Anticipation

[Lilith]

If you know you are going to have a sexual liaison do you get so excited and horny that you have to masturbate before? Or do you resist the overpowering urge and save the sexual tension for your victim...er I meant lover;)???

[IAKaraokeGirl]

Fridays are baaaaaad days for me, Lil. Most often, though, I save myself. Errrrr, well, you know. ;)

[Wicked Wanda]

***refuses to answer***
( but I do keep the battery companies very happy)

WW

[WildIrish]

On the few times that I'm not clueless that I'm going to get lucky...I resist the temptation to pleasure myself. It takes the edge off and I think it shows in my performance.

[paprclphd]

I try so hard to resist the temptation to please myself, but sometimes it is just sooooo difficult. So - I just try to keep myself busy with other things and usually save it for my partner.

[Lovediva]

Men should masterbate before....they might last longer later!!!..LOL ;)

I try to resist as much as I can...but if I spend a few hours here...well......then I can't!!!! :D

[PantyFanatic]

It really depends on the person I’m going to be with. We all want to make a good impression (so to speak;) ) the first time. As LoveDiva says, guys are going to last longer and get to “explore” your new companion further. After you’ve come to KNOW (in the biblical sense:p) one another I like to save it and give here the MOST I can for the beginning appetizer. :lust:

[BigBear57]

I've gone out so seldom of late and had such poor luck when I do that....yes I get excited but hardly to the point I assume anything will develop unless there has almost been a spoken assurance.

[LixyChick]

Depends on how long between the knowledge and the act! Hours alone beforehand.....I have to take the edge off. A wink at the end of a party......I might start in the car on the way home....but save the climax for when he doesn't have his hands full of steering wheel!

[Steph]

It really depends. I prefer if he doesn't masturbate beforehand because if he does, he's going to last forever. Poor me, eh? :D

[denny]

I always save it up. Yeah, I know I'm a man, but nothing keeps me from repeating!

[Irish]

Before,during & after.There's always enough to go around.
Professional women,can tell.A friend,in the service,masturbated,
while waiting, for a "call girl",so that he would last longer.He figured,that way he would get his times worth.She knew.He told me,that she accused him of it.I guess they,deal with,so many people,that they know how long it should take.It's not sex to them,it's business! Irish

[musicman]

I plead the 5th

[robart]

I like to masturbate before hand in the morning as it helps me to last longer later on as well as anticipate what is to cum!

[Vullkan]

I see a lot of "saving" up for the moment and a lot of comments for men lasting longer.

Is 30 minutes not long enough before loosing off the first volley? But if it counts for much if a man where to drink say 1 double shot of whiskey about 1/2 hour before hand, lasting longer isn't a problem to prolong 30 minutes to 45 minutes for the first volley.

Still I think a long bout of licking and tasting adds just the right amount of tention for a lady before getting to business.

[Sharni]

Before, During or After....makes no difference if i'm horny

[Mercury_Maniac]

i just plainly masturbate

cause i don't have victims

[Jaylene]

If possible I please myself before. I find that once I have my first orgasm, I easily start to have multiples. So I get that first one out of the way so i'm ready for a wonderful evening.... = )

[Oldfart]

Why all the focus on the "first shot"?

It's more about how much fun you have, rather than stopwatch

romance.

[quisath]

I save it all for the encounter ..................... I am multi-orgasmic.

[osuche]

I try to save myself up...otherwise, my partner will have to work on me for 40-60 minutes to make me cum. Fun for me, but not necessarily for them -- tongues *do* cramp.

[skipthisone]

Nope, never before, I like to save it up.

[waltaja]

i masturbate before more often than not. it usually helps me out in the long run