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fzzy
06-26-2003, 05:59 PM
How do you react when someone makes "flirty eyes" at you in a public place .... and/or .... In what situations will you flirt? ;)

Devillishgirl
06-26-2003, 08:22 PM
I'm a huge flirt.....I know I know, big surprise :D If someone "makes eyes" at me I do it right back....a girl has gotta have fun when she can :p

Lilith
06-26-2003, 08:30 PM
Am I supposed to let them make flirty eyes first??????;)

skipthisone
06-26-2003, 09:25 PM
I always give it back, that is the biggest difference to me now and years ago...i used to try not to be seen, now i try to be seen...amazing the increase in smiles I get.

denny
06-26-2003, 09:28 PM
I just can't help myself. And it gets me in many embarassing situations, too!

jennaflower
06-26-2003, 09:51 PM
Flirting is good for the soul... :)

denny
06-26-2003, 10:11 PM
It sure feels good!

fzzy
06-27-2003, 12:10 AM
I agree ... it is good for the soul ... actually, it is just GOOD! ... Lil, you have so much strength and confidence .... I'm too "scared" to do it first .... unless its with someone I've already established that kind of relationship with ..... LOL ... usually if someone makes flirty eyes at me .... I look around and behind me to see who they are really making them at!!! :) if there's no one there, then I probably blush a bit and try to smile big .... maybe do the head tilt thing if I'm feeling really confident. .... bet most people would have never guessed I'm a bit of the shy and retiring type! ;)

Mercury_Maniac
06-27-2003, 12:23 AM
i'm kinda shy when it comes to that kind of stuff

so most likely i look away

Tipper
06-27-2003, 01:24 AM
I love flirting.....only problem is......sometimes you get just a bit to strong a return...ya know??

denny
06-27-2003, 01:43 AM
C'mon Tipper, you know how to handle that, right?

celticangel
06-27-2003, 01:43 AM
flirting is fun~~~~~~~different degrees in different situations tho!

love to flirt with Dm!

erc25
06-27-2003, 01:53 AM
I can't initialize a flirt to a stranger. Still too shy for that :p

Regarding returning flirt..... I guess I am just as clumsy most of the time. I don't really know how to react I usually just open my eyes and look straight to her.... usually that is enough to scare her off or make her stop doing that :(

dadaist
06-27-2003, 02:06 AM
I sometimes make eyecontact, sometimes don't. And sometimes say hi, and sometimes don't. I don't often find either one returned....
ah well

Loulabelle
06-27-2003, 02:07 AM
My eyes flirt whether I want them to or not! I just have one of those kind of faces. :p

Christine
06-27-2003, 04:57 AM
I'm a flirt I guess...love catching a man's eyes, be it in the supermarket, at the library, or in a bar. I agree with Tipper, though, sometimes what you get in return is a bit too strong...LOL. But for the most part it's fun.

Passion Please
06-27-2003, 05:08 AM
Flirting is for fun.. I love it too, both to give and to receive. I am a huge tease at heart so it just comes naturally to me.

I would love to catch you eye anywhere Christine...

Bring on the fun... the world is far too serious

ericthered
06-27-2003, 06:15 AM
I vote for as much flirting as possible. Preferably with me.

T-S
06-27-2003, 08:00 AM
Originally posted by fzzy
In what situations will you flirt? ;)

Pretty much a Martini flirt - Any time, any place, anywhere
:D

IAKaraokeGirl
06-27-2003, 08:02 AM
I am *entirely* too shy in real life to flirt, unless I've been flirted with first. My response will usually be a joke or some witty-type comment--and you can practically forget about eye contact, at least at first.

Steph
06-27-2003, 09:29 AM
We ALL flirt at work, seeing as how it's a relaxed environment, an Internet dating company, we're all under 30 for the most part . . . lots of sexual innuendos fly.

LixyChick
06-27-2003, 03:29 PM
A flip of my hair.........a side glance when I know he's looking at me........a nudge and inuendo while standing close (with people I know).......

I do it everywhere!

I think my fave is when I've been behind a guy while driving in my truck for sometime and we stop at a light. I try and catch his glances in his side mirror and I smile and look away...but back again really fast before he can look away. Makes um smile everytime!

GermanSteve
06-27-2003, 05:02 PM
Usually I´m too shy for starting a conversation :( but basically I flirt back.

pinkbutton
06-28-2003, 11:14 AM
if someone flirts with me ive just got to flirt back! it just has to be done! and anyway it gives a great confidence boost if u cath some guy looking at you in that way

thedog
06-28-2003, 11:27 AM
I love to flirt. And it's interesting watching the reactions to flirting. Most times, whether she returns the attention or whether she doesn't, the grooming actions begin - fingers through hair, posture straightening, etc. Grocery stores are fun.

lakritze
06-30-2003, 01:59 PM
I need to buy that book,FLIRTING for IDIOTS You know those how to books? and bone up on how to flirt and return flirts.Does any of you lovely Pixie lasses want to give me some personal training?

Glyndwr
07-02-2003, 09:06 AM
Flirting can be fun, can also be dangerous.

But what is life without a little danger ;)

Irish
07-02-2003, 09:36 AM
Flirting can be fun,but it also can be embarrassing!Once while
Christmas shopping,I had an old girlfriend flirt&follow(obviously)me all over,store to store.What was really embarrassing,to me,
was that she had gotten married,and her husband was with her.
It not only embarrassed me,but I felt bad for her husband.It was
so obvious that my male cousin,that was with me,thought that it
was funny as hell! Irish
P.S.I hadn't seen her in years.I had served a 4yr enlistment&
gotten married(to a girl from another state)since,I had last seen her.

Vicious Tease
07-02-2003, 02:25 PM
I make eye contact and grin ... then wait to see how long it takes him to get bashful and look away ... or make his next move.

thedog
07-02-2003, 03:09 PM
Vicious ...

It would turn into a standoff with you and me. Or something more. I tend not to look away, the eyes have a subtle way of smiling that says it all!

Here's looking at you.;)

Vicious Tease
07-02-2003, 07:16 PM
:lust:

Looking back at ya, darlin ... with a wicked grin ...

skipthisone
08-05-2003, 02:24 PM
Damn i like when i get the grin...

darogle
08-07-2003, 01:16 AM
I'm a big flirt so I'd make eye's back, smile and see where it went from there...

Belial
08-07-2003, 06:44 AM
I can't recall ever being flirted with (or I just didn't notice), but I guess I'd just smile back...maybe wink...I don't know how to flirt.

GingerV
08-07-2003, 07:46 AM
I catch someone's eye across the room, and if it's accompanied by that "hiya" grin....I'm off and running. Can't help myself.

I'll usually drop my gaze very quickly, then lift my eyes to them again to let them catch me taking that second look with a little half smile to let them think I like what I've seen. Then I'll pull my attention back to whatever I was doing when the whole thing kicked off...it's only polite. Besides, that starts the chase. I get to spend the rest of the evening playing "glance tag" until whoever it is gets up the courage to come talk to me or dance with me...or whatever the order of the evening is. And there's lots of little things I've caught myself doing during the game that encourage such a decision. The little half smiles get bigger, I might bite my lip or something silly like that. I suddenly realize that I'm angling my body to offer my fellow flirt the best view, the whole leg crossing thing can happen here. Or shifting my balance in their direction after I've looked away. I know, it sounds strange. But I didn't realize I was doing it until I saw someone else do it to me...and it emphasized the magnatism of the whole thing. Ah, the wonders of body language.

I love that wordless phase of flirting...but, lucky me, I haven't yet been disappointed when it ended and the next stage began ;)

osuche
08-07-2003, 09:08 PM
I like giving the "come hither" look and a lip lick when driving. Amazing the response it elicits.

I LOVE initiating...and typically take the time to give the guy a compliment. I find men rarely get them and love them...

dicksbro
08-08-2003, 05:50 AM
Congrats on your 300th post Osuche!

I think all guys love it when you ladies flirt with us. Most of us ... most of the time ... know it's just in fun ... but it's still a bit of a turn on. Even us older guys love it. Thanks for being the wonderful, sexy people that you are! ;)