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sixsense
10-14-2003, 04:26 AM
This doesn't happen all the time, but sometimes when i mastubate, I have a very "emotional" ejaculations especially when I think about a special someone.. real or otherwise. So much it makes my eyes water with tears.

Do other men experience this?

If you do, is it harder for you to have casual sex if your afraid of this happening? I mean, casual means sorta more physical, but this is more spiritual.
Lilith
10-14-2003, 05:26 AM
Funny I always thought it was just us ladies who have an emotional release along with the physical one sometimes.
LixyChick
10-14-2003, 09:04 AM
Wow! Yeah! Me too Lilith! I'm looking forward to some of the contributions here! Great question sixsense!
south
10-14-2003, 09:49 AM
Really?
I have to admit that in my teens before I felt secure enough to masturbate on a regular basis I had some emotional releases.
And yes they were about girls that I definately had a crush on.
But now many years later this is not the case.
Then again, I haven't had a killer crush in a while either.
skipthisone
10-14-2003, 07:53 PM
Its the afterwards when you both have connected that the emotions can come flowing.
lexi
10-14-2003, 08:43 PM
I don't know about men going through that, but I have had it happen on a regular basis. The tears are just a side affect of something that is very intense and wonderful!!
Lovediva
10-14-2003, 09:03 PM
My hubby has cried on many occassions...and it's usually just before he blows or seconds after....and we both end up crying cause we love each other sooo much..... ??? :eek: ;)
sixsense
10-14-2003, 11:50 PM
Thats sexually sweet Diva.. :)

I wonder though (since I am way past my teens) has this contributed to why I cant take sex lightly?
Lilith
10-15-2003, 05:20 AM
You may feel like it makes you emotionally exposed and don't want to share that with just anyone. Makes sense to me.
denny
10-15-2003, 07:37 PM
Why am I getting an erection after reading these postings?
jennaflower
10-15-2003, 07:45 PM
It is nice to know.... that men are capable of such a reaction... an emotional release... I too thought it was just something more common in women... and something that I myself have experienced too often to count...