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Lilith
10-01-2003, 06:05 AM
Need some advice...


If an opportunity presents itself, would it be better to be the seducer or the seducee? Which do you find more attractive??

Is the seducer the one who needs to bear the weight of the guilt...if there is any?
BigBear57
10-01-2003, 06:48 AM
In the throws of passion I don't think it matters who initiated things. Truthfully I think it's sexy as hell when a woman makes the moves although I've only ever experienced it once. As for guilt, You can seduce your wonderfully enticing ass off and if there's no interest (must be comatose) it won't work. 50% guilt max.
skipthisone
10-01-2003, 06:55 AM
You cannot seduce anyone who is not open to being seduced, even if it is just in the way back corners of the mind...so who is really the seducer?...hmmmm
Steph
10-01-2003, 08:03 AM
My brain just exploded from reading Skip before the coffee kicked in.

I relish both roles. Sometimes I like coming home from work and being seduced by a romantic man, other times I like to hold the power. But come on, who doesn't love a massage? :)
skipthisone
10-01-2003, 08:09 AM
Geez Steph...coffee always comes before Skip...you should know better by now.
ScottWaz
10-01-2003, 11:18 AM
i would rather be the seducee......i would feel like i was making her do something she didnt want to do.
Lilith
10-01-2003, 11:34 AM
Oh I should have clarified this as a situation with someone new maybe. we all have the possibility of role and role reversal in outr usuall relationships but when it's the very beginnings of some thing new. Do you want to be seduced, tempted or do you wanna lead?
skipthisone
10-01-2003, 12:36 PM
In that case, I love to be seduced. I am very often the agressor and sometimes its nice to be wanted like that.
Aqua
10-01-2003, 01:28 PM
I like to be seduced. It's nice to get that feeling of desirability.
skipthisone
10-01-2003, 01:31 PM
Didnt I just say that???....geez
Lilith
10-01-2003, 01:37 PM
Well you 2 know neither of you stand a chance;) and together you'd be in a serious mess:D
Cobalt
10-01-2003, 02:28 PM
Originally posted by Aqua
I like to be seduced. It's nice to get that feeling of desirability.

Diddo!
Lilith
10-01-2003, 02:38 PM
I have no problem with being the Seducer. I was just curious if some men find that sort of sexual aggressiveness off-putting.
skipthisone
10-01-2003, 02:57 PM
Some may, but I doubt you find too many here.
WildIrish
10-01-2003, 03:14 PM
Being the shy and quiet guy that I am, I would NEED to be seduced. I'll flirt and talk without a problem, but until I'm comfortable with you, would need prodding along.
Lilith
10-01-2003, 06:11 PM
nudge^^^nudge;);)
Scarecrow
10-02-2003, 05:16 PM
How do you really know who is seducing whom if both are willing :devil: :sex:
Lilith
10-02-2003, 11:12 PM
It's all in the eyes...
lakritze
10-03-2003, 12:17 AM
I just love a seductive woman with smoldering eyes only for me.Bring it on,but I'm afraid I won't be much of a challenge.
GingerV
10-03-2003, 04:25 AM
I'm afraid I have to be seduced that first time. Don't get me wrong, I flirt like anything...but I can't make myself cross that line without overt permission from the other person involved. After that, sure, I can be aggressive. But that first time, I have to be on the receiving end.

Which is a bit of a shame....I'd love to have been the seducer at least once. And I'm suddenly aware that I may have missed lots of opportunities because of my little quirk ;).
Lilith
10-03-2003, 06:12 AM
GingerV I have a similar quirk. Not exactly the same but similar. I love those long stolen glances or when you get caught looking and your eyes lock, where you can feel the heat just course through you immediately. I have gotten to be very forward over the past year:D
Incubus255
10-03-2003, 04:44 PM
For me it really depends alot upon my mood, I like to switch things up sometimes, lol really it depends on the person and everything

lol no hints here at how to get into my pants people ^_- lmao
WildIrish
10-03-2003, 05:00 PM
Originally posted by Lilith
It's all in the eyes...


You have eyes? :D :hot: :D
Kendall
11-11-2003, 07:59 AM
do tell, Lilly

forward.. Were u leading or following after these eye locks? or was there not much more? or.. are they still happening?

Just wondering.

Kendall
Lilith
11-11-2003, 08:31 AM
Following or leading, after awhile I forget. Nothing has happened... I'm holding back.
rabbit
11-11-2003, 10:05 PM
I love being seduced by a woman who knows what she wants. I enjoy seducing as well but sometimes in a risky situation I would fear the ramifications of rejection.


rabbit
cowgirltease
11-12-2003, 10:06 AM
OHHHHHHH yeahhhhhh I'm definitely a seducer......;) :slurp:
lovesheels
11-14-2003, 02:19 PM
Originally posted by cowgirltease
OHHHHHHH yeahhhhhh I'm definitely a seducer......;) :slurp:

I will be waiting to be seduced!!! :heart: :slurp:

Love Ya :heart:
musicman
11-14-2003, 07:33 PM
Originally posted by Aqua
I like to be seduced. It's nice to get that feeling of desirability.

agreed Aqua....hasn't happened often enough to me...