How to seduce?

[doped]

Hey guys. I know how to seduce most girls, but this one is so special to me and i wanna do it different. Should i just start making out w/ her and go for it or is there some special way i should do it???

[seriousfun]

doped, how old are you?

[Nubian]

**sigh!**:mad:

[LixyChick]

OK..........Now wait a minute damn it!

Sorry seriousfun and Nubian.......but you didn't even give the guy a chance to answer! And beings how we don't want the lurker's to stay lurker's and we love to encourage them to come out and join in the family.......let's not jump to conclusions so fast! Wait for an answer!

So.......Welcum to Pixies doped! And could you please state your age and the age of your S/O? Differnt strokes for different folks.......if you know what I mean. Age can be the making of any situation!

I'll be glad to add a tidbit of inside info on what girls like.......if you'll just share a bit about yourself first. Most folks go to Personals or General Chat first, and say a hello and let us know something about them......before they jump into asking for something from us. Try and understand how this might have looked to us initially! K?

[Sharni]

This nick has been banned

[doped1]

Thanks for flaming me guys and killing my user name. Oh well, you guys were to late to help anyways. Im 20 by the way along w/ my partner. Peace out

[Sharni]

There was no flaming...only a question asked :)

[Cheyanne]

As a member of an adult site, I am very gratful for the Moderators for keeping tabs on members, new and old.

As this is an adult site, we all know that minors are not allowed. The only way that we find out that a minor has snuck into the fray is by double checking profiles, and perhaps directly questioning the member. While this is not a full-proof method, sometimes "gut feelings" come into play. So, when in doubt, ban. It is that simple. Not only does this protect the minor, but it protects the adult members of Pixies. For if minors were constantly allowed to lie about their age and become members, then we would perhaps not have Pixies. So, when someone new comes on board, and there is any doubt in our minds that this person isn't an adult, the it is our responsibility to protect our home.

doped was NOT flamed, but rather the members were protecting our home.

I fully support the ban on doped for this reason. He was given plenty of time to respond to the question of age and didn't take advantage of it. Another plus in the banned situation was that in his profile he put N/A for his birthdate. In my reasoning, this would set off alarm bells...... and again, it is better to be safe than sorry.

doped1 has also put N/A in the birthdate section of his profile. Now, I figure, that if a person wasn't a minor, and knew that as an adult, the birthdate was and is a good indication to prove that, I would certainly put it in that section.

And, I agree Lixy, we do want to encourage lurkers to join our wonderful family, but we also want the lurkers to be honest adults as well.

If doped's question was of a truly valid nature, and it appears that it was - as well as he needed an answer rather quickly (per his 2nd post) then he did indeed have plenty of time to answer the question of age.......

(gets down from my soap-box)

[Cobalt]

I agree with Cheyanne on this, and most other topics, after all she is my wife! ;)

[skipthisone]

smart man you are Cobalt

[moonbabe]

i agree with cheyanne. we all have to be honest.

[seriousfun]

I didn't intend to flame him at all (lixie, you can spank me anyway); my answer might have been different depending on his age or experience.

Doped/Doped1:

In general, I think that seduction is manipulation. If a woman submits to this willingly, then go for it.

You must create attraction. Show off your confidence, with a funny and even cocky edge, and never show your wimpy, wussy side. Seduction will not be necessary.

Is this someone you know, or someone you would like to get to know?

[MilkToast]

Originally posted by Cheyanne
Now, I figure, that if a person wasn't a minor, and knew that as an adult, the birthdate was and is a good indication to prove that, I would certainly put it in that section.


I would like a way to put the year I was born in the there only, without the actual date, you can put a day with no year but not the other way around (last time I looked).

[LixyChick]

hear, hear MilkToast!

Run it up the flagpole and see if the moderator's salute! LOL.....in otherwords......why not put that in the suggestion box?

I agree with Chey......but I also saw the reason for giving doped the BOD in answering the age thing.....in case he couldn't get back here as much as some of us can. I get "the gut feeling" about some new members too.........but have been reprimanded from time to time in jumping on their case before they had a chance to fully state it.

I guess we are damned when we do and damned when we don't sometimes...and I can live with that.......but I had a feeling that seriousfun asked the question for the same reason I do at times.......to make an assessment of an appropiate reply per age group!

I'm guilty of NOT looking at doped's profile before adding an opinion. I agree with Sharni's ban! But........

Oh.....well....never mind.....moot point now! Cept for any newbie who happens across this thread.......he/she might take it under advisement to include a DOB in their profile so we can trust him/her to be age appropriate!

*spanks seriousfun....per request* *giggle*