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cherrysweetnips
03-13-2003, 08:42 AM
Can anybody help?

I'm 18, and my boyfriend and I just started having sex a lot recently, he comes over almost every day and we do it. But he keeps blowing his load before I can even get off, and then I end up having to use my fingers to get myself off. I've tried asking him to hold out, but he says every time he sees my tits jiggle when we do it, and my hot cunt, it's too much. Anyone have any tips?
Gilly
03-13-2003, 09:03 AM
Please see my response in the personals. ;)
Vigil
03-13-2003, 01:13 PM
Get him to recite the seventeen times table.
Zonetime32
03-13-2003, 01:48 PM
Where does he blow is load? Maybe if you let him blow his load on your face you will get real hot and can finish right around the same time. I mean, give him a break. If I was fucking you and saw your tits jiggling I would bust RIGHT away, probably inside you too. :fly:
kleclere
03-13-2003, 06:43 PM
Have him do more foreplay with you. Get you close to cumming or have you cum first. Then have him enter and blow. Or you could have him cum before he gets to your place that way when he gets there he'll have to reload. Make him please you if he can't do it with his cock have him do it with his tongue.
Deno
03-13-2003, 07:16 PM
Foreplay. Like Kleclere said. Works wonders.

You are hopefully using condoms to begin with, but if not it will make him last longer. If are are using them and they still don't do the trick, try switching to a different brand that is thicker. Less feeling for him might make him less likely to blow his load so fast. Oh, and don't use two because they will increase the chance of breaking, ruining the whole protection aspect.

If all else fails tape a picture of Drew Carey to your chest, it'll either break his habit of blowing early or scar him for life. Possibly both.
Santiago
03-14-2003, 02:41 AM
let him get you off first with his fingers and tongue...or make him cum right away and keep going, then he will have more resistance. just keep doing this and he will soon have porn star stamina :)
andymak252
03-14-2003, 06:33 AM
Hey girl...it sounds as if you're missing out!!! You should be pushing him down to lick your sweet little pussy until you're sick of cumming....and then you should push him down some more (-; Get that seen to! lol
jerimiha
03-14-2003, 11:24 AM
yuuup. fore play is the best and only way to start anything...
denny
03-14-2003, 11:47 AM
How about blow him till he shoots and then try intercourse next. He will probably be able to last longer the second round.
Lilith
03-14-2003, 11:50 AM
Originally posted by cherrysweetnips
Can anybody help?

I'm 18, and my boyfriend and I just started having sex a lot recently, he comes over almost every day and we do it. But he keeps blowing his load before I can even get off, and then I end up having to use my fingers to get myself off. I've tried asking him to hold out, but he says every time he sees my tits jiggle when we do it, and my hot cunt, it's too much. Anyone have any tips?

Yes find an older lover:D:D:p
T-S
03-14-2003, 12:14 PM
Originally posted by Lilith


Yes find an older lover:D:D:p

Evil, quite evil :D ;)
Loren
03-14-2003, 12:34 PM
Originally posted by cherrysweetnips
Can anybody help?

I'm 18, and my boyfriend and I just started having sex a lot recently, he comes over almost every day and we do it. But he keeps blowing his load before I can even get off, and then I end up having to use my fingers to get myself off. I've tried asking him to hold out, but he says every time he sees my tits jiggle when we do it, and my hot cunt, it's too much. Anyone have any tips?

1) Why are *YOU* having to get yourself off? If he pops too soon and can't do it with his dick he can use his fingers or mouth.

2) As others have said, foreplay.

3) At his age he can get hard pretty quickly again. Round 2?

4) Asking him to hold out won't do much good. It's a matter of learning, not merely wanting to.
rabbit
03-15-2003, 11:39 AM
Two suggestions (from a man's point-of-view):
1) Have him try a cock ring
2) Give him a BJ or a hand job first..he can reciprocate. Then, after you have both cum at least once, move on to intercourse.

I use a cock ring or a condom when more than 2 days pass between sex because I will cum too quickly on my first orgasm. after the first one is done, I'll last much longer thereafter (usually do it 2-3 times).

Good luck!

rabbit
chief3636
03-26-2003, 05:03 AM
maybe he should try jacking off before he cums over, or tell him to eat you till you cum and then you will satisify you
airhog
03-26-2003, 05:07 AM
If I cum quickly, I make up for it with my tongue, the sights, sounds and feelings of my gf having an orgasm always makes me hard, and then we have round two ;)