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Lilith
08-06-2003, 08:47 PM
1) Can sex with someone you don't love be just as good as sex with someone you love?

2) Is there a lust factor involved if so?

3) Can sex be better with a complete stranger than with someone you know?

4) Would you have completely anonymous sex?

5) Would it matter if it were same sex or different?

6) Have you ever had sex with someone you do not know?

7) What is the shortest period of time you have known someone you have slept with?

quisath
08-06-2003, 08:58 PM
1) Can sex with someone you don't love be just as good as sex with someone you love? No!..........Nough said.

2) Is there a lust factor involved if so? Must be..........but I've Lusted and Lost.

3) Can sex be better with a complete stranger than with someone you know? That depends................it's not what you got..................it's how you use it!

4) Would you have completely anonymous sex? of course............I'm a HORNDAWG

5) Would it matter if it were same sex or different? Hetero Here!

6) Have you ever had sex with someone you do not know? Yep

7) What is the shortest period of time you have known someone you have slept with? Four Hours!

jennaflower
08-06-2003, 09:12 PM
1) Can sex with someone you don't love be just as good as sex with someone you love?Absolutely Not

2) Is there a lust factor involved if so?I would like to think that there is a certain degree of lust involved when you love someone. Yeah, lust for someone not yet known can be a hot thing but still isn't as good as with someone you love.

3) Can sex be better with a complete stranger than with someone you know? I don't believe so. Getting to know someone is what establishes true intimacy.

4) Would you have completely anonymous sex? Actually, I do have a fantasy about being on the otherside of a gloryhole and pleasuring a man without him knowing who I was. Tho, I doubt (due to the risk of ailments) that I would ever do so.

5) Would it matter if it were same sex or different? I have no interest in another woman.. so it would have to be a man :)

6) Have you ever had sex with someone you do not know?
Yes, I have.

7) What is the shortest period of time you have known someone you have slept with? A few hours

Max_theHitMan
08-06-2003, 09:18 PM
Lillith
@ Love, Lust, It's All A Must @
1) Can sex with someone you don't love be just as good as sex with someone you love?

2) Is there a lust factor involved if so?

3) Can sex be better with a complete stranger than with someone you know?

4) Would you have completely anonymous sex?

5) Would it matter if it were same sex or different?

6) Have you ever had sex with someone you do not know?

7) What is the shortest period of time you have known someone you have slept with?


HeHeHe... With all these surveys now I know your gathering material for a major book, or perhaps a next Hollywood blockbuster!:D
Ok...Ok... I´ll help you out.

Here´s my"twisted" view on that subject.

1 - It all depends on the circumnstances. If your "really" horny and need some stress-relief, then I guess having sex is purelly an act you must do. But it will Never be as good as having sex with someone you truly love. The emotions and the feelings are just Not there. It´s just something you do for stress-relief. So no.

2 - "lust factor"? Of course there is. Sex is an act of pure lust in itself. You can´t have sex without lust.

3 - Never, if you don´t know that person. But if you take sometime to know that person, even if it´s over a dinner or some party, then knowing that particular person, just talking for awhile, might just get you in the "mood" for what might just happen a few hours later.

4 - "anonymous sex"?? MMMmmm... as in blind-fold me and strap me to the bed?? I don´t know.
Or perhaps right now ...on-line?? Getting all aroused on words and wonderful stories. MMMMMmmmm...

5 - I prefer females, even do I have had gay men say I was very attractive. But that does not turn me on at all. I prefer a womans touch.

6 - Yes, I can´t deny it. I guess we all have sometime in our lives.
Getting drunk at some nightclub and waking up in the morning in a strange house, in a strange bed, with a complete stranger.

7 - About 3 or 4 hours. (I am SO ASHAMED!:p )


Ok Lillith, it´s your turn to answer too... go ahead and surprise us:)

darogle
08-06-2003, 09:46 PM
1) Can sex with someone you don't love be just as good as sex with someone you love?
Physically, I suppose. But that is too simplistic of an answer. You have to take into account the spiritual aspect of being intimate with someone you love. I am a romantic at heart, so I would have to answer no, it would never really be as good.

2) Is there a lust factor involved if so?
Quess so.

3) Can sex be better with a complete stranger than with someone you know?
Not to retract what I said in #1, but yes. All other things being equal, the risque factor and taboo of it all would be exciting.

4) Would you have completely anonymous sex?
No.

5) Would it matter if it were same sex or different?
I'm straight, so no.

6) Have you ever had sex with someone you do not know?
Yes.

7) What is the shortest period of time you have known someone you have slept with?
Less than an hour. *Blushes*

PantyFanatic
08-06-2003, 09:53 PM
1) Can sex with someone you don't love be just as good as sex with someone you love?
(”love”- yet to be defined here) I do have to know and “like”, NOW, my partner to be comfortable and able to make it the most enjoyable for both of us.

2) Is there a lust factor involved if so?
OH YES!

3) Can sex be better with a complete stranger than with someone you know?
It can be VERY exciting and intense but very short lived.

4) Would you have completely anonymous sex?
Not my smartest moment but have done that.

5) Would it matter if it were same sex or different?
yes

6) Have you ever had sex with someone you do not know?
(see No. 4)

7) What is the shortest period of time you have known someone you have slept with?
Hour and a half. (She joined the party late)

osuche
08-06-2003, 09:59 PM
1) Can sex with someone you don't love be just as good as sex with someone you love?
A: Maybe more exciting, but not better

2) Is there a lust factor involved if so?
A: Lust is ALWAYS a factor

3) Can sex be better with a complete stranger than with someone you know?
A: Novelty is good, but otherwise no. I feel more comfortable announcing my desires to people I know.

4) Would you have completely anonymous sex?
A: No

5) Would it matter if it were same sex or different?
A: No, as long as I was attracted

6) Have you ever had sex with someone you do not know?
A: No

7) What is the shortest period of time you have known someone you have slept with?

A: Two weeks

txgrneyes
08-06-2003, 10:11 PM
1. Never...

2. Yes it will start out that way...and hopefully turn in to more.

3. Yes. That is the raw power of it all.

4. Yes.

5. No..it would not matter.

6. No.

7. 3 months

Vicious Tease
08-07-2003, 02:06 AM
1) Can sex with someone you don't love be just as good as sex with someone you love?
sex? sure ... depending on the situation (intimacy is a different matter)

2) Is there a lust factor involved if so?
definitely. if i love someone, sex can be terrific with or without lust (though it's better with) but sex without love requires lust ... at least for me

3) Can sex be better with a complete stranger than with someone you know?
i'm sure it could, it would depend on the stranger

4) Would you have completely anonymous sex?
hmm ... i haven't, but i can't say for certain that i wouldn't. one never knows ...

5) Would it matter if it were same sex or different?
so far, all of my experience has been with the opposite sex, so it's more likely to happen that way ... but, again i wouldn't rule anything out as a possibility

6) Have you ever had sex with someone you do not know?
yes, long ago

7) What is the shortest period of time you have known someone you have slept with?
a few hours maybe ... see #6

GingerV
08-07-2003, 02:42 AM
1) Can sex with someone you don't love be just as good as sex with someone you love?

No. It's better when the heart is there with the body. For me, anyway.

2) Is there a lust factor involved if so?

Lust always helps ;).

3) Can sex be better with a complete stranger than with someone you know?

Never say never, but I'd be surprised.

4) Would you have completely anonymous sex?

Errr...going back to "never say never". But I'm not out there looking for it.

5) Would it matter if it were same sex or different?

I don't think so.

6) Have you ever had sex with someone you do not know?

I've had sex with people I didn't know well...but never with someone I didn't know at all (online fun and games don't count in my book).

7) What is the shortest period of time you have known someone you have slept with?

12 hours. And we had a wonderfully cute and charming rationalization for how we were actually on our 3rd date by then. ;)

skipthisone
08-07-2003, 07:01 AM
1) Can sex with someone you don't love be just as good as sex with someone you love?
Desire and love have no correlation

2) Is there a lust factor involved if so?
Is what it is all about

3) Can sex be better with a complete stranger than with someone you know?
No, Too many unknowns

4) Would you have completely anonymous sex?
Yes

5) Would it matter if it were same sex or different?
If that were to happen to me, it would only be anonymous, I dont want to get to know another guy

6) Have you ever had sex with someone you do not know?
Yes, is what college is about isnt it?

7) What is the shortest period of time you have known someone you have slept with?
an hour probably

IAKaraokeGirl
08-07-2003, 07:28 AM
1) Can sex with someone you don't love be just as good as sex with someone you love?

It's hard to top sex with someone you love, although with proper amounts of passion and lust, it can be pretty damn incredible.

2) Is there a lust factor involved if so?

Um, yeah.

3) Can sex be better with a complete stranger than with someone you know?

No. I am shy, and tend to open up to people over time. I can't imagine giving myself physically, completely, to someone without having given any other part of me to them beforehand.

4) Would you have completely anonymous sex?

I have. While exciting at the time, it is not something I'm sure I'd repeat.

5) Would it matter if it were same sex or different?

Probably not--same principles apply.

6) Have you ever had sex with someone you do not know?

Yep. Once. Didn't get his last name.

7) What is the shortest period of time you have known someone you have slept with?

3 hours.