Help me out

[slowmo]

Aight im 18 and im fat but not that fat
Ive been single now for almost a year now siince i dumped my last girlfriend. And ive meet other girls its just that i dont know any who would go out wit me. And i need a damn girlfriend cause god its lonly in hicksville.

[Lilith]

Here a great place for people to hook up is the gym or the YMCA. Kills 2 birds with one stone!

[Casperr]

Hate to break it to ya, but if you're confident and comfortable with your body you'll have a much better chance. Insecurity isn't usually sexy!

And like Lilith said, if you want to lose weight, do something about it. Hit the gym, go for a ride, watch what you eat. Good luck!

CasperTG

[LixyChick]

Isn't that a song? I'm 18.......and I am not very fat!

Oh wait.....(Alice Cooper's 18) It's more like....."I'm 18....and I don't know what I want".....LOL!

HIYA slowmo! You've got the world by the tail at your tender age hun! Try not to sound so negative.......it speaks volumes with first impressions! Instead of an intro such as yours above.......how bout saying something like.......I'm 18 and I'm looking forward to the rest of my life! I've got some issues I know I will conquer as time goes on and I am looking to future relationships to help guide me through this thing called living!

Everyone we meet......we meet for a purpose......and what we take from that meeting and apply to our lives in a constructive way....makes us who we are and who we'll be.

Take from this thread some wise and constructive words of wisdom......given without biased and given freely with no expectations. What goes around, comes around hun! You reap what you sow...........so go sow a plutherer of good vibes.....and be rewarded with the return tenfold!

BTW......So happy to meet you and Welcum to Pixies........where admission is free, advice is free, and friendship is free........and what you take with you from the wise and wonderful people here is a treasure chest of riches for you!

[dicksbro]

I'll go along with that welcome, slowmo. Hope you enjoy your time here. Lixy has good advice there. I read her suggested way of introducting yourself and ... shoot ... she sold me.

Hi, Lix! You sexy thing, you. :)

[lakritze]

Go see that great movie of last year called FRIDA.Check out Alfred Molina as Diego Rivera.He didn't let his extra wight bother him.Good luck and stop worring about it.

[IggysGirl]

Some girls actually like chubby guys!

[Midnight Kiss]

OMG yes........ I love the teddy bear bodied men of the world. Nothing more is a turn on then cuddling up next to a big bear of a man and getting those warm fuzzy feelings tingling all in side...hummmmmmmmm

[Porn_king]

thats actually true, because over the last few years i'd been pretty darn big (a combination of a weight problem and a big rugby build) i got a girlfriend alright, but it was when i went out to get fit and eventually slimmed right down what did my girlfriend go and do? she dumped me... why? because she didnt like the 'new' me. but the gf ive got now is much better and we experience so many things.

anyway back to you.... im almost 19 now but up until the age of 16 i was a recluse i very rarely went out and stayed in my bedroom alot of the time (due to my weight insecurities) but i suddenly decided to change when my summer holiday (after my big GCSE exams here in UK) occured and i was sick and tired of the fact that i'd lost touch with reality and knew nothing about my friends and the people i used to hang out with so i got out, went everywhere with my mates and i started going to the gym.

so if you're worried about the weight i know its hard not to worry but if you hang around with people more and more you'll realise that only the ignorant ones will care about what you look like.