<<<LixyChick>>>

[dm383]

As I hope most of you folks will know, Lixychick is giving a eulogy tomorrow for her brother, who has sadly passed from her life.

I hope you'll join me in wishing her the best of our love and good thoughts for tomorrow.

Lixy, I know you'll do your brother, and yourself, proud.... just wanted you to know Celticangel and I will be thinking of you, and sending you our prayers.

May your God be with you.

DM

[fzzy]

thinking positive thoughts of you (as always) Lixy! :) Fzzy

[LixyChick]

TY so much dm, celticangel and fzzy! TY to everyone who's helped me with yours words of wisdom and compassion! I am so lucky to have found friends like you.

*HUGS*

[seriousfun]

no fancy words, just my thoughts and *HUGS*

[Lilith]

((Lixy))~ don't forget to make me a list

[Aqua]

((((LIXY))))) We will all be with you tomorrow.... and I will be the first to pinch your ass. :) God be with you tomorrow Lixy!

[Sugarsprinkles]

Originally posted by Aqua
((((LIXY))))) We will all be with you tomorrow.... and I will be the first to pinch your ass. :) God be with you tomorrow Lixy!

What Aqua said.......and I'll be the next in line to pinch your ass....after all, what are friends for??
:D

[DallasLiving]

Lixy, you know that all of your friends will be with you in thought and in your heart. Holding your hand through this very trying experience. You will make you, your brother, and your family proud with the things that you will say and they will feel from your words. ((((((((((hugs))))))))))))) to you.

[BigBear57]

What could I possibly add to what has already been said except I agree, I'm there and thirds in the ass pinch line :-)

HUGGGGGGGGS Darlin

[Midnight Kiss]

awwww Lixy HUGS hunny, you are in my thoughts and so is your brother.

[scotzoidman]

Strength in numbers, Lixy...you know we're all with you...

[Cheyanne]

((((Lixy)))) Both Sex 24/7 and I are thining of you...........

[Vigil]

All of the above Lixy. (x)

[Steph]

We're with you in spirit. I know you're going to be fine, head held high, tears glistening in your eyes. I hope it's cleansing (((((((Lixy))))))

[GermanSteve]

((((((Lixy))))))

...

Stefan

[Scarecrow]

(((((Lixy))))) and remeber that looong list. ouch Love and thoughts are with you.

[Loulabelle]

((((((((((((Lixy))))))))))))


Love Lou and Fussy

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[dicksbro]

Absolutely. Been saying prayers for her and her family since the day she mentioned her brother in another thread. Lixy, as you already know, we're thinking of you! God bless!

[Summer]

(((((((Lixy))))))))

[aflyerfan]

Sorry to hear of your loss,but I am am sure a lovely,classy lady such as yourself will do a fine job. I offer you my deepest sympathies and my sincere well wishes to a person I have never met personally,but who I know is a truly caring and loving human being.

[Oldfart]

((((Lix))))

[quisath]

My Deepest apologies for this being so late Lixy............. But a Big Texas Hug ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Lixy))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and a Smile as big as Sunshine Cutey. We Loves You Sweetie and Bless you and your Family.


(on darn.........forgot to grab that butt during the Hug) shhhhhhhh

[T-S]

((((((Lixy))))))

[Bardog]

I hope it went well for you Lixy.

(((Lixy)))

[LixyChick]

You'll never know just how much this support has meant to me! I am so overwhelmed at the caring everyone has shown!

(((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))) to everyone! TY so much!



The day started out so dreary. Luckily we had use of a pavillion to hold the memorial. We were in National Park, N.J. at the Red Bank Battle Field, just across the river from the Navy Yard and the Philadelphia Int. Airport. We used to play at this park as children. It was a home away from home, of sorts. The turn out was good (the weather deterred some and regrets were recieved on Sunday). A dear friend couldn't make the ceremony but sent a letter to be read. Reverend Baily said some awesome words that my brother-in-law read so eloquently. Then brother-in-law read from the bible. Exodus (something or other) about eagles soaring. Appropos for what his son (my nephew) would follow with. Mike (bro-in-law) introduced me and I took a deep breath (and smiled thinking of you all) and began to read, when I suddenly realized I knew it by heart and I looked up and everyone was watching and I spoke the words from my heart. At the end, in closing before my song, I started to cry.....and my sister came up to hold me. I told her I was ok and asked her to stand with me as I sang. My voice cleared and I sang "Time Of Your Life" acappella. Our guitarist was one who couldn't make it. I could see tears in my niece's eyes. I smiled at her and she smiled back. My nephew came forward and started a Native American pipe ceremony. He burned sage and lit his pipe and stood to the direction of the sunrise and said a prayer and then stood to the north, south and west and spoke to the earth spirits. All were asked to smoke from the pipe and then he said a prayer again. Then we followed him as he played the drum and chanted. We walked a path to a pier and his daughters tossed a wreath of flowers with my brother's picture on it into the water. Some cried, some smiled....all said a final goodbye. BTW......the rain had stopped at this point and the wind was calm. We went to a restaraunt and ate and hugged and laughed and cried and shared pictures and stories and talked and talked. We had closure.

TY once again for all your support, here and in PM! You'll never know just how much it has meant to me!

*HUGS*

P.S. Lilith? I'll PM you the names after work! LMAO!

[aflyerfan]

Sounds like a very nice ceremony, and thats a nice picture.