help me out

[silentsoul]

Okay, my wife bought me a digital camera for x-mas and I've already started taking nudie pics of her. The thing is, she's more than hesitant about posting pics. Now, my own opinion behind why I would want to post nudie pics of my wife is that I think she's sexy as hell and I want to show her off in all her glory.

So basically what I'm asking for here is help in convincing my wife. I know that she hates her body and I know that after hearing all the wonderful comments that you guys and girls would give she would open up. so like the subject says, help me out, please.

[CunningLinguist]

If she is nervous about what people will think of her. then here is my suggestion:

Start out slow. Post some pics of her clothed, but still quite sexy (i.e: low cut blouse, tight jeans or even lingerie) and gradually work her way into posing nude.

Heck, I often find non-nude pics to be even more sexy because it leaves more to the inagination.

If she is worried about being seen by a mamber of her church:

1) Blur the faces.

2) When a deacon announces to the congregation that he saw your wife posing nude on the net, then loudly ask why the hell was he looking at a porn site? Or how exactly he can recognize your wife nekkid with her face blurred?

[Cheyanne]

Simple.... she said no, so leave it be. Let her decide what she wants to do.

Is she a member??? If not, then perhaps she can check out Pixies through your nick and decide for herself what she wants to do for herself, not anyone else.

[PantyFanatic]

What Chey said ---^ for sure. :rolleyes:

[osuche]

Build her ego and introduce her to Pixies, but take it slow on the pics -- let her decide the time and place to post. Under ANY circumstances to NOT post without her consent -- I'm pretty sure she'd view it as a betrayal.

[Lilith]

and they would be removed:D

[Ryan²]

Take it one step at a time, you have plenty of time to help her gain confidence in her body. It won't happen overnight, but a few photo shoots of her without posting on here will eventually move you a few steps up the ladder. Nice and slow, and help her to feel good about herself.

And I agree: don't post on here without her consent - then she'll never let you post the pictures on here.

[silentsoul]

I would never post any of her pics without her consent. Thanks for everyones advice

[dm383]

Good Luck, silentsoul!! IMHO, Pixies can't HAVE too many sexy women...... and I'm sure your wife will enjoy herself, once she "gets into it"!! CA did!! :D

DM

[Xpose]

Let's look at it another way, if she was THAT reluctant, why did SHE buy you a digital camera????

My advice is start with the clothed anonymous pics, let her see how sexy she is.

[silentsoul]

Originally posted by Xpose
Let's look at it another way, if she was THAT reluctant, why did SHE buy you a digital camera????

My advice is start with the clothed anonymous pics, let her see how sexy she is.

My thoughts exactly. She knew the reason I wanted the camera and I know that she'll open up. Once you get her going, she turns into a total nympho:D

[Lilith]

Don't we all:D

[Cheyanne]

silentsoul.... I should apologize.. I re-read my post, and thought "What a bitch!!".... I must have been having a bad day and didn't really post what I hoped would have been some advice, not a slam.

Basically.... let her get comfortable with Pixies first.. either by using your nick to check out the posts, or better yet, become a member herself and post. That way she will get to know all of us, and be comfortable with the forums.

It took me a good six months or so to gather up the courage to post pictures... and it was very liberating, I felt sexy, and it boosted my esteem and thoughts on my body.

[silentsoul]

No apology needed, that's basically the route I'm going to go. Unfourtunately she's pretty sick right now so obviously it'll be a while but I'm sure I'll let everyone know when she decides

[Catch22]

Try doing pics of you. Have her take them. Then post the ones of you on here.

[Lilith]

^^^I like how you think!^^^

[Catch22]

Who me Lilith? I always try to think at least once a day.

[sillyme]

silentsoul,

If she really hates her body, then you have your work cut out for you. I know because I'm not very fond of mine and have been very hesitant about letting my hubby take pictures - took the first ones just a week ago.

I agree that you should introduce her to Pixies - let her look at the pictures, communicate with the members and then make up her mind. But be prepared, while she may go nympho she may not ever become comfortable enough to have pictures of her posted online.

Good Luck!