Are you more attracted to Shy or Outgoing

[fzzy]

Just asking another pesky question .....


Do you find yourself more physically attracted to the shy type or the outgoing type? And/or which do you think of yourself as in your everyday life?

Me ... I like conservative ... but am especially attracted to outgoing guys ... and I absolutely fall into the sometimes shy sometimes outgoing group .... I tend to be more shy in one-on-one type of situations until I really get to know the other person ... otherwise, I can usually get most people to laugh when I'm in a group.

[Sharni]

Can't say one or the other really....both have their advantages

[Booger]

I'm attracted to out going people most of the time

I act outgoing most of the time but thats just a cover for the shy me who is hiding behind it

[Sarriah]

Well I for one am very outgoing, I will tell you right away if you do something that bothers me, or if I do or dont like something. What I like, and what I feel.
I am very fun to hang out with and been called "one of the guys" like oh its a guys night out at the strip club no girls allowed, but wheres Sarriah=)
I tend to like the kinda shy type, where I can make them blush, squirm, look away, but they want to hang out with me more cause they like the way I can make them feel.. Now right now I could fall for a guy to walk up to me and tell me what he wants, and take control of me.. Mmm
So I guess it depends on what mood im in.. Today im feeling frisky!! Woot =)

[GingerV]

I honestly don't think I have a shy/outgoing preference. Hadn't thought of that one before. I tend to wind up with outgoing guys, though. Probably because I'm not terribly good at first moves. Second moves, no problem ;-)....but I really need that first one to give me permission.

Hence, not a lot of shy guys. Shame really, they'd be so much fun ;-).

[Steph]

I had one short, terrible relationship with a closed-mouthed guy. Never again! If there's something wrong and you can't tell me . . . I'm not interested!

Booger is shy but outgoing in the right circumstance - that's my type of guy!

[Lilith]

I like the type of guy who is quiet and unassuming until you get to know him.The type who is reserved around strangers and warm with friends.

[Casperr]

I tend to be fairly outgoing most of the time, but if I'm with total strangers I get very awkard.... you know the uncomfortable conversation lull? Yes? I invented that.

However, when I'm with my good friends, or at swimming, or online (can ya tell? Ha!) I'm very outgoing. That's when I'm most comfortable with myself, and I'm loud and proud! LOL :)

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[Cheyanne]

I prefer the shy and reserved... and like Lilith one who warms up to family and friends... :)

I am pretty much outgoing... meaning I will talk to just about anyone. I have left a shop with someone's life history before.... must just have one of those faces that people will talk too.

Sex 24/7 is shy and reserved...... we make a good couple in that respect.. :)

[quisath]

I go for the Outgoing..........and since I'm outgoing 99% of the time is makes getting to know people a lot easier. I feel more comfortable with the OUTGOING individuals. :)

[LixyChick]

I just went over my relationship history and I don't see a "type" there. I am one of those people who likes people for people's sake. I like um all! Shy and reserved when we meet......you'll come out of your shell sooner or later. Outgoing and commanding........you'll realize, eventually, that I can hold my own.

Anyone I've ever been "involved" with has nothing in common with any other.............I try to experience ALL life has to offer!

[IAKaraokeGirl]

Thinking back, I'd have to say I'm attracted to those who are more outgoing. I am *terribly* shy, and so I think that I need to find someone I'm comfortable with and who can draw me out of my shell a bit.

[Incubus255]

I'd definatly have to say I'm attracted to shy lol although I definatly like girls who can be really open when around people they trust, lol I suppose I'm lookin for someone kinda like myself ^__^ lmao,

but hey shy girls are always really wild in bed hehe ^__^

[BlueSwede]

I agree with Lilith.

[babybunny]

<--- Corrupts the shy too. ;)

[krzykrn]

I can't give a black and white answer on this, I like aspects of both. But someone who is the extreme aspect at either ends is bad...someone so shy they never talk (or have nothing to talk about) is just as bad as someone who is so outgoing they even forget that you are there.

[erc25]

I think I am the one who likes the outgoing girl. Since I am really shy with the strangers or just acquaintences. However, if I know the person better, she would never get me to shut up :).
I think it is just like my astrological sign... the cancer. I will have a hard shell protecting myself. But once you get me get out of my shell, you will have access to the deepest in me.