What is it with Doggy-Style?

[txgrneyes]

Ok, Call me clueless but the one question I would like to ask is just that "What is with doggy style?" I know what it is and have personally had it done to me but just for his sack. What I need to know from both guys and gals is :

1. What is it about Doggy-style that makes it your all time favorite?

2. Any advice on how I can make it more pleasurable for me?

I basically do it for the guys that I am with because I know they like it but I just want to know what the fuss is all about or what I am missing out on. I have never personnally got off on this one position and fell I should be able to enjoy it more. It does feel good to know he can go deeper (and harder) when we are in this position and that I like but I feel I am missing out since I cannot remember ever having an orgasm in this position.

Any comments (as long as they are nice) are appreciated...

Thanks guys and gals,

Txgrneyes

[Steph]

Guys like the view :) and they can usually spare a hand to fondle a breast . . . you can also ask him to play with your clit (or you can spare a hand to play with yourself, too.

[Lilith]

For me, doggie or any of the various on my knees variations, is about lust, raw desire, and sex. This is not the position I would choose if I were in the mood for slow, grinding, writhing, makin love, kind of sex.

I have a great g-spot vibe that has a curved tip. This makes it the perfect toy to access my clit while he is grabbing me by the hips and plunging in as deep as he can. I can even use the vibe to rub his shaft as he moves. I would highly recommend getting one if you spend alot of time on all fours.:p Several times he has gotten out of the shower and found me on my knees, ass up using the vibe and let me tell you he is instantly turned to stone. Makes for an exciting encounter.

Since you can not remember having an orgasm that way maybe you need to. Next time you feel like masturbating do it on your knees and see how it goes.

Good luck! Keep us posted.

Oh one other thing.....doggie is a great position if you at all like hair play or having it pulled.mmmmmmmmmmmm

[txgrneyes]

Thanks for the tips. Now I am off the the local "Toy store" to get me one...Will let you know how it goes.

[Cheyanne]

:D You are right about all of that Lilith... hehe.

Doggy style for me is a major turn-on because I know that he likes the view and it drives him wild. I love the fact that I have that effect on him. All I have to do is take off my clothes and either get on my knees or bend over a piece of furniture and I know he is mine!!!!!

He likes this position because it is a guaranteed orgasm for me. Don't know why, but with all of the feelings knowing I am turning him on, plus the feeling of him "banging" into me just takes me over the edge!!!

[Loulabelle]

A variation on doggy which we found explosive was to do it from behind on the stairs......it was good for me because my upper body was supported without having to strain my back and it meant that my breasts were also supported - an important factor when you're built like I am!

He liked it because he could clutch the banister as well as hang onto the wall, put his hands on my back or hang onto my hips and arse, while my knees were pushed against the step which meant I didn't travel too much as he thrust into me. I don't find this position great for clitoral orgasms but if you've discovered how your g-spot works you'll find it's great on that.

I suppose for me the main appeal of doggy is the same as for Lil.....it's about animal passion and to a certain extent a little bit of domination.....All you can do is just kneel there and be fucked.......mmmmmmmmmmm......

Ok must stop thinking about this now....I've still got a week to wait until next time!!!! :(

[BigBear57]

Well if all else fails to be an attraction, it's the best way to make love so you can both see the tv. LMAO Just kidding, I couldn't resist.

[Loulabelle]

Hey BigBear57 - that works for me! (If there's porn on :D)

[Aqua]

The view is great, I can grab onto my partners hips or dangling tits, or reach around and tickle her clit and when I get going fast and hard my balls slap her pussy which she really likes.

[Valerieks626]

Yup, that is really awesome, when hubby's balls just swing and slapp...very erotic.. I generally like doggie style when it is really intense and want to just be fucked hard. (As oppose to evenings when I want to make love slow with lots of tenderness).

txgrneyes--I don't know how long you've been sexually active, but for me doggie style wasn't enjoyable until years after my first sexual experience. I was just too tight, and it had to be real gentle for the longest time!

Overall I wouldn't sweat it...we all like different things and that's okay. Our sexual preferences tend to chnage over time...who knows in 5 yeas it may be your fav position.

[White Noise]

I'm an ass man so I love the view and the fact that you can switch holes easily if you go in for that sort of thing. One of the best sex romps I had was doggy where I alternated between pussy and ass. And she loved it too.

[Oldfart]

Comfort, cum forte and the ability to put your hands wherever

without worrying about supporting yourself.

A human tripod has some limitations LOL.

[txgrneyes]

Thanks for the comments....looking forward to the fun I can have.

[skipthisone]

Sometimes you just want to Fuck...no frills....and doggy is a great way to do that.

[Sharni]

The view is great, I can grab onto my partners hips or dangling tits, or reach around and tickle her clit and when I get going fast and hard my balls slap her pussy which she really likes.

Oh Yeeeaaaaahhhhhh.....i can understand why she likes it :D:p:p

[shyabusa]

Put simply,
It's the raw lust of it.
The dominating nature of the position. That position is all about the primal side of sex.

[dm383]

There have been a variety of answers to this, and I agree with ALL of them!! For me though, I think it's the view that (just!) shades out all the other reasons!! And the feel of it, ...... and the feel for my lady........ !!! I'll stop now... WANT IT!!

Angel.................?!?!?!?! :D

[txgrneyes]

Thanks for all the replies. Enjoyed them...now off the put your advice to work....

[blkcat]

Have just seen a program on Showcase E,
titled real sex,they spoke about doggie style,it would appear
the angle of penetration puts the penis onto the G spot,:fly:

[Lilith]

Originally posted by blkcat
Have just seen a program on Showcase E,
titled real sex,they spoke about doggie style,it would appear
the angle of penetration puts the penis onto the G spot,:fly:


This sounds un likely to me. The g spot is in the front upper side of a woman, which is down when on all 4s, and most erect penises (is that a word?) point upwards.

Little help here ladies am I wrong???? I have never had a g-spot orgasm in doggie. Maybe it's just me:o

[blkcat]

Sure Lilith an erect penis would point up in free air,
but when secure inside the love tunnel,the thrusting
has the head rubing above the vagina.:)

[Lilith]

*shrugs* dick points up or, at best, out...... in doggie g-spot is down. I adore doggie but unless I find a man whose dick points south when hard, it is never gonna happen for me.

But blkcat I am willing to do as much research as is necessary to prove or disprove this theory;)

[airhog]

lil, ,my gf has orgasms easier from the doggie style position.

she really squirts if I put her feet up in the air :D

[ScottWaz]

damn hog....that must be something......ive never done doggy, i would like to, dont see the gf that often...might just have to see what her thoughts are !

[denny]

I think you are correct Lilith, the curvature points upward thus thrusting at the rear wall. G spot, g spot, wherefore art thou, g spot.

[txgrneyes]

Just to let you know there is such thing as an A spot...that might be what he is hitting on

[treeview]

Bu-bu-bump!!!

How does that feel? :)

Doggie is a fav of mine for many of the reasons that others listed. When she puts herself in that position, she's saying "Take me!" Men, being visual, like the view for starts. She'll turn to get in position and then spread her legs...if I weren't kneeling already, I'd fall over because I get weak in the knees.

This has been a fav of women that I've been with. this is a theme.

She can either stay in place and take it or pound back into me. In doggie it can be either Take me!!! or I'm going to fuck you!!! And that goes for either of us. Having my balls slap into her sounds nice and feels good for both of us.

Leaning over and hugging is nice too. When she's up on her arms I can reach around and feel her breasts sway. Feeling her hard nipples stroke in my palms is so nice. Playing with her pussy and clit and then taking her moistness to touch her breasts is a turn on for both of us. When that happens I can always feel a hip grind into me.

Hips are made for grabbing. I can pull her into me and she can spread to take me deeper.

Maybe there's another spot but the last gal I was with liked this because I would hit her G spot. Maybe we had complimentary shapes. When she was ready to cum I would start teasing strokes. Just the head, slow in and out, a little deeper each time. Slowly though. She would touch her clit and stroke me. Her fingers would follow my dick inside her. She would stroke me to let me know how fast and hard to pound her. When we built up to hard and long she would touch herself. Just as she was coming she would pound back into me, spread wide and GUSH!!! Most of the time we would cum together and collapse...

Post orgasm would be cuddling on our sides. She would curl back into my arms and I would wrap her up with my arms and legs. Sometimes she would start to grind into me. This would sometimes become a sort of beta-orgasm if I would stay hard. Rarely would I ejaculate but I would have a lesser orgasm. Mostly I would hold her and let her have her way with me. Between her hips and the way she touched herself she could have another orgasm or at least a warm flush. After these intense sessions we both would fall asleep instead of just me. I twitch as I'm going to sleep so that would wake us both up. Most of the time I would still be inside her.

txgrneyes, give this some time, I can't inagine you not finding a way for it to work for you. If you'd like to practice, let me know. I get to TX a couple of times a year.

Richard Thompson wrote:

Red hair and black leather
My favorite colour scheme

but I like:

Red hair and green eyes
My favorite color scheme

[Steph]

And did you end up enjoying doggie style after this thread, txgrneyes?

[Aqua]

After re-reading this thread I have decided it is in the best interests of research for me and Lilith to have sex doggy style while I stand on my head to see if I can reach her g-spot.

[imaginewithme]

After re-reading this thread I have decided it is in the best interests of research for me and Lilith to have sex doggy style while I stand on my head to see if I can reach her g-spot.
:nopics: :nopics: :nopics:

I always thought it was done so he didn't have to see me... :yikes: no, not really... just feels good and deep to me. :shake:

[TinTennessee]

It's the wildness of it..the rawness......damn, why did I read this thread!!! :faint:

[Wildeye]

Agree with lil, but who would not?

Doggy is exlicit, full on deep fucking. A woman on all fours arse high up, pussy exposed, so in your face and full on.

Love seeing her arse, her lovely anus, seeing her tits swing, especially in crotchless G-string.

I like seeing my cock opening her labia and entering her tight wet pussy.

For love-making missionary, for shagging doggy.

Wildeye

[lonelyarmywife]

Some advice for anyone with pain involved in this position...it may be becuase your partner is too big (tell him that - he'll love it)
Seriously, sometimes it hurts because there's just too much going in there.

how to alleviate this problem? Have more sex. :better:

[Enigma]

lonelyarmywife makes a great point folks. We all need to practice more, if only for the philanthropic efforts to ease our partner's discomfort.

Anyone need some help practicing? :devilish:

[Galatea]

I'm actually the same about woman on top.....I don't get that one.

[Enigma]

So, what is your favorite position?

[Kaelynn]

I agree with Galatea... I have problems with Girl on Top, any suggestions like those gave for txgrneyes I would really appreciate it.

I don't know if it's me, and I really want the guy to enjoy himself, so anyone with advice please let me know. I am going to see someone this weekend, and I would really like to be able to give him what he wants. Just don't let him know about it... ;) Thus why I hid it in this thread!

Please help me... someone...

[wyndhy]

here's a girl on top one that i enjoy tremendously :D
http://www.kamasutrafree.com/butinfligbut.html

[Kaelynn]

She is facing him correct?

[wyndhy]

yup.

[wyndhy]

a slightly better explination

hmmm....you lay on top of him, chest to breast, hip to hip, thigh to thigh...you sorta hold his hands at the waist area and out a bit (or where works for you, i guess) and pressed into the bed/floor, but you need him to hold them steady so you can lever off them. your push your toes against the tops of his feet and your arms do this sorta push up motion if push ups were horizontal. then you find your rhythm ;)
it's a teensy bit tiring and he has to take all your weight but i like it and he does, too. sometimes i bring my legs inside his, so he can wrap his legs around my hips if he can. his cock rubs my clit perfectly and if i'm of a mind it gives me great access to naughty places :D

[Kaelynn]

a slightly better explination

Does he have to be well endowed to do this?

[wyndhy]

ummm...i don't understand. :o

[WildIrish]

ummm...i don't understand. :o

She's asking if a large pecker is required. :grin:

[treeview]

Maybe I'm having dumbguy moment here. You ladies are saying that you don't get woman on top at all...??? At first I thought that you were saying that woman on top for doggie didn't make sense. But I can't visualize that at all. Maybe it would be too gymnastic.

but then I see the link to the kama sutra figure page. The shows the woman on top for some different positions.

There are some wonderful woman on top positions I think. But that would be a topic for another thread.

[wyndhy]

She's asking if a large pecker is required. :grin:
LMAO!
in that case, i refuse to answer on the grounds that i would give bigbad either an ego or a complex :p

just try it, kaelynn. if it doesn't work, switch it up ;)

[Kaelynn]

Wyndhy, thank you so much for all your help and the website... I have browsed it many times now, lol.

Just to clarify, I think I know why it is a turn on for guys and I get that they like to have women take over sometimes, and hell I like to take over, I just have only done it like five times in all my sexual experiences and I need practice and I want to become very good at it, so that the guy doesn't always have to do all the work. I have never had any complaints, I just know I am not as good as I could be. This guy rocks my world, and I want to rock his just as hard... ;) I am sure all you girls understand where I am coming from.

[wyndhy]

yw, hun!
don't feel like you have to be the best.....your attitude will shine through no matter what. if you're having fun and willing to communicate (<~~~totally key!) than it's alllllllllll good ;)

(((hugs))))

[Steph]

Cowgirl might be my fave position but sometimes I still feel awkward on top until I get a rhythm going. Sometimes I can't get into it and I suggest we change positions.

But when it works, it really, really works! :jump:

[treeview]

... hell I like to take over, I just have only done it like five times in all my sexual experiences and I need practice and I want to become very good at it, so that the guy doesn't always have to do all the work. I have never had any complaints, I just know I am not as good as I could be. This guy rocks my world, and I want to rock his just as hard... ;) I am sure all you girls understand where I am coming from.

If I read your profile right, you're young and, I'm assuming, early in your sexual exploration. Well, younger and earlier than me, how about that :) After following Pixies for a while I've reckoned back to when I was your age. My sexual experiences were clumsy. Having the Internet is soooo cool. Keep learning.

You have a great attitude, a student of sex. Your attitude will show up when you're making love, believe me. If you're involved he'll get it.

You could approach the lesson two two ways. the first might be totalkabout it, the analytical approach. This sometimes has worked well for me. Other times she just says, stop talkind, lets get on with it. show me! After a while you'll figure out what feels good to you and him. Then all you do is go into action.

The other way would be to just scoot around during making love. Sinc eyou already have read this thread and understand what this position is like for guys you can do things to compliment this.

You could take on the role of temptress and seductor. Meet him in bed, nakkid of course, as he approaches, roll onto your tummy, slide your knees up, tummy down and spread your legs. A little hip sway would be the fineal tempt. Then, peak around, drop your chin, give a smile and lick your lips.

When we're played with doggie position it isn't one that I find femaile submissive. She may be below but she can be as active as she wants. I've had her reach back, hold my hips to let me know that I'm supposed to stay still. She'll take over and grind into me. Her hands are like the rudder on a ship, she is my Captain on the voyage to Orgasm Island.

You can reach between your legs to touch him and pull him into you. As often as not, she reaches up and masturbates [is that what it would be called if I'm already inside ??? ] . It is sooo sexy to feel her touching herself and me at the same time. She has taught me how she likes to be touched too.

IN doggie position we've been known to walk the bed around the room. This is the most physical that we can be together. That's why I think it is such a wonderful position.

If you're interested in playing with anal, this is a fun place to start. Even just stroking and touching your butt is nice.

Have fun learning!