Sex: Lesbians and Gays

[ChinesePussy]

why when people seeing 2 girls making out that is a turn on for them but when they see 2 boys making, the said that is so gay and turn off ?

why is that? even myself feel a bit weird when seeing 2 guys kissing each other, but I do feel weird when 2 lesbians kissing each other as well. but for most people said they like to see 2 girls kissing than 2 guys kissing and making out.

why can a guys and a girls can turn people on too. why it has to be the women ???>


Even my hubby when ever he saw a gay show on TV when 2 men are touching each other. he said,"Eww......." and he switch the channel.
But I don't have any problem watching the 2 guys kissing and having sex on the TV at all.

On the other hand when my hubby see 2 girls are kissing and making out, he said,"Yahoooooooooooooo! and such a turn on for him "
and when I see 2 women kissing and having sex, yup! I agree I do get a turn on more than seeing 2 guys kissing and have sex.

why we all react to the women more than the men? I think is not fair, don't you think so? I want we all react to men as much as the women too.

agree ? I think is not fair for the men.

[Aqua]

Maybe it's not fair, but most guys find women sexually arousing and they just don't feel that way about guys. It may sound weird, but I would rather give a guy a blow job than kiss him. (Easy there skip... :p ) and I believe there are many women that would kiss another woman before going down on her. Why is it this way?? Social tolerances, genetic makeup? I have no clue! :D But that is the way it is... and perhaps someday, it will change.

[ChinesePussy]

I never hear any man say to other man "you look handsom" wow! it is, never heard of it.

dam! man is so different from woman

I always want man and woman equally right, equally this and equally that. But I can never see man and woman are equal in sex department. Dam! it is so unfair. Man feel like this but woman can not feel like this, why can't a woman and a man feel the same at sex department at least?

[kleclere]

It can be a personnal feeling. Some people see things that turn others off, but something that turn them off may not others. Plus humans are weird that way. Don't know if its the taboo aspect of it that either turns on or off. Or if it is the way society views it that maybe the problem.

[Peacelul]

I like watching men have sex but do not like too much kissing for some reason. Maybe it is getting a bit too personal then.

[quisath]

I hate to say and I know it's so Cliche...........but it's a Mans world.......................Woman to Woman Sex is readily accepted by society where as Man to Man is frowned upon. My thought.............. "Whatever Floats Your Boat" :)

[Loren]

Originally posted by ChinesePussy
why when people seeing 2 girls making out that is a turn on for them but when they see 2 boys making, the said that is so gay and turn off ?

why is that? even myself feel a bit weird when seeing 2 guys kissing each other, but I do feel weird when 2 lesbians kissing each other as well. but for most people said they like to see 2 girls kissing than 2 guys kissing and making out.
....
and when I see 2 women kissing and having sex, yup! I agree I do get a turn on more than seeing 2 guys kissing and have sex.

My take on this:

Instead of considering *WATCHING* the act, consider being in the act. After all, isn't that pretty much the fantasy of porn--it's happening to you instead of the actor/actress?

Consider that in general men do and women are done to so look at it from that perspective.

Suppose you're a straight guy watching two guys. What are they doing that you want to do? Nothing.

As a woman watching two guys--you would enjoy being kissed and might enjoy receiving anal sex.

As a man watching two women--everything that happens you would enjoy doing.

As a woman watching two women--everything that happens you would enjoy having done to you.

Is it any surprise that lesbian scenes are far more popular with straights than gay scenes?

[denny]

Can't speak for anyone but myself, so here goes. I am not repulsed by women kissing, etc. but it is not stimulating to me. A preponderance of males enjoy that behavior so i guess I am in the minority.

Men kissing, etc. however does make me feel uneasy, repulsed, whatever. I don't consider myself to be homophobic, but public displays are problematic for me.

I have been involved in sexual encounters with two women and had no problem with the ff activities but took pleasure in my involvement.

[Sharni]

I have absolutely no problem viewing both male/male or female/female....and both turn me on

I don't belive it at all fair that 2 women can kiss in public and most ppl couldn't care less...but if 2 men do it..people freak..

Male/male or femal/female relationships should be able to express themselves in public just as much as straight couples

Thats my 5c worth *L*

[Steph]

I've done a lot of writing on such issues. The simple fact remains that women are more affectionate in public. To see men kissing and hugging in public is much more rare than seeing two female friends doing the same.

[Santiago]

I dont get turned on by men kissing, but it doesnt really freak me out. Its thier business not mine.

I have The Sims Deluxe Ed. and I got my sim guy to make out with another guy, it was funny. (dont know how that contributes to the thread, also im tryin to get my guy to marry the other guy)

[sw_juggalo]

it's a bit of a doouble stadard if you ask me......I don't get it either... personally I don't like either one.....

[vampeyes]

IMHO I think it has a lot to do with your feelings towards homosexuality in general as to whether you go ewwwwww or not. Personally I loooove to watch 2 girls kissing or making out (its even better if I'm involved lmao) and I DO get hot watching two hot guys kissing I happen to think its very erotic.

[skipthisone]

I am with the majority here and the site or act of men kissing makes me uncomfortable, but I get over it. I also agree with aqua that seeing (or maybe doing) men sucking each other off wouldnt bother me. The woman + woman thing does excite me, don't know why for sure but it does, which makes it all good.

A note on the men/men thing, If you are really uncomfortable seeing two men together, not in a sexual way, but in a marriage kind of way, be warned, don't watch Restore America, Designer Guys or any of the "showcase" home shows, those couples on there are almost always two men....hell if I thought I could get an 1890's victorian cottage out of the deal I might switch...:D

[IAKaraokeGirl]

Me, too...but then...that wouldn't work, would it?

[Glyndwr]

My thoughts on this are that the impulses we feel go back to pre-history. Nature creates all things we are supposed to nurture, babies, puppies etc with round soft curves. The female nude is a wonderful collection of soft gentle curves whereas a male torso is more angular.

At the end of the day, whatever you do as long as it doesn't harm your neighbour why should you be criticised.

[robin44]

You know I've been married and with a partner now and never thought of a gay relationship. However I have been talking to a guy and now the thought of sexual contact is exciting.
I have to say though the kissing thing is different I don't know if I could do that.

[moonbabe]

i think both is a turn on for women and i also think that it can be a turn on for men. they just don't want to admit it. i would love to see my b/f make out with another guy.

[hitachi]

I love to watch 2 women together, no matter what they are doing. As for 2 men I cant handle them kissing, watching them have anal sex is alright, but watching them blow each other is a big turn on. I dont know why it is limited to blowjobs, but it is.

[moonbabe]

my b/f likes the ida of two girls but two guys! you have to be joking. If it's me and another guy, no way. but if it's me with anouther girl, he can't wait? is it because of their hormones?

[silentsoul]

My personal feelings about this subject is that the idea of lesbians are sexually exciting to men. Therefore, because of the male influence in the world, the idea of lesbians have become easier to accept than gays. I feel that that's completely fucked up and not only for this reason. I feel that if women had more influence in the world, it would make a lot more sense.

I'll admit it to anyone, I think most guys are assholes. Now I'm not saying that chicks are the perfect race or that I feel there's nothing wrong with women. It's just that men in general are usually controlled by their egos which make them stupid and obnoxious. Women on the other hand tend to live by their gut and natural instincts. That's why I feel that if women had *at least* an equal influence on the way that the world works it be a better world.

It sure couldn't get any worse, we're a war for god's sake.

Oh and just to clear up any confusion, I am a guy and my wife is NOT standing behind me with a gun to my head :-)