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Lilith

11-09-2003, 10:49 PM

When you are really stressed out and things are just overwhelming do you usually want sex or do you usually suffer from a lower sex drive then?

Do you use sex as a stress reliever?

Sharni

11-09-2003, 10:58 PM

Sex drive takes a dive if i'm stressed or overwhelmed :(

Cobalt

11-09-2003, 10:58 PM

Originally posted by Lilith

Do you use sex as a stress reliever?

Yes, when I can. The best way I know of.

BlondeCurlGirl

11-09-2003, 11:24 PM

It's a great way to take a break from what's going on and just give in to your passions. Last time I had it was right after midterms last school year, and I think it helped wonders!

Summer

11-09-2003, 11:44 PM

I always want more sex especially when stressed and my SO only wants to give it in the morning after the kids are up and running around. ugh

Casperr

11-10-2003, 05:38 AM

It varies a lot, really.

There are times when I'm so tired I don't even have the energy to masturbate.... and other times when I'm so stressed out but I'm MEGA horny....

It all kinda depends. I think I go through cycles, a few weeks of super horny, a few weeks of not-quite as horny, back to super horny again, etc etc etc.

CasperTG

Wicked Wanda

11-10-2003, 07:07 AM

I am one of those who get stressed and mean if I go without sex, so naturally I view sex as a stress relief.

Sexually,

WW

Steph

11-10-2003, 08:02 AM

I don't initiate sex if I'm stressed but if someone seduces me when I'm stressed, I love it!

babybunny

11-10-2003, 02:50 PM

As long as I feel wanted and loved when stressed I am all up for it. Otherwise dont touch me. :(

paprclphd

11-10-2003, 03:15 PM

I love to have sex when I am stressed - it gives me some good stress relief and puts me right into a sound sleep!

dicksbro

11-10-2003, 07:15 PM

Probably more often than not, I long for the closeness and passion when I feel stressed. Maybe a few exceptions, but not often.

Lovediva

11-10-2003, 07:18 PM

Best way to releive stress....massaging clit vibrator. :D

Glyndwr

11-11-2003, 07:26 PM

IS there any other way to relieve stress?????????

skipthisone

11-11-2003, 09:01 PM

To me, I can walk into the bedroom shut the door, get naked and let the outside stressful world be damned...if only for the moment.

rabbit

11-11-2003, 09:24 PM

My sex drive declines when I am stressed in that I just can't get into the foreplay as I am too preoccupied with the stressors. I'm good for a quick fuck but that is all.

rabbit

Zetacon4

11-13-2003, 04:57 AM

Originally posted by CasperTG
It varies a lot, really.

There are times when I'm so tired I don't even have the energy to masturbate.... and other times when I'm so stressed out but I'm MEGA horny....

It all kinda depends. I think I go through cycles, a few weeks of super horny, a few weeks of not-quite as horny, back to super horny again, etc etc etc.

CasperTG

That's called the male hormonal period. Yes, boys and girls, we guys have a cycle too. Some are more noticable than others.
And, frequent good sex will keep very real stress levels down.
It's amazing how much you can tolerate when you're getting some good hot sex on a regular basis!

Casperr

11-13-2003, 05:40 AM

Originally posted by Zetacon4
That's called the male hormonal period. Yes, boys and girls, we guys have a cycle too. Some are more noticable than others.

Phew, I'm not just imagining it then! :)

CasperTG

Zetacon4

11-13-2003, 05:58 AM

Originally posted by CasperTG
Phew, I'm not just imagining it then! :)

CasperTG

Extremely normal in that aspect!

Now about your other interests....:D

sillyme

11-13-2003, 07:46 AM

When I'm stressed, I'm too out of it to initiate sex, but if my S/O wants to initiate it can help.

Zetacon4

11-14-2003, 03:24 AM

Originally posted by sillyme
When I'm stressed, I'm too out of it to initiate sex, but if my S/O wants to initiate it can help.

In most cases as yours, the guy should start by giving you a massage, warm slow sensual shower, or something similar.
This will ease your agitation and start producing endorphrins.
Those chemicals will begin balancing your internal organs and relieving the stress that has built up.

Once you are relaxed and content, it's an easy step to soft, leisurely foreplay and building up sexual desire.
And, finally, several great orgasms later, you are stress free for the moment! Take a nice nap and you are good to go for another day or two ! Hehehe!

BlueSwede

11-14-2003, 08:31 AM

The more stressed I am, the more I want sex...unless my stress is caused by my SO. THen I may want to masturbate but not want sex w/my partner.

WildIrish

11-14-2003, 09:01 AM

When I'm stressed I lose desire for pretty much anything. I don't eat, I don't want sex, I can't concentrate enough to read, and I get major insomnia.

LixyChick

11-14-2003, 06:05 PM

Originally posted by Zetacon4
In most cases as yours, the guy should start by giving you a massage, warm slow sensual shower, or something similar.
This will ease your agitation and start producing endorphrins.
Those chemicals will begin balancing your internal organs and relieving the stress that has built up.

Once you are relaxed and content, it's an easy step to soft, leisurely foreplay and building up sexual desire.
And, finally, several great orgasms later, you are stress free for the moment! Take a nice nap and you are good to go for another day or two ! Hehehe!
Well.......shit, damn, fuck......you're good! Sign me up and tell me when and where!!!! I think I sighed "the sigh" by just reading this! Whew! :D

Zetacon4

11-14-2003, 06:41 PM

Originally posted by LixyChick
Well.......shit, damn, fuck......you're good! Sign me up and tell me when and where!!!! I think I sighed "the sigh" by just reading this! Whew! :D

How about now?!!:D

You look stressed! You can spell relieve F R A N K!

Now lay back and just relax. This will take awhile.

But then, you don't have anyplace you have to be right now.

SuzyQ

11-14-2003, 07:10 PM

I am not easily arroused when I am stressed..but I tell my hubby to work on me...then as soon as I am turned on stress is gone...I am never stressed when I am with a woman...but I sure feel relaxed afterwards....so it must help there too...

musicman

11-14-2003, 07:35 PM

sex is a good stress reliever for me - provided I have the energy to go with it...

osuche

11-14-2003, 10:18 PM

STRESS = SEX for me. When I get stressed at work, I sit around and think very detailed thoughts about what it would be like to have wild animalistic sex with whoever is near me at the moment. It takes all my willpower to restrain myself. Really.

If I were ever to have fast, hard, live-in-the-moment sex with a strnager...I would be stressed.

Zetacon4

11-15-2003, 12:00 AM

Originally posted by osuche
STRESS = SEX for me. When I get stressed at work, I sit around and think very detailed thoughts about what it would be like to have wild animalistic sex with whoever is near me at the moment. It takes all my willpower to restrain myself. Really.

If I were ever to have fast, hard, live-in-the-moment sex with a strnager...I would be stressed.

You aren't at work, but being a neighbor in Ohio, am I close enough to you for some of that wild animalistic hot sex?
I'm sure you will be very relaxed when we are thru!

osuche

11-15-2003, 10:17 PM

Originally posted by Zetacon4
You aren't at work, but being a neighbor in Ohio, am I close enough to you for some of that wild animalistic hot sex?
I'm sure you will be very relaxed when we are thru!

Sounds wonderful to me. Of course, you should probably try to keep me stressed -- that way we can go all night. So which animals should we be???

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