Posing for pictures

[Claire22]

I have one question: There are so many soft and hardcore pics to be seen everywhere with girls my age (I am 22) or even younger. I must admit I sometimes think about posing for some pics too and getting some money. Also the thought of many people looking at my body and maybe masturbate does excite me. But what if my parents, my brother or some other people I know see those photos? This thought prevented me from posing. I often wonder what all these moms, pas, brothers etc. might think and feel seeing "their girl" with open pussy, with cock in her mouth etc? Does anybody know?

[Lilith]

I am sure some families and loved ones would not approve and I am sure that some others see it as someone's private life and not their concern. My mom knows about Pixies and since she is no dummy, I am pretty sure she knows I have posted pics. Some times we talk about site occurrances but we don't talk about me being naked on the web:p

I think sometimes parents practice a safe level of self-denial when it comes to their offspring's sexuality.

[GusAspar]

If other members of your family see pictures of you on Pixies, or any other porn site, that's because they're looking for porn, isn't it? It would be a bit hypocritical of them to masturbate while looking at other young women's bodies, but to complain if you do the same? I look forward to seeing your open pussy!

[PantyFanatic]

Originally posted by Lilith
.....I think sometimes parents practice a safe level of self-denial when it comes to their offspring's sexuality.
I like to think that communication technology alone has enabled and caused a self surfacing attitude shift for everybody. Sexuality wasn’t discovered by us or any of our recent ancestors.

As a father of two grown kids and a grandfather, I never wanted them to NOT have the wonders of a healthy sex life. It’s a private and respected matter, just as mine is. You wouldn’t want to walk into your parents bedroom if you thought they may be enjoying what brought you here, and they aren’t looking to see their “little girl” in a sexual content. But I believe the acceptance of our children becoming sexual adults is natural.

I don’t think it’s “self-denial” as much as it is the genetic “incest-off” switch. I’d be more concerned about you wanting to turn your sex life into a commercial venture.:rolleyes:

[NightRider]

I have to agree with pantyfanatic. I have 5 grown children and my wife once asked me what I would think if one of my daughters did porn. I told her that that would be her decision and wouldn't effect my love for her. We are all sexual people and we decide how to live our sexual lives, why should my children be any different. As a parent I learned that I can't live their lives for them. We teach them to fly and then they leave the nest.

Claire22, I have a digital camera and would volunteer to get you started! <grin>

:D

[Wildeye]

Agree totally with the last two threads.

You need to consider how you will feel if someone sees.

it is your life.

wildeye

[sixsense]

Though I mostly agree about being your choice, I will have to be the word of caution in this respect:

Sometimes these could lead to unforseen consequences. For example if you plan a future that will take you into the media lime light, expect some to try to dig up your past. For things like actresses, this isnt a big deal. But as a congresswoman try explaining this to a aggresive reporter (Though IMOHO what someone does with their sexual life shouldnt be used to judge their effectiveness in a job).

I also heard about someone once loosing their job after their managers found the pictures online. (Of course I do believe this could be fought in court, but if you work in a right to work country or state, then you may never know this was the reason).

[PantyFanatic]

I agree with that.

[BlondeCurlGirl]

Claire22,

I've had that same debate with my conscience many times. I've struggled with wanting to express my sexuality and yet I worried about what the consequences of my actions could be if someone were to find out. I found that I had the option of not showing my face in these pictures here on Pixies, and it was a wonderful compromise between pics showing everything and just being a passive member that doesn't take pics. Just do whatever makes you comfortable, and as others have said, if someone you knew DID happen to discover your pics, you could safely argue that their interests in sex and masturbation were pretty much along the same lines as yours...so why should they be critical?

Hope to see some of your pictures posted! It is a very liberating experience! :)

BCG

[White Noise]

I totally agree with everything that has been said. I think we are way too up tight when it comes to sex - heck, if it wasn't for sex we wouldn't be here!

The best points made here are - if someone saw your pics it was because, more than likely (sometimes pop-ups do occur), they were looking for something along those lines. It is like the shop assisant who looks down their nose at someone who buys porn. If they didn't like, don't stock it - then people can't buy it!

If it feels good, do it. We spend too much time worrying what others think of us rather than doing what makes us feel good (obviously I don't agree with people killing others for fun, or kiddie porn or that sort of thing!) but as a 22 year old, you are old enough to decide what you want to do. And family and friends should respect that.

[dicksbro]

Sixsense did have some good points when it came to possible unforeseen consequences. Don't disagree with others, but at least his points need to be considered.

[Loren]

Obviously it depends on the person. I do agree for the most part it's hypocritical to object to seeing a friend/relative in porn when one is looking for porn, though.

My personal take on this: If I found nude or jilling pictures of my wife on the web it wouldn't bother me one bit. Hardcore would depend on the context in which they were taken--the pictures as such would not be an issue, but if they weren't amateur shots it would imply a casualness about sex that I wouldn't like.

[mcjim623]

The biggest thing is to decide what you want, and what your limits would be. Then, don't let anyone pressure you into doing something against your better judgement.

If you are doing this for the thoughts of others seeing your body, and how they react to it, then a site like this one would be great, where you pose with a friend, and can remove or post at your discretion. If you are doing it for money, remember that once you take the pictures, they are no longer yours. The belong to the photographer to do with what they want. Look how many people have had their careers drastically changed because of this---ie vanessa williams.

if you are not sure, start with small baby steps, maybe a revealing swimsuit picture, etc. If you like the responce, then move forward, if not, keep it as a fantasy.


Jim

[Cobalt]

Don't worry about what other think, your an adult and life is to short. Enjoy your self and do what you find exciting!

[saggybear]

Pictures aren't the only thing that could be found by family and or friends. Years back after my son moved out I found a number of opened foil packets under his bed. I sorta figured it was his business but GHEESE In my house. He is lucky that his mother never saw or didn' t realize just what they were.

Saggy

ps years later we have two wounderful grandkids

[ericthered]

Claire - the best way to look at it is that your grandchildren won't be shocked by it anyway, so all you have to do is make sure your shots are GOOD QUALITY. That excuses everything

[musicman]

I'd say do what makes you happy.....

[stiffman]

i am a photographer
i shoot nude pic too
i never sell them
i give it back to my customer.
i never paid any girl for posing so far.
nor had any sex with any girls who pose for pic so far.
these girls have an interest to take nude pic and they ask me and i shoot for them, charge them for my film and time only.....
never post their pic on web or misuse them..... its interesting...