~CyberLovers~ Player or Loyalist?

[Goddess_X]

When it comes to online interaction, most of us have experienced some variation of cyber relationship at some point.

The question posed is: Which kind of relationship do you prefer? And why?

Cyber players~ where your free and open to flirt, frollick and share intimatly with anyone and everyone??

Cyber Loyalists~ where although you may be friendly and flirty with others, you save your intimacy for one another exclusively?

Being that Pixies is such an open forum, thought it would be interesting to see the results and the explanations.

Thanks

[Prophet Reality]

I guess I am a player, but only with certain ladies.

[speedy]

loyal yes but also like the side trip of fun

[PantyFanatic]

LOL :D For a new kid Goddess_X, you've asked some interesting questions so far.;)

[Goddess_X]

i may be new, but hardly a kid. Just got a kid heart I guess. And I find human nature xtremly intriguing.

thanks for the answers so far, keep em cummin :D

I will share mine tomorrow after some sleeeeeeeeep and dreeeeeeam time.

xoxox

X

[Vicious Tease]

Hmmm ... of the choices I'd have to say player. Watching my favorite Cyber guy with someone else is almost as much fun as when his attention is on me.

[LixyChick]

I voted........but if I tell you my vote it won't cum true so.....................

LOL!

[jennaflower]

Alright... I will admit it.. I am a Loyalist.... the intimate stuff I don't share with just anyone... has to have a "connection" there...

[skipthisone]

Since I do not feel monogamy is a natural state of existance in Real life....that holds true for the digital world.

Connections are important however, and no one but a few people here ever really get to know me. And lets not forget, you have to get to know someone a little to find out if they are guy or girl for real.

[Casperr]

Well, I don't cyber at all, but I'll firt with everyone and anyone!

So I guess I'm a player.
CasperTG

[Passion Please]

Very interesting question and answers so far.... For me...

Life is all about free choice and as long as one person satisfies me I will stick with them by choice, but dont try and force me.

If there is not one current person in my life then i become am a player...

So I guess i become either... at any one time.

I have grown and learnt so much about myself from online relationships and safely explored the depths and heights of my passions like never before.

[T-S]

It all depends on who the relationship is with

[Lilith]

Loyalist......I flirt and play with everyone, but intimacy is a whole different thing.

[IAKaraokeGirl]

what she ^^^^ said

[Oldfart]

A fun flirt is great, but as jenna said, the connection needs to be there

in spades to go further.

[Goddess_X]

There is a definate difference for me between flirting and sharing intimatly.

Flirting in chat and on the boards with flirtable individuals is alot of fun. Being able to get a smile out of someone, maybe help brighten their day with playfull banter. All awesome qualities of cyberspace. I know I appreciate the effort that friends put into helping me enjoy my time online. Especially when reality is rearing its ugly head.

But I feel for me in order to devote the time and submit to some vulnerability with an intimate connection, I need a degree of understood loyalty.

As I recently shared with someone. When pouring your heart and passions out to someone privately, how special is it if they are busy flirtin up someone else privately at the same time, or quickly run off to have the same conversation with someone else.

Just my opinion. And I have been enlightened with those of you who have shared also.

[Lilith]

Goddess_X I could not agree more!!!! I have little interest/inclination to share myself with someone who wants nothing more than to fuck their way through cyberspace.

[cowgirltease]

To each his own cyber fantasies!

[darkangel37]

I am with you Goddess ;-) I cannot share with everyone - I must have some very special connection. We must click and BOTH feel very happy with it.

[erc25]

I am a loyalist. Of course I enjoy flirting, joking, talking just to anyone who is nice and friendly. But I always keep the intimacy to only that special someone.
I agree that it requires a certain connection for someone to really open yourself, to let you be vulnerable to someone else.

[LixyChick]

I still can't tell.............

but..........

^5 Goddess!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Goddess_X]

294 views and only 25 Votes???

Come on Pixies...it only takes a second, grab hold of that mouse...feel the control surge thru your fingers....and just DO IT!

CLICK IT just CLICK IT

dammit! :fly:

[campingboy]

I would say I'm a loyalist. I don't flirt too well. Introvert. Enjoy the chats, but tend to be quiet there too. I sometimes post on topics, but mostly play the smut games. Even there I tend to not to be overtly sexual.

[T-S]

Originally posted by Goddess_X

CLICK IT just CLICK IT

dammit! :fly:

And what you going to do if I don't :devil: ;) :p

[Goddess_X]

Originally posted by T-S
And what you going to do if I don't :devil: ;) :p

Haunt your mind....

Until you do!!!!! :hot:

[T-S]

Originally posted by Goddess_X
Haunt your mind....

Until you do!!!!! :hot:

That sounds like fun ;) :cool: