View Full Version : am i the only one....
Rayna
01-31-2003, 01:02 AM
who finds cuddling nude extremely erotic?
just holding and hugging onto the person, feeling their soft smooth skin against yours... just something about warm skin to warm skin contact is just so delicious...
and just when you are holding the person, no sex, no oral, not even masturbating... but yet, it feels so powerfully erotic...
does anyone else feel that way? or am i the only one?
(thats why it says in my profile that my favorite position is cuddling nude... because i love it.. and dont say guys dont like it too because my bf loves it too)
whitehorse
01-31-2003, 01:28 AM
Raven, would you like to spoon? I agree cuddling with someone you love very erotic and fulfilling.
Rayna
01-31-2003, 01:29 AM
:-p
Good in the sac
01-31-2003, 01:49 AM
No, you're not the only one. Myself and all of my past loves enjoyed it too.
virgo982
01-31-2003, 02:03 AM
its one of my favorite things to do with my bf...before or after sex, it always feels good!
dicksbro
01-31-2003, 05:11 AM
My wife and I love to cuddle close. It's very soothing and erotic at the same time. Also love to slow dance in the nude. That's also a wonderfully delicious experience. You're definitely not alone. ;)
turbo_mmx
01-31-2003, 06:31 AM
Nope ur not the only one. Especialy after a long day. Holding a woman in ur arms naked is a wonderfull feeling
quisath
01-31-2003, 09:53 AM
Not Pinche here.................and no my dear your not Alone.
Rayna
01-31-2003, 01:59 PM
and also.. is it true that guys only care about sex and just want to leave or sleep or do something else afterwards, and not care about cuddling or pillow talking or stuff?
(im sure it isnt, but im just wondering)
Loren
01-31-2003, 04:10 PM
Originally posted by raven18
who finds cuddling nude extremely erotic?
just holding and hugging onto the person, feeling their soft smooth skin against yours... just something about warm skin to warm skin contact is just so delicious...
and just when you are holding the person, no sex, no oral, not even masturbating... but yet, it feels so powerfully erotic...
does anyone else feel that way? or am i the only one?
To me, it's not all that erotic but it sure is nice.
madmax67
01-31-2003, 06:27 PM
1) yes, it's great, the feel of a warm soft body next to your own, very intimate and erotic.
2) it's the chemical hormones that make us sleep ....... some believe this is a hangover from our more animalistic behaviour and can be seen in primates where the male sleeps and the female can then go onto the next male without interferance, thus increasing her chances of concieving.
GermanSteve
01-31-2003, 08:53 PM
Since very long time had it the last weekend again, and it was great!
Doomsday
01-31-2003, 09:47 PM
Can't say I've tried it :(.... I never been naked with a Girl.... well... during this stage of life... so I've never had it... but I think I would like it... especially with iTriedSoHard someday.... yea... she means alot to me... errr... so Yea is your answer?
Good in the sac
01-31-2003, 11:00 PM
and also.. is it true that guys only care about sex and just want to leave or sleep or do something else afterwards, and not care about cuddling or pillow talking or stuff?
Yes and no.
After sex & orgasm (for a lot of us guys) thoughts of sex and senusality are the farthest things from our minds. For me this period lasts only for about 15 - 30 minutes. I'm sure the amount of time that this lasts varies from guy to guy.
Please understand that this is not intentional (at least I don't think!) it's more of a case of that's just the way we're are "wired". Now some of us guys know that this is the case but resist the urge to jump up, go to the bathroom, watch TV, get a soda or watever. We know that our girls need to have attention paid to them. Wallow in the afterglow for lack of a better and less corny term. :D
Loren
02-01-2003, 01:56 PM
Originally posted by raven18
and also.. is it true that guys only care about sex and just want to leave or sleep or do something else afterwards, and not care about cuddling or pillow talking or stuff?
(im sure it isnt, but im just wondering)
Personally, afterwards I'm certainly not interested in pillow talk but I sure don't want to let go of her, either. In fact my preferred thing to do is have her on top (she's tiny) and remain inside her as long as possible, my arms around her. Nothing active, just laying there with her.
el barto
02-01-2003, 03:06 PM
you're right in that its a myth that "guys don't like cuddling", cuz i absolutely adore doing so with my girlfriend. during non-sexual times, before them, some during, and afterwards leading to more cuddling and finally sleeping with her, both still nude, and her falling asleep in my arms. its just so wonderfully... comforting, for lack of a better word coming to mind.
Missy1965
02-01-2003, 03:36 PM
It's been way too long for this girl but I love the safe and secure feeling it makes me feel. :)
Pussy Willow
02-01-2003, 06:05 PM
I love cuddling, however the cuddling part doesn't last for too long. He unfortunately, or maybe fortunately, turns every cuddle
session into a sex session.
pepsigirl
02-02-2003, 09:28 AM
i know what you mean. it is highly erotic. very sensual. hard to describe it, but it's almost better than sex. seems more meaningful.
Rayna
02-02-2003, 02:49 PM
Originally posted by pepsigirl
i know what you mean. it is highly erotic. very sensual. hard to describe it, but it's almost better than sex. seems more meaningful.
im glad im not the only one :D
Takira
02-02-2003, 08:57 PM
i agree with you raven, i find cuddling in the nude very erotic
;)
Rayna
02-03-2003, 03:49 AM
:D
Vintage Vixen
02-03-2003, 05:18 PM
Definately brings a closeness that sex dosen't...i look forward to snuggling and laying my head on his shoulder....makes me smile,and feel safe:)
Rayna
02-03-2003, 05:19 PM
:D
celticangel
02-03-2003, 05:43 PM
lying naked in my guy's arms is the best feeling (my kids aside) I have known-----warm,safe,close etc,etc xxxx
Wildeye
02-03-2003, 05:53 PM
Raven
Just depends, sometimes I love just holding her and feeling her smooth, soft skin and mainly I like pillow talk and cuddling after sex, sometimes though it takes everything from me - conscious thought, you know? I do not know who i am. For guys the physical is not mental - coming can literally take all of our energy - i know we just are not developed like you girls..Wildeye
whatswithme69
02-17-2003, 06:31 PM
i love it when my girlfriend and i are in her bed naked. i always press my body close to her. its great, and it really makes me horny, especially when my cock rubs against her cute butt cheeks :)
SexKittten_18
02-17-2003, 06:38 PM
no your not alone, though I find it extremely hard to sleep afterward, I guess months and years of sleeping in my bed alone keep me from falling asleep while still attached to my guy. And besides, it's usually me that wants to do soemthing else ^_^ lol
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