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jennaflower
09-29-2003, 07:44 PM
Or more appropriately... if your spouse/SO asked... would you??

I consider myself to be very open minded and am sooo very willing to try anything once... so this is the question I pose to all the wonderfully sexual people here:

If you were asked by your partner to participate in a 3 some, with someone of your gender being the 3rd party would you be willing to do so? I don't mean participation as "watching, observing, and limiting your contact to only your partner". I mean participation as more of a hands on.. enjoying the 3rd party yourself type of thing :)

Would you be willing to allow the 3rd party to pleasure you orally? Would you be willing to do the same for him/her? Would the fact that your partner desires you to do so, encourage you? or would it make no difference? Would you deny your partners desire?

BigBear57
09-29-2003, 07:53 PM
I've thought about this one since I've been reading posts here. My sense of fairness and desire to please a mate says I should consider whatever to feed her fantasy but I'm not sure what I'd do if faced with the situation. If I was situated in a very secure relationship I can say I'd at least consider it but if I was in a haphazard or casual thing I'd just laugh it off.

jennaflower
09-29-2003, 07:59 PM
to answer my own question...

for a partner.. I would do so... if that was his desire... :)

Steph
09-29-2003, 08:02 PM
I'd get completely involved . . . I would have to come to terms with him being with another person, it might be hard to witness but I'm sure we'd talk about it first.

Sharni
09-29-2003, 08:03 PM
If you were asked by your partner to participate in a 3 some, with someone of your gender being the 3rd party would you be willing to do so?
Yes i would be willing

Would you be willing to allow the 3rd party to pleasure you orally?
Yes

Would you be willing to do the same for him/her?
You bet!

Would the fact that your partner desires you to do so, encourage you? or would it make no difference?
I want to be with another woman....the fact that Bilbo would want that too would make me feel more comfortable and yes encouraged

Would you deny your partners desire?
If it was something i really didnt want to do...then yes probably

Lovediva
09-29-2003, 08:04 PM
YES.


Nuff said! :D

Lilith
09-29-2003, 08:33 PM
I dunno. Is not something I can say I want, but can never be sure what I will say til I am faced with a situation. I know that for some reason when the 2 of us go out we seem to attract women who are searching for a couple. Have had several offers but as of yet he has not shown an interest in taking them up on them. Only time will tell.

Now 3 way MM & Me, I am allllllllll on it!

fzzy
09-29-2003, 08:37 PM
Nope ... no 3-somes for me ... but then I think I've mentioned that before. Just not interested in even the most remote way.

cowgirltease
09-29-2003, 09:13 PM
Sure!!! Would jump right in the middle of it! Pleasure me, I pleasure you! and be as sexy as I can about it! would make it a good experience for all involved.;) :slurp: :hot: :hot:

darogle
09-29-2003, 09:32 PM
I personally couldn't participate (as in hands on) with the third party, but otherwise, sure. Would take a bit of communication before hand, but would try my best to please my girl......

LixyChick
09-30-2003, 06:25 AM
Already been there! But....I think the difference for me was that it wasn't to please my hubby.......though he was indeed pleased.....but because I wanted to! I've always said I'll try ALMOST anything at least once in my life! I've got a long list to fulfill yet!

Casperr
09-30-2003, 06:53 AM
Hell yeah!!!!

CasperTG

Oldfart
09-30-2003, 07:47 AM
Dunno, like to think I would, but..........

I am the essential Oldfart LOL

jseal
09-30-2003, 07:51 AM
jennaflower,

Staying with the allusion, I'm somewhere between Steph and Oldfart. Closer to Steph - I think.

Irish
09-30-2003, 09:52 AM
No!In the 1st place,my SO. is far too jealous,to share me with anyone.In the 2cd place,neither of us has any desire for homo-
sexuality.We have discussed this before,so know how the other
feels.The situation would never arise. Irish

WildIrish
09-30-2003, 10:33 AM
If she asked, I'd agree.

If we experienced a wild sexual encounter, we would leave no options unexplored.

babybunny
09-30-2003, 10:50 AM
MMm omg Yes!! :hot: :slurp: :D

Max_theHitMan
09-30-2003, 11:16 AM
answer; yes ...I would.

lakritze
09-30-2003, 01:29 PM
MFM is the best combo for a 3sum.So I would answer yes to all.

nikki1979
09-30-2003, 01:49 PM
id so luv to try and see what id do, i real curious

jennaflower
09-30-2003, 03:27 PM
I don't think that anyone has surprised me :)

I don't consider myself anything other than heterosexual and have limited curiousity... BUT... for a partner... I would do anything I could to fulfill a desire... just as I hope that (when I find him) he would be feel the same :)

Aqua
09-30-2003, 04:55 PM
Been there already jenna...;) although it has been some time. The only thing I could not bring myself to do is kiss another man passionately. Other than that... if it pleases her, let's go!

Lilith
09-30-2003, 05:10 PM
Originally posted by Aqua
Been there already jenna...;) although it has been some time. The only thing I could not bring myself to do is kiss another man passionately. Other than that... if it pleases her, let's go!
^perk^

Sharni
09-30-2003, 05:14 PM
Been there already jenna... although it has been some time. The only thing I could not bring myself to do is kiss another man passionately. Other than that... if it pleases her, let's go!

Ooooooooooooo now thats giving me hot visuals :hot:

Sunnybabe75
09-30-2003, 06:52 PM
I've done it before, so if he wanted to...I'd have no problem with it. In fact, I quite enjoy it. :hot:

Sunnybabe75
09-30-2003, 07:00 PM
I've done it before, so if he wanted to...I'd have no problem with it. In fact, I quite enjoy it. :hot:

Cobalt
09-30-2003, 07:32 PM
If my wife REALLY, wanted me to , I would think about it and probably do it for her.

Hell, never know, I might enjoy it.

Navarre
09-30-2003, 07:48 PM
Only if the other person was a submissive.

Belial
09-30-2003, 11:21 PM
If it was someone I truly wished to please I'd have to think about it...but even then would only go so far.

Bopper
10-01-2003, 12:20 AM
In a word....yes ;) :hot:

Vigil
10-01-2003, 12:45 AM
No - if all parties are heterosexual.

Yes - if the initiating partner is bi sexual and the third party is homosexual corresponding to the first party's sex.

I've done this and it was great; the bisexual girlfriend had everything she wanted at once and there were no issues between me and the lesbian partner.

But I just don't want to suck a guy off thanks anyway and his cock up my arse and in my partner in the same session - uhh no!

buka
10-01-2003, 06:44 AM
Interisting situation - as an open minded guy I think I would agree to it, but I would have to see the guy first chat to him a little, so it is very circumstantial.

Scarecrow
10-02-2003, 05:03 PM
Have been there and done that.

dicksbro
10-03-2003, 03:59 AM
Won't ever happen ... but if my wife asked me to ... I probably would for her. Not something I would likely initiate, however.