One Special Person

[TinkerBell69]

Do you believe that there is one true love for you somewhere out there in the universe?

[jennaflower]

yes... absolutely... without a doubt...

[horseman12]

I believe we all have a special person somewhere, we may never meet that person, but, when we do i think you know it almost instantly. it may be something about thier persona something they say, a certain way they do something, just a suttle little something that will click something in your mind and you just know it. But finding that person is the biggest challenge, but when you do i sincerly believe you/I/everyone will know when they meet that certain someone.

[Lilith]

I believe there is more than one for some.

[IAKaraokeGirl]

I agree, Lilith. I believe it's entirely possible to love more than one person, although it's not always easy.

[Sugarsprinkles]

Originally posted by IAKaraokeGirl
I agree, Lilith. I believe it's entirely possible to love more than one person, although it's not always easy.

I can attest from personal experience, it IS possible to love more than one person. And it's definitely NOT easy, but most certainly well worth it!!

[scotzoidman]

Yes, & I think mine will be inflatable ;)

[Irish]

Call me old-fashioned or nieve(sp?).I have had sexual relations with
more than my share of women but I have always believed that
everyone has ONE person in the world,and that you are also meant just for them.Maybe I'm a hopeless romantic.I believe that
you can be friends with many but destiny puts you two together!
Irish

[Steph]

I think there might be more than one. Back in the old days, most people were restricted to one area. Now, with planes, trains and automobiles, not to mention the 'net, we meet sooooooo many people that you're horizons are expanded in many ways.

[Sweet Thing]

Yes, and I am married to him. :) We both knew the night we met that we were meant to be together. We were so familiar to each other, it was like we had known each other all of our lives.

[krzykrn]

I would have to say yes, but I also think that many people may have that possibility to be that special someone. I don't believe there is ONLY one person out there for you, as in this one "perfect" being who just fits with you...don't get me wrong, I am a hopless romantic and tragic comic all rolled up into one, but for me to think that there is only ONE person out there for me...that is quite depressing :)

I would rather think that, there are people who could be the one for me, they may not have a perfect body, they may not appreciate my interests in animation and computer games, they may not like hockey, ect...but they may make me feel special every single day, they may love me for who I am, taking the good with the bad...and if we both think we could spend the rest of our lives together...who is to say they are not the one? But then again, maybe that is some of your definitions for the one...and you would say that "AHA!" you have just met the one...ok I am begining to ramble and I am getting philosophical so I will be quiet and get my lazy ass down to the lab and do some work lol! :D

[BigBear57]

I tend to believe the are several possible mates for any one person. The trick is for that person to grow in the same direction once you've gotten together. Sounds simple huh? At 45 I'm wondering if I'm growing in circles or just in a direction of solitude. I love whole heartedly, I strive to be understanding and open to their needs and wants, but so far.... no cupie dolls stayed. I still hold hope to one day find passions and explosive romance that alienates doubt that there could be another.... but then I've always been a dreamer.

[LixyChick]

I am in awe of the men of Pixies and their answers here.....and the "topsy-turvy answers from the women! Seems we have indeed "Come a Long Way Baby"!

*spanks scotz!* LOL!

I believe to each his own.......and that it would be magically wonderful if you could find the one and only love of your life. I believe some have actually done just that........but I think that is fewer than greater in the population!

I believe that deep down I could love more than one person. I think these loves would differ as night and day too! Each might fulfill a different purpose.........but it would be love none the less! As I've said before......I never say never!

[incitatus]

I used to always think so... now I know so.

I think that because there's no such thing as a perfect person, "God" made perfect matches for imperfect people.

Does this make sense?

[ericthered]

Yeah - got mine. Lovely.

[silentsoul]

without a doubt, there most definitely is. I am lucky enough to only be 18 years old and have already found her. Her name is Laura Stephens, she is my wife, and I love her with all of my heart and soul. Always and forever. I look forward to being that 80 year old couple that have been together for the last 62 years.



The answer to all problems lies within the heart, for if you love someone as much as they love you then there is no problem to big or small

[celticangel]

I believe "you have to kiss a lot of frogs before u meet your prince" Had only been in "love" once before-----------been in "lust" and in "like" lots of times! The guy I am with just now means the world to me and I love him dearly.
My special people are my kids---------unconditional love is wonderful!

[whatswithme69]

yea, i believe that everyone has a soulmate, and that there is only one person that they are meant to be with...i vehemently believe that i've found my soulmate already :)

[dm383]

Yes, I think there IS a "special" someone for everybody.

I've been "in love" twice before... with my ex-wife (which was why she WAS my wife!!) and with a girl I met @ work a number of years ago. Both of these were virtually "instant", but the feeling was no less strong for that.

Now, though, I'm with my Angel..... my feelings for her have grown (relatively) slowly compared to the others, but seem to me to be much MUCH stronger because of it.... we've only been together for 5½ months, but it feels like I've known her all my life!
I believe I know what REAL love feels like for the first time in my life... and I'm a nicer person because of it!!

Thanks 'Angel... Love you! xx

[BlueSwede]

Yes.

[inman]

Yes there is and i have experienced it. I will tell how all that happened when i have time as its a true story quite long, let me see if i an type it out after my tea.

[Cabrylla]

I don't doubt there can be more than one person to love in life...but it's sometimes hard to determine between "lust" and "love"....I'm still figuring out the real difference in those two...

[IAKaraokeGirl]

*bump, just 'cause*

[Irish]

Thru lifes experiences,I have come to realise that everyone,
has their faults.The trick is whether anothers good side out-
weighs their bad side!In other words,are the good points,
worth overlooking the points that you don't like!No-one is
perfect(except me) Irish
P.S.There's no conciet in my family.I have it all!

[GingerV]

It's got to be the athiest in me. I think there are lots of possibles out there for everyone. It's down to us, individually, to do the leg work, FIND the people we're compatible with, throw back the ones that don't or can't work, and put some effort into maintaining relationships with the ones that do.

Personally, I find comfort in the thought. It means that we're not doomed to lonliness for making an all to human mistake. How horrifying to think that if you don't take the one chance, or move to the right town, you won't meet the ONE person in 6 billion who is perfect for you? Cause, with no puppeteer pulling the strings in my world, there's no guarantee I'd even get one chance at meeting them, let alone managing to do it when I don't have spinach in my teeth, or a rotten mood on.

It also means I don't feel like I can be complacent about the wonderful man I have found. He wasn't meant for me, he wasn't a gift from on high. He's a person with wants and needs, strengths and flaws. We met by random chance and great good luck. And what we have together is so sweet and strong and supportive because we chose each other, and we choose to make it so....not because we couldn't help it.

What, you expected my ramblings to make sense?

2cents, as Irish would say ;)

[Sharni]

The Immortal words........

There Can Be Only One!

[IggysGirl]

Yes! He will be home tomarrow!

[jseal]

TinkerBell69,

You probably won’t sit up nights thinking about it, and the argument is abstract, and perhaps boring, but one of the current cosmologies (theories about the origin and evolution of the universe) suggests that there is good reason to believe that there is, indeed, “that special someone” for everyone!

[WildIrish]

Like my grandfather used to say "There's an ass out there for every toilet seat".

But I could see how it is possible to fall in love with more than one person. With billions of people in the world, the odds are in favor of that possibility.

[Steph]

Like WildIrish, said, there are billions of people out there. We move so much nowadays, we can reach out through reasonably priced phone plans, MSN . . . maybe there's someone out there who will suit you better than the person you're with right now.

[darkangel37]

absolutely. When I find her I'll tell my wife!

[osuche]

Every relationship I've had has been special and unique. And every one of them has played a role in making me the woman I am today.

I don't believe there's one special person...life's meaning is in the journey, and the people who share it with you.

[Lilith]

I think each special person plays a vital role in my life. They may have unique roles but it does not diminish the importance of that role and the person who fills it.

[Belial]

For me? Probably. With billions of people in the world, and me not being extremely repulsive, I believe there must be at least one, probably a good deal more. For everyone? I don't know.

[lakritze]

Yes I do and I am buiding her in my labratory.Just a few more parts and she'll be finished.