internet friend

[pinkbutton]

Having spoken to my male friend online now for approximately 8/9 months we have become very close to each talking to each about everything from the time of the day to wanting each other sexually. A while ago my mate met a new girlfriend online and basically met het her and fucked her brains out but then everything fell sour and sadly now they are no longer together.

In a matter o days im meeting my online mate for the first time he is to come to the house and hopefully we will get on with each other aswell as we do currently online.

My problem is though as some of you will know i am very happily married to Pudsey and would never ever do anything to hurt him but i also want to fuck my mates brains out! I was wondering if any of you had been in the same kind of situation to this and what did you do at the time? Any advice at all would be great.

Thanks guys!

P. S Pudsey knows all about my mate and doesnt mind at all about him comming over and if we get up to anything whilst he is with me .
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[Casperr]

Well PB, you know my thoughts, but I'll put them here anyway.

1) I think no matter how much Pudsey says he is cool with it, it's still a risk. Jealousy is a nasty thing and can surface even when it shouldn't.
2) How can you be sure you won't end up having feelings for your internet friend? Can you confine it to just physical sex?

Those are my thoughts, and based on them I don't think it's a good idea for you two to fuck.

BUT..... if you do, you gotta tell us alllll about it, and take pics! LMAO!! Just kiddin' ;)

My only other advice is to follow your instincts.

Have fun, whatever you decide!
CasperTG

[pinkbutton]

thanks casper babe for your advice and ill keep it in mind!

[PantyFanatic]

OK PinkButton! (god I love that nick:D) Only you and Pudsey truly know the comfort and security you have in your relationship, but Caspers points should be well considered. There IS a big difference between having a good friend, even with sex and LOVE!

You may want to review in your own mind, what the “feelings” of your friend is too. It could get sticky (no pun intended;) ) even if YOU didn’t want it to.

You may also want to rethink your first meeting being at your house. Neither of you want to be, or put the other in a position you can’t “pleasantly” back away from.

If BOTH you and Pudsey are beyond doubt confident with your status……….. your meeting is satisfying enough for both…… then SUCK EACH OTHER INSIDE OUT!:lust:

Andif you do, you gotta tell us all about it, and take LOTS of pics! NOT kiddin'
:D

[pinkbutton]

pantfantaic - thanks for the reply and yeah me and pudsey have though long and hard about it and decided that we do love each other immensley and whatever happens between me and my intrenet mate nothing will change that.

Me and my mate would only be having sex and nothing else would come in to it. ie we wouldnt fall for each other or anything because for a start therse the issue of children. he does i dont.

its just me and pudsey i guess wanting to spice up our sex life in a way!

[PantyFanatic]

Then GO FOR IT BABE! (and don't forget you havve to share with us:D)

[pinkbutton]

i might do!!!!!!!!!!!

[osuche]

I'd still meet away from your house. Physical chemistry can be an odd thing. It might not be there and you don't want to feel obligated.

But...if you want to plunge ahead I'm rooting for you. I'd do the same.

[Nubian]

I think that you and pudsey have taken the first steps toward handling the situation in that you're both honest and open with each other. You **must** continue this honesty throughout the experience. Feelings change. And you might feel more for this person as you persue this relationship or pudsey might find that it's one thing to be O.K. with this in theory, but another when it actually happens. So, at the risk of repeating myself, keep the communication going to avoid hurting each other.

Needless to say, you must tread cautiously here. I agree with Osuche that the encounter should be on neutral ground, perhaps with pudsey (or another trusted friend) somewhere nearby? Is it too late to change the venue? You might feel comfortable because of the correspondence you've had over the past several months, but that is vastly different from **knowing** someone. I hope you enjoy the experience but be careful. And need I say practice **safer** sex?

Hope I don't come across as an old fuddy-duddy. Just my 2 cents.

[Loulabelle]

Pinkbutton: LISTEN to these people when they say don't meet at your house. I know you've been talking to him for a while and you know each other well, but there are a lot of strange people out there, and your safety has to be your number one priority. You should meet in a public place with lots of other people around and only when you feel completely comfortable that he's ok, should you consider moving into a more private environment. If he is an honest, responsible and caring guy, he will understand. If he doesn't understand, DON'T MEET HIM! Please. This is important.

Also, with regard to your meeting the friend, have you talked through every possible eventuality with him and how each one would make you feel? Like what would happen if you want to and he doesn't, if he wants to and you don't, if you both meet and neither of you don't (because then you'll no longer have your exciting online chemistry either) or what will happen if you do and one of your falls in love, or if you do and one of you decides you don't want to do it again...... blah blah blah....the list is endless, but before I met Fussy we talked about every single possibility.

Likewise, you need to do the same thing with Pudsey. I have to admit that the one thing I've learnt about guys is that they say they'll be fine with something and then they discover they aren't fine with it afterwards (e.g. I once had to do a stage kiss and my b/f toldme it would be no problem for him, and then when it came to it he couldn't handle it at all).

I'm not going to tell you what to do - that's your choice, but just make sure you've done as much preparation as possible before you go ahead with this. It's a terrifying this as it is meeting someone you're close to online, let alone with the added complications of husbands and family etc.


Most of all though: be safe (whether you're in bed or not).

[pinkbutton]

loulabelle _ thanks very much for the advice and i will take evrything in mind what u have said to me.

osuche - thanks you seem to be the only one that says go for it ! not that you others dont casper! but i will bear everything in mind

nubian _ thanks babe. Me and pudsey have disscussed evrything about my mate comming over and he says he feels fine with although im not to sure. I have got a friend i can call if anything goes wrong who can be with me within a few minutes if needs be. At the end of the day i trust my mate immensley and know he wouldnt do anything i wasnt comfortable with.

[Grumble]

Well I am an old fuddy duddy I suppose but I think taking fantasy to reality is fraught with danger.

I would be terribly upset knowing my wife was fucking someone else but that is me.

I reckon that it could put stresses on your marriage that are not factored in now and it could be something you regret deeply later.

Better to be safe than sorry I think

[Incubus255]

I've got to go with grumble on this one, myself I wouldn't be ok with anything like that but I know everyone has there own boundries that they can deal with.

heck if you can live like that then more power to ya lol, Myself I'm more of a one on one kinda guy , but to each there own I say ^__^

still this is a risky situation, even if someone says they can handle it jealousy can certain rear it's ugly head at any moment.

You'll have to be really carefull on this one guys

[pinkbutton]

Thanks very much for all of your replies. I would like to say that the event has now happened and it was well worth every second it was fantastic from meeting my friend to having mind blowing sex! Even a threesome was invololved along the lines which was a big suprise to me but very much enjoyed also. The experience has made mine and pudseys sex life spiced up rather alot as sone of u can perhaps imagine it would have ! Apart from that though me and internet friend are now closer i think and more ways that one to say the least!

Everything is just great i cant stop walking around with a big cheshire grin on my face all the time! u should just see me! As for pudsey and me were fine all in aspects thers not jealousy or anything remotley wrong with our relationship and wont be.

It was the best expereince of my life is all i can say!

[Casperr]

Great to hear PB!!!

Good for you!!

Hope you and pudsey and Internet Friend continue to be close and happy and great!! :)

CasperTG

[Belial]

Great to see everything's turned out good and that you're happy :D

[Steph]

That's great news! All's well that ends well.

[PantyFanatic]

So where is the pictures.......... and every detail of de tail?:D

[par4golf39]

Great to hear that pinkbutton....glad it all worked out for you...


bless you

[flutelady]

So... what happens with the internet guy now that you've met and enjoyed? Does the internet friendship continue and perhaps another "play date" get scheduled.... yes, no, maybe?