>>This<< or >>That<<?

[Lilith]

Was wondering, for Valentine's, which do you prefer? A romantic day/ evening/etc. or sexually charged day/ evening?

I know you can have both...........but which is what you really want for Valentine's? Would you prefer a romantic gift or a sexy gift?

[Oldfart]

Lil

I tell my SO that every day with me is St Valentine's Day.

It's worked on her so far.

[skipthisone]

I am into doing something different every year, outdoing myself each year. Mostly its usually just a dinner and a card with something I wrote (Never ever buy pre-printed cards, just cheezy to me) whether any of this works in my favor, I havnt a clue.

[T-S]

Originally posted by Lilith
Would you prefer a romantic gift or a sexy gift?

Whatever you want to give Lilith, T-S will take ;) :D

[FussyPucker]

Having never had anything more than a card on V-Day I don't really know what I'd prefer..

[fzzy]

Romance - definately! but, romance for me is not about spending money at all -- in many cases its more about not spending money, but spending the time and thought to remember what I like, what's important, what little detail from something I told him! And I try to do the same in return.

[skipthisone]

I agree Fussy, from my point of view, card is the only thing I have ever received, so dont expect anything more.

[Murphy]

I'm with Fzzy -- Romance -- and not the store-bought kind. Picture this.... No lights on in the house.....candles and oil lamps lit and spread thru the dining room, living room and bedroom ... soft "nature" music playing ... The smell of her favorite dinner filling the air ... The fire in the woodstove crackling merrily ... and the kid safely out of the way at a slumber party....

[horseman12]

really on the same thought wave as T S whatever you want to give me!! but for the answer i know you are really looking for i am a romantic at heart, but seeing how its been awhile sexually i will go directly to the sex stuff!!

[virgo982]

i prefer the romantic side of valentines day. I like the preperation of cooking a fav meal, or getting him his fav candy or something like that. Cuddling is my fav thing to do though..anytime.

[Peacelul]

May seem soppy but either as long as it is with my other half.

[celticangel]

I'll be working on the 14th-------------from 10:30am to 9:30pm--------so as long as I get to have some contact with dm----I'll be a happy girl!

[LixyChick]

Hmmmmmmmmm?????

OK....I really gave this some thought....because, for the most part, I really don't "expect" anything from anyone.......but I love the fact that they thought enough to buy and/or do something special "just for me"! If for some reason the day should pass with no "special" attention.....that's ok too because as long as I at least hear an "I Love You"......deep down, that is all I really need to know.

But if I had my druthers.......I'd prefer romance. As I said, I really gave this some thought and it seems to me that Valentine's Day IS the day for romance personified! Sexy gifts and a sexually charged evening can happen each and every day. But Valentine's Day comes once a year. To be cooed at and made to feel especially special (with a drawn bath or flowers and a love poem, or a candle lit dinner, etc.)........well, to be honest, that really doesn't happen every single day. And it's really nice once in a while!

[Lovediva]

Ohhhh exactly what Murphy said!!

That's what I want!!!! :D

[Summer]

For valentines I would love to have a fan-fuckin-tabulous fucking like no other in the early evening and a nice romantic cuddling love making in the middle of the night followed by breakfast in bed with a side order of cock-in-my-mouth. ;) That is all. I am not asking for much. So who wants which shift. LOL

[Summer]

Ummmm ...... ok! hehe

[Vintage Vixen]

Well as long as dz is here i'll be happy....he has to drive almost 2 hrs on friday to come here so if we just hang here i don't care i'll
be happy anyway:):)

[Loulabelle]

I've NEVER had sex on Valentine's day - I guess you could say that I've always had romance (although truly not through choice!) so this year . . . well I'm aiming for a bit of both, but if I can't manage both, I hope it's hot and steamy, becuase it would make a nice change!

If that's alright with you, Valentine????????? ;)

[BlondeCurlGirl]

I've never had sex on Valentine's Day either...well, I've celebrated ONE belated Valentine's Day a few days later, but that just doesn't count. It'll be yet another no-sex valentine's day, but that's alright with me, as it's never been a big deal for me. I guess I'd rather have small expressions of love and lust come throughout the year, rather than lumped together on one day if it came down to it. However, I think the day will come when I eventually WILL have sex on Valentine's Day..and in that case, I'd love to have a night of hot and steamy sex and maybe later on that night get down to the "romantic" version of sex. :)

[Ando3]

considering my birthday is on the 15th.... I usually get a good few days... I prefer hot sex... but romance is always sweet...

[dadaist]

How about just having someone to spend valentines with in the first place? There's a reason I hate the holiday. :P

[IAKaraokeGirl]

*bump*

Definitely would prefer the romance, although I wouldn't turn down the other. :)