always_horny
01-15-2003, 07:31 PM
Being highly intuitive, I usually can 'feel' people and things out in general, but there a certain, very subtle signs I've picked up on that many have told me they would have missed. How would you know? What do you look for?
I was in a relationship for 5 years with someone, even helping her raise her kid, and I caught her in a brief instant: we were standing in my hallway, I walked up to hug her, just briefly, and noticed she was purposely not letting her pelvis touch mine. Most people I've talked to said they wouldn't even have noticedt this, but to me, even in that brief hug, it stood out to my senses. I stopped right there and out of nowhere asked her. I think she knew I knew... she knew me. But, she lied poorly, all red-faced. I ended up seeing her car at this dudes place and actually kicked the front door off the hinges and walked in. I didn't touch him 'cause it wasn't worth it (plus they called the cops for the door) but I was like, devastated.
So, thats one thing to look out for, if your mate doesn't let their pelvis touch yours. I call it 'crotch guilt'. Hahaha!
Why am I laughing? It really wasn't funny.
Of course, there are some sure-fire signs like coming home late and giving some bg excuses or taking showers at odd times after coming home. Not being able to look you in the eye etc.
How 'bout you guys? Ever have it happen to you? If so, what 'signs' first gave it away?
A touchy subject, I know... but it was on my mind and pissing me off, so I figured I'd get into it.
I was in a relationship for 5 years with someone, even helping her raise her kid, and I caught her in a brief instant: we were standing in my hallway, I walked up to hug her, just briefly, and noticed she was purposely not letting her pelvis touch mine. Most people I've talked to said they wouldn't even have noticedt this, but to me, even in that brief hug, it stood out to my senses. I stopped right there and out of nowhere asked her. I think she knew I knew... she knew me. But, she lied poorly, all red-faced. I ended up seeing her car at this dudes place and actually kicked the front door off the hinges and walked in. I didn't touch him 'cause it wasn't worth it (plus they called the cops for the door) but I was like, devastated.
So, thats one thing to look out for, if your mate doesn't let their pelvis touch yours. I call it 'crotch guilt'. Hahaha!
Why am I laughing? It really wasn't funny.
Of course, there are some sure-fire signs like coming home late and giving some bg excuses or taking showers at odd times after coming home. Not being able to look you in the eye etc.
How 'bout you guys? Ever have it happen to you? If so, what 'signs' first gave it away?
A touchy subject, I know... but it was on my mind and pissing me off, so I figured I'd get into it.