My poorly horseman12

[hellsbells]

You will all probably have noticed the lack of posts from horseman12, as he has always been an ardent poster.

Well I feel I must tell you all that he is has been, and still is, very poorly.

When I met him, he told me about some blemishes he had on his arm and neck, one of which was sore and wouldn't heal, apparantly he has had them for a while, so I insisted that he went to see the doctor, who informed him that if left untreated would develop into cancer. So some tests were done and a date set for another appointment to have them removed.

shortly after this, he developed toothache, in his wisdom tooth, and just like a man, ignored it, hoping it would go away. Well it didn't, and he was in such pain that he eventually went to the emergency at the hospital. They just gave him pain killers and some antibiotics and sent him home.

After a couple of days it was worse, his face was swollen real bad, he was still in great pain, so he went to the dentist, this was the day he should have been at the doctors, but his tooth became the priority because of the pain.

The dentist pulled the tooth, which in hindsight, he shouldn't have, because the absess caused infection to spread all through his jaw, which he now cannot open, and he has been living on liquids for two week now. He has lost 33 pounds in the past two week. He is still in great pain, but I think, it is starting to improve a little, although he still cannot open his jaw.

Anyway, he went back to the doctors for the results of his tests, and the results proved positive, he has skin cancer, he is very cool about it, I am the one that is devastated, I know that skin cancer is curable, and I hope and pray that he will be fine.

So I am asking you all to include him in your prayers. I hope we will both be posting again before too long

Love to you all

[Steph]

Oh no, the poor man! My prayers are with him.

[Loulabelle]

Hellsbells - hugs to you both sweetie. We're here if you need us.

Look after each other.

x

[Cheyanne]

We will be thinking of horseman and you as well........ take care of that man....

Please keep us posted.......................

[skipthisone]

Damn...sorry to hear, keeping good thoughts here.

[FussyPucker]

(((((((((Hells))))))))) I hope Horseman has a speedy recovery

[Lilith]

Send thoughts of healing, love, and peace to you both. It is horrible to watch the people we love suffer. Hells, pm me if you need to talk. Send horseman12 big smooches on his forehead from me.

[hellsbells]

Thank you for the prayers Steph, they are greatly appreciated.
Loulabelle and Fussy, you are good dear friends, the hugs help, I thank you both.
Cheyanne and skip, thanks very much, keep the positive thought coming our way, we feel them.
Lilith .. thank you, you have always been very supportive, I think horseman12 will really enjoy your smooches lol. I will certainly need to talk if he doesn't improve, I know no one can make it go away, but sometimes just sharing helps.
I am very touched my all the support, silly me, it has set the tears flowing again.
Thanks once again to you all....kisses

[Neige]

((((((((((((Hellsbells n Horseman))))))))))))))

[LixyChick]

(((((((horseman12)))))))))

Oh Hells! I'll keep good thoughts for him....and you too hun!

[dicksbro]

OMG! Sorry to hear that. Definitely, horseman will be in our prayers. Thanks for letting us know, hellsbells.

[babybunny]

Aww that is horrible! Bunny hugs to you both! Stay strong, you have alot of people rooting for ya.

~babybunny~

[huntersgirl]

So sorry to hear your news...I will keep you both in my prayers and send lots of positive thoughts your way! Wishing you both the best!

[hellsbells]

Pixie, thanks hun, knew you would be there for us, thanks for the hug. Hugs back at you hun, know you have had it tough yourself!

Lixy, thankyou so much, you have known him longer than I, and I know you care very much for all Pixies, I will pass on your hug, hope its not too long before you can give him a hug personally.

Thanks dicksbro, it means so much to know that you are there for him.

babybunny, how kind of you, feels good to know you are rooting for us, thanks for the Bunny hugs babe...I will pass them on to him

huntersgirl, thankyou for the prayers and positive thoughts, I truly believe that they work.... I gain strength from believing this, and I know he feels the love from all of you coming through.

[Aqua]

Hugs to you both and you will both be in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong! We are here for you... :)

[dm383]

And here I thought he was on holidays! Sorry to hear about Horsemans ills HB.... but like you say, skin cancer is eminently curable... I'm sure he'll be right-as-rain in no time. :) And as for the tooth........ I feel his pain!!! :(

Seriously, I wish him (and you!!) a speedy recovery, and hopefully he'll be back with us all soon.

Keep yer chin up girl! :)

All love to you both

DM & CA

[Sharni]

Positive thought to you both!!

[hellsbells]

aqua, thankyou so very much...means a lot to both of us

DM & CA, thankyou both for your love and support, trying to keep the Brit stiff upper lip, it quivers now and then, but it is my love that is suffering but me that is blubbering. Silly isn't it.

Thanks Sharni.....We can feel the strength coming though hun

[lorri]

Hellsbells & horseman12 .. you both know, I am here for you whenever you want me .. and in whatever capacity .. all I can do at the moment is listen .. but - whenever you need me .. I am available ..day or night
Be strong my dear friends - I know you will get through this .. it's meant to be :D

Your friend always

[Scarecrow]

Sorry to here about Horseman's troubles will keep both of you in our prayers and thoughts.

[Eliza]

Prayers and Warm Fuzzy thoughts to you both. I'm sure he'll be back on his feet in no time!

Eliza

[hellsbells]

lorri, you are my very best friend, and I know that you are always there for me, always have been. You above all others know how much horseman12 and I mean to each other. You should be tired of my tearful phonecalls by now, but you never say. For this I am eternally grateful. I love you....we love you!!!!

scarecow.....thankyou so very much....all prayers and thoughts are indeed welcome. There cannot be too many.

Eliza....thankyou very much. I do hope he will be up on his feet soon, he has been in pain for so long, if only he could open his jaw so he sould eat, I wish I could be there for him, I love him so much.

[Grumble]

I have been off line for 3 weeks because of a problem with my ISP and have just read this thread.

My thoughts and prayers are with you both, especially since Hellsbells was so kind to me when I was hurting.

I hope that horseman will make a speedy and full recovery

hugs

Ian

[txgrneyes]

I am so sorry to hear this horrible news...but like I always say to myself in crises....

This too shall pass....

Advise him he is in my prayers along with you too.

[hellsbells]

grumbleguts, so nice to see you again my friend, Thankyou for your prayers and thoughts, I know they worked for you hun.

txgrneyes, thankyou very much, I keep him informed of all the good wishes sent his way, and though he cannot talk too much, I know he is deeply touched.

[hellsbells]

Update

Have spoken with my love yesterday, the medication is still keeping him asleep most of the time, and he still cannot move his jaw, but he is not as nauseous as he was. Maybe he will start to improve soon.
I have not been able to contact him yet today, I am hoping it is because he is asleep.
I will keep you posted, love to you all.
huggggggggsssssssss

[kleclere]

Horseman and Hellsbells my prayers and thoughts go out to both of you. As a family memeber of a cancer survivor I know what you are going thru and feeling. All the members of of the Pixies family wish the best for both of you. All the good thoughts and hugs go out to you two.

[jseal]

hellsbells,

You and yours are in my prayers.

[hellsbells]

Thankyou very much for your prayers and thoughts kleclere, I hope horseman12 and myself will return to the forum real soon.
I have actually spoken to him for five seconds today, and he had to rush off to be ill. I wish I could be with him, but alas, the miles separate us, I hope for not too much longer.

Thankyou for your prayers jseal, they are very welcome.

[grotochp]

DUDE GET WELL SOON AND QUICK

[hellsbells]

Thanks grotochp

Spoke with him this morning and the pain is subsiding somewhat, I am hoping he will soon feel up to using his pc and thankyou all himself.

[horseman12]

just wanted to thank everyone for thier thoughts and prayers!!

I've always said you all were like family to me, and this place was my home, away from home.

from the bottom of my heart i want to thank you all for everything, and i hope to be back posting on a regular basis soon!!

[Sugarsprinkles]

So glad to hear from you, horseman12!!! Just rest, take it easy, and get well. I'll look forward to you returning to us on a fulltime basis.

[Takira]

you are in my prayers horseman12, i hope and pray for your speedy recovery. May God bless you and keep you horseman12

Takira

[madmax67]

My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

*sends lots of hugs to both of you

[Scarecrow]

Glad to see that your improving just don't over do. Take the time to recover.

[Aqua]

Hey, nice to see you post again, but please, as Scarecrow said... take the time to fully recover.

[hellsbells]

Welcome back my love

Please listen to what everyone is saying and take it easy!!!!

Huggssss n kissessss

[wrxblue]

Originally posted by horseman12
just wanted to thank everyone for thier thoughts and prayers!!

I've always said you all were like family to me, and this place was my home, away from home.

from the bottom of my heart i want to thank you all for everything, and i hope to be back posting on a regular basis soon!!

welcome back...:D
get yourself back into action fast ok?
i bet hellbells miss you alot......

[dm383]

Gald to see you back, Horseman..... take your time getting better, certainly; but don't be TOO shy!! We missed ya mate! :)

DM

[Grumble]

Yay!!! good to see you on the mend mate :)

take care