~Snatched Up By the Hair~

[Lilith]

I think that there is a fine art to hair pulling. How many of you ladies enjoy a good yank? Men how does snatching someone by the hair enhance the experience?

When is the best time or postition to add a little tug to?

For me, if you are gonna pull my hair do so authoritatively! Reach your hand in grab a hand full of curls, cock your wrist fast and hard, and give a nice firm tug. No such thing as too hard.

I have a hair thing! I also love to tickle his back with my hair, alternating kisses and licks with hanging my head over him so just the tips of curls gently graze over his flesh. Goosebumps everytime;)

[gekkogecko]

Hair pulling is just a part of the whole dominating scene. As you well know, but there are people who might read this who don't.

It works best, of course, when I have my partner on her belly, or hands and knees. Doesn't matter if I'm thrusting into her, spanking her or "forcing" a blowjob out of her, it all works well.

[T-S]

at the right time a bit of good pullin :D

[Steph]

Sexy! As long as my neck doesn't get hurt, it's a turn on.

[Scarlett]

No time is a good time to pull my hair. I imagine that would piss me off to the core lol

[skipthisone]

Originally posted by Scarlett
No time is a good time to pull my hair. I imagine that would piss me off to the core lol

Now we know who the pure dom is...

[Cheyanne]

I am with Scarlett..... but a gentle rub or carress on the back of my head does wonders.... *shiver*

[Lilith]

<~~~~ is a Dom who dabbles in masochism;) but if he's gonna do it he damn sure better do it good!

[skipthisone]

kinda goes....*pulls on the hair....stroke foward roughly*...like that?

[Lilith]

yesssssss;) just about...

[darogle]

I generally go more for the intimate, slow and lanquid love making...

that being said, there ain't nothin wrong with dirty, nasty, hair pullin, back scratchin, dirty talking, sweaty, grinding, ass spankin, call me daddy, feverish, hot.....kinda sex

Lord have mercy! Can I get an amen?!?

Ahem...so, yeah, I would say that it can enhance the experience, given the right mood.

Usually tend to tug in doggy style.
Usually tend to get mine tugged in missionary.

(That's just the way it has worked out in the past...open to new suggestions as always)

[seriousfun]

I've known some women who's only off-limits was her hair, and others who have begged me to pull their hair.

I will never be smart enough to know how to predict in advance who wants what...so I'm always a polite boy (before I give a big yank, or bite, or long scratch...going OT here).

[Neige]

I just love having my hair played with, either roughly or playfully! ;)

[dadaist]

Again, any of this would require having a willing participant, preferably with long tresses. ;)

[LixyChick]

I didn't grow my hair to my hips for nuttin! I like a rough tug from time to time.......and then there is the shampoo in the shower play! Mmmmmmmm! The locks are there....have at um!

[BlondeCurlGirl]

I've had my hair played with plenty of times, which was very enjoyable...but I've never had the experience of hair pulling during foreplay or sex. I think as long as it was a gentle tug, I'd be pretty cool with it.

[dadaist]

Originally posted by BlondeCurlGirl
I've had my hair played with plenty of times, which was very enjoyable...but I've never had the experience of hair pulling during foreplay or sex. I think as long as it was a gentle tug, I'd be pretty cool with it.

Dare we ask how long BCG's lists of things to try is getting? ;)

[BlondeCurlGirl]

LOL dadaist...Good thing I have some time off now to try these things...just need a willing partner :D

[Ando3]

raises hand

[dadaist]

Originally posted by BlondeCurlGirl
LOL dadaist...Good thing I have some time off now to try these things...just need a willing partner :D

I think this would be the last place to worry about not finding a volunteer. Just need one who's close and one you can trust.....trust to come post every photo to pixies that is :P

;)

[Lilith]

For those of you who were adamantly against hair pulling....

Is it because you are tender headed? You have no interest in intense stimuli like pain? Feel it would objectify you? Feel it denotes disrespect?

[huntersgirl]

In the heat of the moment all is good!;) Giving a good yank on a forward thrust, and I know you just want to be deeper! And I like that!:D

[Scarlett]

To answer your question Lilith, I have never liked anyone (not even my own children) to mess with my hair. It's just something that bugs me to no end. Hair pulling = fighting to me.

[skipthisone]

CAT FIGHT!!!!!!

[SwtCheeks]

Hair-pulling can make that orgasm just THAT much more intense!
Pull-away!

[Loulabelle]

I have a theory about hair:

Women who have short, spikey hair get it played with far more than women with long hair (men are scared to tangle up long hair) and there is something about a girl with short hair that makes you want to ruffle it!

Likewise men with long hair get it played with far more as it is out of the ordinary and my experience is that men who like to have their hair played with grow it long.

I love to have my head massaged and my hair played with (hence I have it short!) and it means that if it's gonna get pulled it gets pulled from the roots which doesn't hurt and doesn't damage the hair.

Doggy or any from behind position is great for hair pulling for me, but I have a tendancy to grab at my guys hair if I'm on top. Not that Fussy has much hair to grab ahold of, so with him, I tend to grasp his shoulders and dig my nails into his chest. He doesn't usually complain at the time though.......afterwards, when he sees the gouges I've made in skin maybe, but it's too late by then! :p

[skipthisone]

I think you tell us these stories just to turn us all on...but i digress. I find I am not scared of long hair. Had a girlfriend many years ago that used to have me brush hers...sitting around on lazy sunday afternoons..naked in bed...painting her toe nails and brushing her hair.

[Loulabelle]

Brushing isn't quite the same as vigourously massaging the scalp and feeling the hair entwine around your fingers though is it?!

God I'd sell my soul for that *sighs*

[Christine]

My hair grabbed and yanked back…..*growls* Yes please!
I love that kind of “aggression”, it heightens my senses, and sure brings out the wild woman in me.

I've never been with a guy who was afraid to tangle up my hair (I've always had long hair more or less)...quite the contrary. *sigh*

[Wildeye]

Huntress

I love to get tangled in your hair and play a while.

Stay cool - oh wild one

Wildeye

Dreaming of hair, spouse has wonderful thick hair, especially love playing there will she takes me into her sweet mouth.

[Lilith]

Originally posted by skipthisone
I think you tell us these stories just to turn us all on...but i digress. I find I am not scared of long hair. Had a girlfriend many years ago that used to have me brush hers...sitting around on lazy sunday afternoons..naked in bed...painting her toe nails and brushing her hair.

Damn you;)


I disagree with the short hair theory. I don't think it is at all about the hair but rather the man. I wore mine short for years and it never got his attention. Now I have this long curly medusa mess and it is perfect to get your hands tangled in. When my man buries his hands in it, twists, and yanks, I know he is not going to last much longer.

[Glyndwr]

Long hair is a big turn on, in any position. Pulling her head backwards to expose her neck somehow accentuates a vulnerability. I guess it's a control thing.

[MrX]

I have been asked in the past to do this, Mentally i dont have a problem with it but I do not always feel comfortable doing it. I would hate to hurt my partner...
Knowing the boundaries is the key i guess ....

[Lilith]

If you are timid about it, it shows. It has to be firm decisive...controlling. The lady from the radio show here actually gives workshops in how to pull hair most effectively.

There are lots of dif hair pulls too. You can gather it and hold on, tugging at the entire bundle or reach your fingers in at the roots, pulling her head back as you lean in to say some deliciously nasty thing in her ear.

Yummy Glyndwr so sexily brought to my mind, a time I was being kissed. Bodies pressed tightly together, I could feel his cock stiffening as he ground it against me. He reached both arms up and tugged on my hair to tilt my head back sharply,exposing my neck to his nibbles...*sighs*

[T-S]

Originally posted by Christine
My hair grabbed and yanked back…..*growls* Yes please!
I love that kind of “aggression”, it heightens my senses, and sure brings out the wild woman in me.

There's an image to keep oneself warm at night ;) :D