View Full Version : Orgasm: Is One Enough?
hornybigirl
11-20-2003, 04:35 PM
This question is for both the gals and the guys.
Is one orgasm enough for you?
I think of it this way... what if you're watching porn and extremely turned-on... masturbating... isn't it a little annoying to only cum once? Because when you're watching porn, there is SO MUCH to enjoy! A whole movie's worth!
Or when you're having sex and you're partner looks really hot and you just want to fuck them all night... cumming once just isn't enough!
I actually feel bad for guys, 'cuz once they cum, they go limp. Of course, if they're into anal, they could always stimulate themselves that way, which I know first-hand can feel really good to a guy. I also feel bad for me when I'm with a guy, 'cuz getting a mouthful of cum or a load in my ass feels so fucking good that I don't want just one! :D
But, these are only a few ideas/possibilities... feel free to ramble about it! :D
WildIrish
11-20-2003, 05:34 PM
One is usually enough for Mrs. Wildirish. She gets VERY sensative after climaxing. There have been times where we'll have two in one session. There were also times where we'd spend the whole day in bed, taking breaks from sex only long enough to take a shower and eat, then jump right back in and enjoy more sex. I could do more than one on any given night but I pace myself accordingly.
ericthered
11-20-2003, 05:51 PM
Hornybigirl - this is no more than an ill-disguised gloat! Just because you gals have orgasm after orgasm until your batteries run down, there's no need to mock us poor guys who are stuck with a miserly one at a time!
Lilith
11-20-2003, 06:04 PM
I am greedy and capable of coming as many times as he wants to put forth the effort. The first one happens in a flash ( I am wayyy too easy),after a few seconds to cool down the second takes awhile but after that I can come pretty quickly. Still 4 is usually the max...well so far. Anybody wanna help me expand that boundary?;)
WildIrish
11-20-2003, 06:05 PM
It'd be a much shorter list if you asked if there was anyone NOT willing to help.
hornybigirl
11-20-2003, 06:22 PM
No no no... you misunderstood :)
I meant, is one orgasm enough for YOU... personally?
In other words, do wish you could have more... do you attempt to have more than one etc.
Not a downer on guys at all! :)
As I said, I actually feel bad for guys because of that.
Basically, what I'm asking is: do you ever feel 'annoyed' that you can't have more than one... feeling one not being enough.
I do!
I cannot very often have multiple orgasms, though I'll continue to masturbate/have sex anyway.
*hugs*
seriousfun
11-20-2003, 06:27 PM
Yeah, but my one, I'm convinced, is fully equivalent to your seven or eight.
skipthisone
11-20-2003, 08:25 PM
Nope, never, not enough for me or the person I am with.
kleclere
11-20-2003, 08:26 PM
I would enjoy more but my wife has one and she is satified. So I usually get to work myself off by hand for as many as I want.
Vigil
11-21-2003, 12:37 AM
One was always enough for me - now I don't even need one to have a lot of fun. I don't do the full tantric thing but sessions without ejaculating are highly satisfying and leave me ready for action the next day/morning and my partner able to do her thing completely.
It can make your Knob a bit sore - but then there's someone happy to kiss it better.
huntersgirl
11-21-2003, 01:03 AM
Used to be one was not enough, I would have 2-4 per session. But recently one is enough, I blame it on homones. Seems like I've been doing a lot of that recently;) But my s/o is often able to climax repeatedly sometimes staying hard after the first and being able to go on from there. Occasionally a short 5 minute or so break is all he needs. I like to say he is insatiable. I used to worry that I wasn't satisfying him, but he assures me that I just turn him on so damn much that he just can keep going and going.
So I guess I would have to say that it all depends. Sometimes one is enough, sometimes you just need more:)
mcjim623
11-21-2003, 02:18 AM
I think seriousfun hit on the true answer...lol
I like to hold out on the first one as long as possible, and fortunately, have a small refraction time---time between erections due to orgasm---but unfortunately, it is not zero. And, of course, age catches up. And, the longer I take to cum, the more powerful it is. If I can get a couple hours build up into one, well, did you see scary movie? =)
I dated a girl in college who was ulti orgasmic. She had "big O's" and 'little O's". I counted one night, and she had 8 "big O's" and 60 "little O's". WOW! I had 1 big one. Even factoring in seriousfun's mathematical equation, she beat me! She could make herself orgasm by giving head. And for a while I actually thought it was me...:rolleyes:
Oh well----why didn't I marry her again? :confused:
Jim
skyler_m
11-21-2003, 09:35 AM
For me, 1 is enough nowadays. After 1 I'm usually looking for an IV drip to help restart my body. The first time I'm with a woman, they usually ask me if I'm okay after I have my first orgasm because of how intense they are. In my early 20s, 1 was never enough. Perhaps I'm older and wiser (but definitely not more mature).
I don't go soft after an orgasm, so if my wife is still wanting more, I just need a few minutes to recover and I can continue. It takes pretty long for #2 to hit, so I'll just go until the wife is satisfied.
One used to be all I thought I was capable of. However, I have (to my delight), recently discovered that I am ready, willing and able to achieve mulitple orgasms as long as my partner is willing or I'm still breathing. WOW!! *licking my lips* mmmmm....
skyler_m
11-21-2003, 10:07 AM
Lexi,
Where is the sign up sheet?
Cobalt
11-21-2003, 11:13 AM
Would really love to have more than one, but need help getting it back, but she is ussally satisfied by then , she has already had from 2-8 or my by then. Guess I will just have to settly for that one , when I get the chance for that.
nikki1979
11-22-2003, 05:47 AM
NO NO NO NO NO NO *stamps foot* one is most def NOT enough LOL it take a bit for the firs tone but as soon as i cum the first time there is no stoipping me and if i end up w JUST one ill not be satisfied LOL ask hubby lol hes thrown a toy at me and ran from the room on several occasions LMAO poor guy , is it bad when ur S/O runs from the room screamin when ur insatiable??????
~nikki~
pinkbutton
11-23-2003, 02:43 PM
I compleatly agree with u nikki! once ive had one i want them to keep on comming. the more the better i say!
GusAspar
11-24-2003, 04:45 AM
When you get to my age it's not so easy to get hard again after you've cum, but if I can manage it the second time is better. After I've fucked you, Hornybigirl, let me lie here with my soft cock in your cunt, and if you wait for a while and perhaps talk dirty to me about how much you enjoy being fucked, then I'll start getting hard again... and it will be slower this time...
sixsense
12-02-2003, 09:43 PM
Lets put it this way...
wish I was the enegizer bunny.
exhib_it_all
12-02-2003, 11:43 PM
If you put the energizer bunny's batteries in backwards does he keep cumming and cumming?
I actually do cum twice sometimes with my wife. I just have to eat pussy for a while until I can get it up again (geez, poor me, eh?). It doesn't happen that often anymore though.
:(
Jaylene
12-04-2003, 09:35 AM
Nope one is never enough. Once is just a little tickle that gets me going. Though my guy is very accomadating he genrally gives me one or two orally, then one or two during intercourse, and after he has come, a few more. I'm finding that since I've been getting older, I have been having orgasams much more fequently and easily.
CunningLinguist
12-04-2003, 12:30 PM
Nope one is never enough. I think in one day I have had as many as 5 or 6 orgasms, and when I was with my ex-fiancee I was not uncommmon for me to cum like three times in on hot long sexual session.
The trick was I would save it up for her before I went over to vist and right after cumming I would eat her out or she would blow me until I got hard again and the fun would continue. It was a good system since I usually came within 15 minutes and most of the time even sooner, but the second time I could go for over an hour before I came and she just loved every second of it.
The sad part is that I am 24 now, and th way my life is going I don't expect to meet anyone until I am well into my 30's so it looks like that was all the multiorgasmic fun I could have.
CunningLinguist
12-04-2003, 12:32 PM
Still 4 is usually the max...well so far. Anybody wanna help me expand that boundary?
Oooooooh I consider that a challenge!
SuzyQ
12-04-2003, 07:12 PM
Originally posted by Jaylene
Nope one is never enough. Once is just a little tickle that gets me going. Though my guy is very accomadating he genrally gives me one or two orally, then one or two during intercourse, and after he has come, a few more. I'm finding that since I've been getting older, I have been having orgasams much more fequently and easily.
Me to, and they are more intense. I can stay going as long as my partner can, is why I like being bi :)
:line:
Virgin Teen
12-05-2003, 02:11 AM
No, I can't do with one... I spoil myself.
When I masturbate I'll leave it at one. For a minute, and then I'll do it again. This carries on until I don't want to anymore. Usually around 3, but if I'm exceptionally horny then more than that. Normally 3 and then I'll leave it for a few hours and start again later.
When I've been cybering or having phone sex I average on 4 - 5. 2 if it's a quicky though and there's not much time...
1 is definately not enough for me.
HornyJo
12-05-2003, 07:16 PM
usually i can only handle the one as mine tend to build into big earth shatters. i get very sensitive after orgasm and can't stand stimulation down there for a while afterwards.
mind you if you have a long time and a willing man............. multi-orgasms are not completely out of the question
Zetacon4
12-06-2003, 07:40 AM
For me, your question needs to separate orgasms from ejaculations. I can orgasm many times and not ejaculate.
And even when I do ejaculate, the orgasm I have a couple of minutes later is much more intense and long-lasting than the one that accompanies the ejaculation. I once orgasmed from inserting my fingers into the lips of her pussy! The sensations just flooded over me and I had a very intense orgasm. It might have something to do with my feminine internal feelings and sexual associations.
So, my answer is I never have to consider having only one orgasm.
hornyblonde
12-24-2003, 07:37 AM
i prefer to have 5 or six when havin sex because its great and thats what the body's here for. also, my girlfriend Helen doesnt stop - she's a nympho
RyanČ
12-24-2003, 11:18 AM
*lying on bed, sobbing, ashamed, embarassed* One is never enough. And you're right. Us men always flop after one masturbation.
We're useless.
:D Teasing! Ha.
I don't think there's enough in the world for me.
SuccubusKitty
12-26-2003, 08:12 PM
If I have a "good" orgasm, that one can last upwards of thirty minutes. So in that case, I think I can safely say, "Yes". One is enough....
If I have a "regular" orgasm, then I usually want a second but I can be happy with just the first. :lust:
Mor Rioghan
12-26-2003, 09:47 PM
NOW we are getting into quite a sticky :devil: situation.
According to my husband, my average is usually "6" in one session. But, here lately, my hormones have been keeping that averaging from getting repeated too often.
On a whole, I would have to say that "1" would be enough...for a short span of play. But, since I like to have longer plays....definitely gonna say the more I have the happier I am.
So, I guess I'm not a "1 Orgasm" type of gal...
No wonder my hubby seems so happy all of the time :spank:
Titgirl
12-27-2003, 12:03 AM
The more the better! I tend to make small ones one after the other until the big BOOM.
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