Breast Fondling

[hexalite2001]

I was wondering if anyone has any other good ideas for playing with my girlfriends breasts. So far I've kissed, sucked, blown, circled with my tounge, bit, squeezed, and grabbed her breasts hard. She likes all those very much!!!! I was wondering if there are any other techniques avaliable, or anything any of you that are out there prefer? We even got out the old whip cream and played with that for a bit.

So is there any other ideas/tips/techniques I could use?

[nikki1979]

um dont know how much kink u like but if u do u cud always start w nipple clamps (real nice i think ) and worj up to rope and chain and all that , but shes gotta be into bondage to enjoy that , i think its great fun ! lol ! but ive been called twisted by many ppl in my life!

~nikki~

[nikki1979]

oh BTW welcome to pixies

[Oldfart]

hexalite2001, the only limit is your imagination.

Analyse everything you come in contact with using the question,

"How can I incorporate that into my breast play?"

Flavouring lubricants, a vibrator dipped in brandy custard, a cupless

bikini, the options are limited only by your imagination and desire.

[Oldfart]

nikki1979 (shock horror)

Surely not!!

[skipthisone]

Just wait till the 1st time you get the right woman to unexpectadly have an overwhelming orgasm from just nipple play....

[hexalite2001]

Thanks for the welcome nikki1979, I don't know about the whole bondage thing, that might be a little overboard right now haha!

skipthisone now I gotta figure out how to make that happen! LOL

Anyone with more suggestions, I mean I can use my imagination, but how about the collective imagination of all the people on this board?

[Michael Smith]

Hi, Hexalite!

I like the way you think about breasts. I think too many men spend too little time on a woman's breasts, kind of like they are just passing through on the way down. You seem to be a man who sees her breasts as a destination rather than just a quick stopping point.

Here are a few of my favorites that you can try. I hope they help! :)

Vibrating Nipple Tip:
Try using a vibrator on her breasts and nipples.

Peppermint Dip Breast Technique:
For this technique, pour some Peppermint Schnapps into your lady’s belly button. Now, dip your tongue into the schnapps and lick one of her nipples. Dip your tongue back into the Schnapps and lick the other one. Now lightly blow on the nipples. The cooling effect of the Schnapps makes for an intense feeling. You can try the same thing on her clit, if you think she can handle it (keep a cool washcloth handy just in case). To make it even more intense, you can use a straw to do your blowing through, as the straw forces the air into a concentrated space. Be careful though, that cuts like a knife - at least it can feel that way!

Breast Fire & Ice Technique:
For this technique, you will need a glass of ice (or something else cold) and a cup of coffee (or something hot). Take the cold item and put it in your mouth to make your mouth cold. Now suck on her breasts with your cold mouth. Do that for a minute or two and then put the hot item in your mouth to make your mouth hot. Now suck on her breasts, again. Keep switching back and forth. The different sensations feel terrific! Be sure to switch it up a bit, too. In other words, instead of doing hot, then cold, then hot, then cold, do something like hot, cold, cold, hot, cold, hot, hot. This way she won't know which one to expect and she will not be able to prepare herself for what's coming.

[hexalite2001]

I agree, too many men pass up opportunities on those beautiful sacks! lol my girlfriends are so perfect I can't resist to take a permanent pit stop.

Would rapid tongue flicking be as good as a vibrator?

I like the Peppermint Dip idea. I wonder where I can get that? She loves mint! Are there any other types of thick liquids I could use? I'm thinking maple syrup but it might be quite sticky if it gets loose.

I like the hot and cold idea a lot, would cold, and then a slow warm up while sucking, and then cold again work just as well? At the palce we make out there is no oppertunity to make or keep any liquid hot.

Thanks for the awesome ideas!

[Michael Smith]

Hi, Hex!

Let me address your questions.

>Would rapid tongue flicking be as good as a vibrator?

Well, my first thought is no - not really. It will certainly feel nice, but I think you'll find that a vibrator might be a little more intense. If you don't have access to a vibrator, I would recommend buying one. If you aren't able or interested in doing that, then perhaps an electric toothbrush would work ok as a substitute for you. ;)

>I like the Peppermint Dip idea. I wonder where I can get that? She loves mint! Are there any other types of thick liquids I could use? I'm thinking maple syrup but it might be quite sticky if it gets loose.

I don't think maple syrup would produce the same minty effect that Peppermint Schnapps would, but it would certainly be tasty.

You can buy Peppermint Schnapps in any liquor store. If you are under legal drinking age or are looking for an alcohol alternative, let me share another similar tip with you, instead:

Breast Altoid Technique:
In case you aren't familiar with Altoids, they are mints that you can buy at nearly any grocery store. They come in a metal tin and you can get them several flavors. The green box is Wintergreen flavored. They produce a mild result with this technique. The medium red box is Peppermint flavored. They produce a moderate result. The dark red box is Cinnamon flavored. They produce a very strong result with this technique. Use the box that suits your level of tolerance. I would recommend starting with the green or medium red box. Take a mint from the box and begin to suck on it in your mouth for a few seconds, to round off the rough edges. Now, suck on the breasts with your minty saliva. Get the nipples nice and wet. Now, blow very lightly on the nipples for a sensational effect. I haven't used other brands of mints, but I don't see why they wouldn't work equally well. Someone can correct me if I'm wrong. I am positive that the Altoids brand works VERY well! ;)

>I like the hot and cold idea a lot, would cold, and then a slow warm up while sucking, and then cold again work just as well? At the palce we make out there is no oppertunity to make or keep any liquid hot.

It would certainly work. It wouldn't have the same range of effect, though. How about buying a cup of McDonalds coffee at the drive-thru or something. That stuff stays hot for a good amount of time. Or plan ahead and pack a thermos full of a hot beverage. She'll wonder what you're up to. Be sure not to get it too hot, though. We don't want to burn her delicate tissue! ;)

Good luck!

[hexalite2001]

That's genius, god you have good ideas!

I'll work on them over the next month or so (just becuase I don't see her too often) and let you know how it goes.

[lizH]

You could try *gently* holding the breast, and with your fingers finding the milk ducts, and GENTLY rubbing them. That will send almost anyone into orgasm! (Men too)

[hexalite2001]

LoL I do fondle them gently, but sometimes rough is nessasary!!! :D

Where are the milk ducts, just the area around the nipples? I felt the underside of her breasts and there were these straight rigid sack like things which where pretty cool. lol I dunno hard to explain. I mean it's all pretty wonderful hahah!

And as for men being stimulated by their nipples? It dosen't do anything for me, she has tried and it dosen't do anything! lol

[lizH]

The milk ducts *are* on the underside of the breast, below the nipples. They are sort of straight and a bit rigid. I think you found them. :) Now to do the "right things" with them! Run your fingers up and down them, with some degree of firmness. You'll get some moans when you've found them that way. :) :) :)

As for men, a FEW men are stimulated by their nipples, but the milk ducts generally do a lot more. They're similar to a woman's milk ducts, but they're less developed and smaller. So... she's got to "look" for them.

[hexalite2001]

Alright that's cool. I'll try and rub those. I asked her about it before and she said it's as good as any other part of the breast, but I'll try a little more this time.

I plan to try the Altoids thing this week since it's cheaper than alcohol right now. If she likes that I'll get the alcohol another week.

I'll do the vibrator/toothbrush deal another time but I'm going to go ahead with the hot/cold idea, that just rocks! I'll get Tim Hortons coffee and some ice cubes from the local convenience store. LOL

Hey everyone, this is all about pleasure on the cheap! :p

[Michael Smith]

Hex,

If you will be trying the Altoids this week, I would recommend buying the green box (wintergreen) and the light red box (peppermint). I'd steer clear of the deep red box (cinnamon) for now. Maybe start with the green box and if she likes it, graduate up to the medium red box. Let us know how it works out, ok? You can try these out while licking her clitoris, too, if you'd like! And remember what I said about the straw. ;)

Let me know when you've had a chance to try these out and are ready for more. I'm always happy to share. :) Good luck!

As for me, I'm going to be trying the idea that Liz posted. That's a new one on me. :)

[hexalite2001]

Alright I got that the first time and wrote it down in my notes :)

I'll let you know how it works out but you'll have to wait till Saturday anyways! Dammit now I'm so anxious, and I have to study for exams, how am I supposed to concentrate? LOL

Liz's idea was great, I just have to elaborate on it more!

[Michael Smith]

LOL! Anticipation is a very powerful sexual tool, huh? I can't wait to hear how things go on Saturday!

Just remember that when you try things like this out, some things will work out great and others won't. Don't be too disappointed if something doesn't work out like you think it should. Not everything will produce fireworks in her. Just move on to the next thing. No matter what the result is, it's never a failure. The only failure is in not trying. Just by trying, you are already successful, because all you are looking to do is try new things out and get her reaction to it. Good luck! ;)

[Michael Smith]

One more piece of advice, Hex, and then I'll let you get back to your studies. You probably already know this, but I feel responsible for telling you, just in case you don't.

Be sure to remember what you are trying to accomplish. In other words, stay focused on your lady and not on making your new "moves" work. I have heard women complain that some men are bound and determined to make something new work at all costs like they have a one track mind. They sometimes lose sight of their real focus - the lady. Such behavior can be frustrating and ruin the mood. So, don't be mechanical with your new moves, and don't obsess over them, ok? Just go with the flow. :)

[lakritze]

A little dripping candle wax while she is tied to the kitchen table and blind folded.

[hexalite2001]

lol thanks Mike, ya I am excited about it but won't obsess over the techniques. We have many hours Saturday to try some things out so there will be lots of oppertunity to go with the flow.

Thanks agian! :D

[Michael Smith]

I like that idea, Lakritze! That's sounds very erotic! I've tried candle wax before, but never blindfolded. I've been looking for some more good blindfold ideas, too! Thanks! :)

OK, Hex! Sounds good, bud! Good luck! ;)

[Lilith]

wax :hot: I just bought 2 boxes of Chanukah candles:p

[Michael Smith]

I'll be trying that! ;)

[hexalite2001]

Sooo lol

Everything worked great, just like described Mike.

Eating pussy is a lot better with a mint too. LOL

Thanks for the wonderful suggestions everyone!

[Michael Smith]

Glad eveything worked out well for you! ;)

[BlueSwede]

If you're going to use melted wax, DO stick w/something like Chanukah candles. Some wax melts at hotter temperatures than others, and you can get some nasty burns w/the hotter ones. Plus, of course, how far the melted wax has to travel before it hits the skin makes a huge difference temperature wise as well.

[Michael Smith]

Thanks, BlueSwede!

When I've played with candle wax in the past, I tried it out on myself first (in a tender spot to simulate her much more delicate tissue). I also got a good feel for the distance I should use. And then, of course, I was really tuned in to my lady's reaction to it, too. Thanks for the advice! :)

[Michael Smith]

Oops! I forgot to add something else that I did while playing with the wax. I had her face down on the bed and alternated between dripping the hot wax on her back and dripping a few drops from an ice cube on her back. She didn't know which one was coming next. That was pretty erotic. I think next time I will also incorporate Lakritze's idea to blindfold her and tie her up while lying down on the kitchen table. ;)

[Lilith]

Originally posted by Michael Smith
Oops! I forgot to add something else that I did while playing with the wax. I had her face down on the bed and alternated between dripping the hot wax on her back and dripping a few drops from an ice cube on her back. She didn't know which one was coming next.

So damn sexy!

[lonedude]

It sounds like you have the same question I do I have treated my girlfriends breasts rather tenderly but recently discovered with the help of her guidance that she likes them mauled fairly hard but I went and visited her recently (we have a LDR) and I lay behind her with her back to my chest slowly cupping her breasts in my hands and softly rubbing her nipples with my fingertips they reacted incredibly stiffening and growing hard and she liked them being tweaked and pinched when they are at this stage try it it got me hot and her too judgeing by the way she thanked me :D :bj:

[Ryan²]

When a girl's nipples go hard after tweaking and playing with 'em, that's a good way of telling "I want 'it' now!"

[nikki1979]

act ukg2 my nipples get hard w tweked n played w but it dotn always mean i want it now. just means theve been tweaked n played with

~nikki~

[Casperr]

But Nikki...... c'mon, be honest.... you DO want it now, don'tcha???? ;)

[OzKristin]

hey...
i've found that i really enjoy them being grasped between two fingers and twisted and pulled rather hard..however i'm really into rough sex as well...and I've actually started to get over my previous "issues" I had with breast fondling...but now I"m happy to say I've gotten over it finally..and really enjoy this kind of touch