. I will NEVER complain again about having to wait for someone to get ready to go out....

Your kind comments made my day :)

[Lilith]

Tess~ Mr. Lil likes the new look too;)

[Tess]

Obviously, he has great taste in women :) He married you...

[Grumble]

Tess ~ sexy & cute doesnt cut it - I was thinking gorgeous is more like it :hot:

[Bopper]

Originally posted by babybunny
:( Everyone calls me cute. Dammit I wanna be sexxy! *pout*

Aww hun.....you are SOOOOOO sexxy!!! You may do/say some cute things once in a while...but you are sexxy!! :hot:

mmmmmmmmmmmm :slurp:

;)

[south]

It has to be a curse..."Cute", if I heard it once more I would puke.
I wish that I could be percieved as sexy, especially to women (well actually only to women)...but all reports are that if I am anything, I am cute.
Too Cute actually, for years I have heard people tell me to "stop being so cute" usually they add "you fucking smart ass"
But if I want a woman I want a cute one...who is sexy

[cowgirltease]

Originally posted by Tess
I got my new makeover kit today, so went to work :)

You tell me... sexy, cute, or OMG!

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :hot: :hot: :hot:

[Tess]

Thank you, you've made my day :) :) :)

[LixyChick]

Yes Tess! Sexy indeed! I love that you now have the appreciation and understanding of just how much goes into getting "ready"! How did you know how to apply it all so well? And what shade is that lipstick? Jiminy Crickets...I am nosey....ain't I? LOL!

[Tess]

It wasn't easy! I've got no eyelashes, so I had to put fake ones on. What a hassle! As far as the makeup goes, check out:

http://www.alexisvogel.com/

She does Pamela Anderson, which is just exactly what I look like. Well, maybe the Green Bay Packer version of her. LOL

[LixyChick]

You have to have some lashes! How would you keep debris out of your eyes?? Or get a lash IN them....lol!

*Has this weird vision of Pamela in a Packers uniform now.....or is that an Eagles uniform?...TeeHee!*

[Jessy19]

I've been called cute :(

[Xhrys]

Before I begin I want to let you know. I skipped over all of the other responses in order to post this so as not to cloud my own judgement. (It's a mental thing)

Now. Sexy and cute... Wel obviously there are arguments for bothe sides yes they're the same if you define the two in the antiquated way our parents and grandparents did... However.

All of my life I have been called cute. Now I am no egotist, I knew from the start that my 'cuteness' came from my personality and not my appearance. I am nearly ugly enough for it to be dibilitating, but still many people consider me to be cute simply because I can make them smile, or laugh or in some small way feel good.

My ex wife on the other hand was cute in every measure of the word. Drop dead gorgeous, a personality that would make you glad you had lived through 30 years of hell just for the five minutes she passed through your life and an eagernes to laugh and smile that was always infectious.

Both of us were cute, but only one of us was sexy.


Now I'm gonna go read the rest of the posts...

[having_fun]

Cute to me is a polite way of saying that hes/he is just above average, not beautiful, and has nothing to do with how sexy they are.

Sexy to me is normally discribed with more effective adjitives such as awesome, hot, or simply WOW, etc.