Oh YES! yessss.....Ooooooo, OMG yes right there! oh I'm cumming...ooo! Ah! Yes!yess

[Lilith]

How many of you ladies have faked it? Were you successful? Why did you fake it? Time, insecurity, just not doing it for you?

I will admit I have faked it once or twice in my long ago past but have learned not to give mixed signals if I want him to learn what he needs to do to please me. But I think I have faked both out of insecurity and for the sake of time.

Guys, have you ever known a woman was faking? Did you confront her? Did it alter how you had sex with her the next time , if there was a next time?

[sweetc0rn]

10 points for me!

I have never fake it :D :D :D

[Loulabelle]

I've never faked it concsiously but there have been times when guys have thought I've come and I've not told them any differently....if they asked me outright 'Did you come?' I would have been honest but they never did so I let them believe what they wanted to believe!

I've been with guys who've faked though.....yes....I know.....don't ask me how they thought they'd get away with it, but they did......and once I couldn't believe that I'd made someone come AGAIN (after numerous previous sessions) and sneaked a peek at the condom to see if it was really full when he wasn't looking!!!!!! It was full and I confessed to him afterwards what I'd done!!!!!

[TinkerBell69]

If waking it was illegal every woman would have a criminal record.

I have off days, where no matter what is being done to me, it just isnt getting me anywhere, and he gets so worked up if I dont come!

[horseman12]

I guess i will be the first male to respond, I have faked it when i knew she had faked it, but i really did'nt care if she figured it out, personally i wanted her to hoping she would ask why

I think we all have off moments, but i don't think it makes anyone bad, for instance i think that if a woman has to "fake it" she should tell her partner afterwards( if its w/someone special) why she was unable to achieve a climax be it something on her part mental block ect. ect. are if the man just did'nt do it for her, i think honesty clears the way to a whole new plateau in a relationship.

ok i'll shut up now.

[celticangel]

I used to~~~~~when I was younger~~~~~~~and before I had experianced it for real! Now I have learned to let go and to enjoy the sensations, but even though I no longer fake it, I feel there is more to discover!!!!!~~~~~~~~~can't wait to find out!!!!!!!

[Deno]

I've faked it in past relationships becuase I was just getting bored and didn't really want to keep going after she had come a few times. I figured it was kind of rude to just stop after she was fulfilled, so I faked it. I didn't have to have the awkward "well, I'm just not in the mood, I only did it cause you wanted sex" conversation.

[Deno]

Oh, and it wored every time.

[pepsigirl]

once or twice, but my motto is either i do or i don't...cum that is.

[skipthisone]

I have never faked it exactly, but my S/O is known to not like long sessions and when she is wanting to quit, I have been known to lie to her and tell her I have gotten off when I havnt.

[LixyChick]

When I was younger, yes. I thought I would never know what it was to have an orgasm with a lover and I didn't want to seem inexperienced and cold. Once I discovered how to relax and read my own body while with someone else.......I've never had a need to fake it.

Oh.....and I know for a fact that hubby has NEVER faked it.......with me that is! Dunno about his past.

I'm interested in the last part of Lilith's question though.......to the men. If/when you did find out she faked........how did/would you handle the next time if there was indeed a next time? Is that the correct question Lil?

[Lilith]

Yep yep.......curious if they confronted her about faking, just never had sex with her again, or tried something different.

[Gilly]

I've never even tried

[CptMorgan]

I have an agreement with my wife that she will never fake it with me. I can read her well enough that I know when she has had enough, or otherwise just can not have an orgasm at the time. I'm man enough to handle my lack of success, as I tried my best and I know she's had many from me in the past, and hopefully will in the future.

However, before we made our agreement, long before dating, back in the 'friends with benefits' days, she faked it a few times. Some times she faked it because I wasn't doing it right. Some times she wanted me to feel better. But, the oddest reason I found is because she knew I was going to give her an orgasm, and didn't feel comfortable with the fact that I could give her one and her boyfriend at the time (I know, I'm bad ...tsk, tsk) couldn't. She faked it so that the fact could stand that I couldn't go farther than he could.

[krzykrn]

I am sure I have had past lovers fake it with me...to be honest, it would not really bother me (unless it was on a regular basis, then I would hope she would have the confidence to communicate with me so I can fix the problem :))...however I have had to fake it a few times in the past with my last lover.

She had VERY strong inner muscles, and when she would orgasm, she would squeeze me, so hard that if I was about to orgasm...she would basically shut down the valves...and it was sort of frustrating hehe, but in a good way. After once or twice of this in a row, I would just flex a in ragged pattern and slow down (praise the PVC muscle). I know, a horrible problem lol.

[drwinxp]

well, some of you might have seen one of my most recent posts and know that i found out the girl i went down on faked it with me. how will i confront her? i dunno; i doubt i will ever see her again. if i do see her again, i'll probably act as if nothing were different b/w us as she doesn't know that i know she faked. this was pretty much a...ahem...one night stand so, i won't worry too much.

[Passion Please]

I have never even thought about faking it as a guy..

My wife... well as far as I know has not faked it with me, there are many times when she does not choose to cum and then times where multiples never seem to stop.

Cumming is not the main event for us, the journey and bringing each other enjoyment the main thing, if we cum... well and good (which happens most of the time these days, but not always)

It is nice to see how we grown and mature, and dont need to lie about it as we are comfortable with each other.

[Steph]

I have faked it, I'm good at it but will never do it again! Never!

[osuche]

I have faked it...often because it was important to him for me to cum -- and I was either not aroused enough, not in the mood, or he wasn't doing it right. :D

I would still do it --given sufficient motivation -- but I've also made him realize that I *like* sex whether I cum or not.

[IAKaraokeGirl]

Like osuche, it has been *far* more important to the men I've been with that I have an orgasm than it has been to me. There are just so many enjoyable aspects of a sexual relationship that it's kind of like whipped cream on your sundae--nice if it's there but still pretty darn good if it's not.

[Teddy Bear]

I have not ever faked it. There are times I'm just not gonna cum go matter what. If its due to something he's doing or not doing I'll tell him. But thats ok, cause probably next time I will and it will be doubly great! Theres no point in faking it that I can see. Even w/out cumming its still good. :D :D

[Cobalt]

My ex used to fake it at times and, Yes I could tell. I didn't like it, if she wasn't enjoying it then why not tell me what she wanted done differantly. And yes I have faked it with the ex before and she didn't even notice, she must have been dead down there not to notice. Maybe that was the problem?

[nikki1979]

lol
ive been known to be a faker LOL the most common time i fake is when im teasing hubbylol , ill sit downon th couch and if he wont ge me any "attention" illl fake one lol he gets the point REAL quick and i dont have to fake again for the restof the night. ill also do it when were ina press for time and just cant do anything bu ti know hes horny lol drives him nuts LOL. and very few times ive actually faked it when ive been over sick or over tired or overdrunk(it extremly hard to get me off when im almost passedout) cuz he wont stop till ive had at least one (somedays it turns out the session is only 5 min tho so that theroy sucks when ure a multiple) so ill fake just to be able to go to sleep LOL.
he can never tell and i usually tell him later that i faked but ive never faked cuz i didnt enjy it just so we cud sleep lol.
~nikki~

[katekate42]

I've faked it only a couple times and for a couple reasons. One, for the sake of time. Sometimes it's just going to take forever and that pesky "real life" thing calls :( Secondly, sometimes it just isnt going to happen, period. It's nothing that he has done wrong, but we all have off days at times, and he cares so deeply about my pleasure that he'll really take it hard if I don't get off. For me, an orgasm is a wonderful ending to something that is intrinsically great, so if I don't get off once or twice, I'm ok with it... The s/o on the other hand, isn't so ok with it, so this saves some hassle :)

[Ryan²]

Never faked it.

Tut tut Lilith for your fake. ;)

[funkyjoker]

drwinxp Dont worry been there, and even us guys do it. It is a bit disapointing when this happens but unfortunatly like Kate said "it just isnt going to happen" even the best of us guys cant get the girl cumming all the time. Keep your peker up....