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[insatiable]

My guy wants to take me anally, I think that if I let him I should get to do the same thing to him. I havent mentioned this to him yet, but Im getting hot thinking about it. If it turns me on I don't see why he should object. What do you think?

[rackemup]

I really dont think you will be succesful at that...There is just something wrong with that very thought,but.
There are possibilities if the approach is right.Try massaging the fleshy
little fun bridge between his balls and ass hole while giving veery exellent head
that is quite a turn on and might get you a little closer to your goual.
Later ...

rackem up

[Honesty]

Although our G-spot is there I doubt you will get a strap-on up it. I suggest you firstly try your finger when next having sex, see how that goes, then and only then approach the subject.

Good luck.
I would like to hear the result...

[rocknindy]

here's how my wife got me, first when sucking my cock, she would play with my ass, then lick my ass, then taking a pussy covered finger would slide it in my ass, after that as long as the dildo had pussy on it she could slide it in me

[Big & Hard]

Yikes, definitely not for me, but hey, whatever floats yer boat right?

[champ]

My girlfriend wants to...

fuck me in the ass with her dildo! I must admit the thought turns me on. We've talked about threesomes and stuff but I don't want to share her. We talked the other night and I told her to guess who I'd most like to have a threesome with. She guessed her twin sister and I admited it. Ever since then the sex has been great.

I once fucked her in the ass, as punishment for hurting her she wants to fuck me in mine. I really want her to, but how can I tell her this without sounding sick or gay??

Please reply.:yellghst:

[scotzoidman]

Champ-
Maybe let her tie you up first (please arrange a safeword first so you can stop things if something is seriously wrong), and let her do with you as she will. If you're restrained, both of you can say you're not really responsible. (I guess the mention of punishment inspired this).

[joel]

insatiable - go for it.

If it gets you hot, try a moistened experimental finger first, if it gets no objections, broach the subject. Perhaps try a dominating manor - you may find he's yours for the taking.

[Mr_X]

Insatiable, I think he'll love it. I know I'd love to receive that kind of treatment. Tell us how it goes!

[Studz]

MMM what a turn on my girl loves fucking me with her strap on!!It makes me squirt so hard MMMM I love to please my girl.

[Mind_Blowing]

I just brought up the subject with my husband last night. Because it is that time of the month (in reference to your other post) and still kind of heavy, I sucked on him. I noticed he wasn't really enjoying it so I took a bent finger and used the knuckle to press against his asshole. He said he really liked that.

I don't know yet about a strap on, but I would like to get a dildo in his ass and told him so last night. (the thought of it gets me hot too!) We agreed that we will start slow, a finger, a couple fingers, and work our way up from there.

I'm looking forward to it! Make sure you tell us how far you get!

:) MB

[SweetBea]

The keys to great anal sex are relaxation and good lube. My hubby suggested it a few months ago and I said sure. I found out that if he's really lubed up ( we use astroglide) and then I relax when he enters (that part is a little uncomfortable, but I just breathe hard and tell him to enter slowly) then once he's in, it is great. We pump deep and hard and it's wonderful, I cum everytime! BTW I used to finger myself while he did me anally and that got him so hot that he likes to finger me now while he's pounding me and I play with my breasts. It's great. But I do agree it's best to start with a well-lubed finger and work your way up. :D I want to finger his ass while he masterbates. I haven't brought it up yet, but I will one day when he's really hot...


P.S. It's perfectly normal for straight guys to like a little ass play. It doesn't mean they're gay or bi! ;)

[glittergeezer]

i guess the idea of enjoying having any kind of bum fun is scarry to alot of men though alot of these same men will very happily give the g/f one round the back door,lol,i really dont know why we have this problem!!i go with all the other advise take it slow use plenty of lube and make sure hes very relaxed.i know it drives me wild when my g/f has her fingers up my bum wanking me off.Go for it.

[Fang]

Most guys, if they go into it with an open mind and a partner they trust, will enjoy getting their ass played with. I personally love it.

Often I'll ask my wife to finger me while she sucks my cock. She loves playing with my ass. I've never asked her to fuck me with a strap on. I have used her vibrator up my ass several times while jacking off though and I know I'd love her to do it to me. If she ever asked to fuck me in the ass... I'd say YES.

On the "gay" question...

Homosexuality is simply being sexually attracted to members of the same sex. The act involved has very little if anything to do with it. I've wondered, as I think most of us have, "could I be gay?" My answer is no. I'm not attracted to men. I don't want to be fucked by a guy, or fuck a guy. I do want my wife to pleasure me anally however. Since she's a she, and not a he, I figure that answers it for me. From what I understand, not all gay men enjoy or practice anal sex.

That's my two cents worth.

Just lick a finger while you suck him and push it up his ass. If he likes it or not, you'll know right away.

[96GMCJimmy]

One day in the shower with my wife she started to wash my back and ass. While her fingers were soapy she slid a finger in without telling me. I was on fire, and wanted her then and there. I have let her play with my ass and I get to finger her also. As others have said LUBE, then work up to bigger things

[bogeyman]

I would love for my wife or hell, any woman to fuck my ass with a strp on... I finger myself and use a vibrator in my ass while i masterbae and its awesome...

I can picture it now.. with me on my back and legs in the air... I can watch her tits bounce and she can jack my cock while it all happens..

Gotta go.. I'm horny now!!!!!!!

[skipthisone]

Bump...liked this topic

[Devillishgirl]

I've used vibes on men anally before but never a strap on....it's on my to do list though ;) :p :D

[grotochp]

hi if you were close and i was your boyfriend I would say sure lets go for it. i have had a few ex girlfriends use there dildos or vibs but wouldnt mind trying a strap on so good luck

[BlueSwede]

Maybe it's just that I, like a lot of us here, are quite open minded about sex, but I can't in all the world imagine why anybody would think that a guy enjoying someone using a strap-on on him would make him sick OR gay. I mean, what the heck is wrong with someone receiving pleasure in one of their erogenous zones? And whether you're male or female, it IS one of the body's erogenous zones. Please, Champ, get those notions out of your head of you being thought of as sick or gay if you think you'd like it. Also, when it comes to the notion that a guy must be or would be considered gay if he wants it or likes it, what about having your dick sucked? After all, gay guys do that, too. It certainly doesn't mean a guy is gay just because he likes THAT activity. I'd gladly use a strap-on on my guy if he wanted me to; he already loves to be rimmed. I think he'd like more, too, if I could talk him into trying it.

[Cheyanne]

*gets the Doc Johnson harness & locking dildo out*

From a woman's perspective -

Part of lovemaking is knowing that you are giving your partner pleasure. If your partner is receptive to anal play (rimming, finger insertion) then the next step would be to try a dildo or butt plug. See how he feels about the sensation (not the mental worry of being gay or perhaps having homosexual tendencies) but the actual pleasure that is being received and given. Then, if you do decide to move forward to a strap-on, start small and them move up in size or style (ribbed, vibrating, shape)

The sensation for me rocking back and forth - holding onto his hips, is more emotionally satisfying than physically. I do however, have a special bullet that can be inserted into the pocket of the harness that will give me a clitoral orgasm as I am thrusting into him.....

Conversation/Communication..... that is the key....

[Cheyanne]

If further investigation is necessary... there is a video out called "Bend Over Boyfriend" that will answer a lot of questions that couples might have... we watched it... some of the actors are kinda well......... won't go into that, but it is informative.

[Cobalt]

I totaly love it when Cheyanne straps on a toy and does me in the ass. It is the best feeling, but you have to relaxe and get used to it before it really feel great!

[airhog]

Yes I have talked to my gf about using a strap on, on me. We just cant afford one right now...

one time she did use a vibrator on me, and it felt good, but when she handed it too me to wash it off, It slipped and fell on her sheets :D

At least we laughed about it.

[ericthered]

I have seen (but never tried) a double dildo called Nexus from www.vixencreations.com. This seems to be a big improvement on most strap-ons because it fits INSIDE the lady at the right angle, and gives her a useful cock to do whoever she wants while getting as much stimulation for herself as possible.

Has anyone tried one of these? Tell us about it....

[naughtyeddie]

well i dont find the idea a turn on,

i dont think most men would go for it.

but i must confess that i do like it when a girl licks my ass and play with the area but i did not like it much when she inserted a finger further more thinking of a dildo.

but i would suggest trying playing with the area wkile giving a bj or massage, rimming, then a finger. try it one step at a time over a period of time, maybe he might like it or just do it to satisfy you.

come to think of it , i would have done it with my ex gf if i knew that it would turn her on and if she let me also fullfill one of my weird fantasies .

try it you may be lucky

naughty eddie

[Dreamer235]

I've mentioned purchasing a strap on to my wife, and she's open to the idea. She knows I like to be on the receiving end of penetration sometimes, and it does certainly enhance the orgasm if you hit the right spot. On an emotional level, it's just a powerful fantasy for some men I think. As others have said, you need lots of trust, and even more lube! Be adventurous and go for it.

[Sharni]

Oooooo...would love a strap on!!

Dunno if Bilbo would though *LOL*

[skipthisone]

There is just something about it....