Power Issues

[Lilith]

Ladies~ Is cowgirl the only position in which you feel "in charge" so to speak?

Gents~ Have you found other positions where you feel that lady leads?

[ericthered]

I guess the person who is on top and moving is the leader. Except for tying her victim down, I think the lady has the most control and power when she kneels over him and sits on his mouth.

Being trapped under a lady with your head between her thighs and your face half covered, really puts you in your place. Especially because she can look you in the eye and give you as much or as little of her pussy as SHE wants. Shiver...!

[hitachi]

first of all I'm with you ericthered that positions is so cool. But a women has lots of control in most any position if she knows what she is doing. As long as she does not just lay there like a lump on a log. When a womens hips get rocking and she raises up to meet your thrusts it's kinda of hard to tell who is fucking who. Not to mention when she wraps her legs around you and pull you in with her heels dug into your but, she has a fair amount of controll.

[Scarlett]

I don't think cowgirl is the only position where I am "in charge." I can (and do) set the rhythm no matter what position we are in.

[BlueSwede]

I agree that cowgirl is NOT the only position in which the woman can be in charge. I had a partner who never was the aggressor; no matter what position we were in, I was the one doing the thrusting (including when I was flat on my stomach or in the spoon position with him behind me). That's the way he wanted it.

With my present partner, I love when, in the missionary position, he raises up almost as if he were going to do a pushup, and he stays still. Then I'm the one who does the thrusting, deciding how fast and how hard that thrusting will be. One of the last times we did that, he said he was going to come if I continued doing what I was doing. I loved pushing the envelope even more to make him come. I loved that feeling of power. ;)

[skipthisone]

I think one of the sexiest things a woman can do is be taking it from behind and to take over and pushing back....damn that gets me everytime

[Cheyanne]

The cowgirl posion is the most apparant position for a woman to take to be to take charge so to speak. But, I have found that there are subtle things a woman can do in most any position to direct. Telling him what to do, what feels good, what not to do.... not to mention working those "special" muscles.... gets him everytime.. :)

[Jaylene]

I think cowgirl defiantely communicates I'm in charge, but its not the only one...last night my bf and I ended up in missionary position after a bit of frolicking. I was on the bottom, and just locked my ankes behind his back...he was all mine. Everytime he tried to slide out my hips followed his. He was in my control...he,he,he...
Othertimes though I don't want to be and let him have control...justs depends on how we feel I think.

[LixyChick]

Nope!

Do I have to elaborate or shall I just leave it at that?

[Scarecrow]

ever try a revese cowgirl(facing his feet) its like doggy style upside down

[Lilith]

mmmmmmmm and gives him access to other fun places;)

[lockbox]

Pretty much any position we are in, I go nuts and end up taking over for awhile and then he'll do something goooooooood and I'll let him take over for a bit and then my hips get to rockin again and...hrm. Yeah. Heheh.

[Tipper]

'taking charge'....or 'being in control' is such a sexual charge for me...what I mean is....it's so easy for a guy to take control....'sorta, jump in jump out, slap her on the ass and say thank you very much'....but to allow her to be in control...to build a guy to a peak and then pull back....to entice and to show tenderness.....to be agressive as in....."honey, I want to make love to your body"..."please allow me to play".....damn, that would be very erotic.

[Kendall]

Any particular position? She may lead.. in any position.. if she has the right attitude.

[naughtyeddie]

blue sweede you sound hot, my mind is working overtime.

it is good to feel my woman in charge,

ne

[Loulabelle]

Can't believe no-one's mentioned giving head yet.......that, for me, will always be the ultimate power ride........control by apparent submission is what women do best.....

[quisath]

Gawdddddd I Love a Woman who can take charge...................that's SEXY. (after all ...........I grow the Wood you do with it as you see fit) :)

[Sugarsprinkles]

Originally posted by Loulabelle
Can't believe no-one's mentioned giving head yet.......that, for me, will always be the ultimate power ride........

You're absolutely right, Loulabelle!! That, to me is the ultimate power trip. To take him from totally flacid, to hard as a rock, and then to make him cum, solely from what you do with your mouth?? My God, is there anything more "powerful"?