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ChinesePussy
01-15-2003, 03:20 PM
do u guys appreciate your wife and think that she is doing a good job for taking care of the kids and work around the house and help her out sometimes or just think that's her job is her duty to do so nothing big

and do u mind if she stays home and take care of the kids and not working at all.


IN MY CASE:

my hubby doesn't care either i go back to work or not. He said he can support me either I want to work or not, depend on me.

My hubby always say, man was born to make more and more money for woman to go shopping and spend. Woman was born to do Whatever she want, she want to work or not is her choice. Man shouldn't presure her if he has enought $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$.


why a woman should work so hard date and night for $$$ when she knows that her husband can have a lot of $$$$ ??

working more just to pay more tax for the goverment , nothing really matter to us, this doesn't including the average income. I am talking about the above average income without a wife working.

but that doesn't mean I want to stay home for the rest of my life. I will problably going to do something that I am interest in other than those IT job right now. But anyway the job market in Canada is getting wrost and wrost I haven't seen any better yet. I am bored to dead by staying home but I didn't say anything. I was working for 1.5 years before I got laid off. But my hubby doesn't really want me to work, he said like us making more money only to pay more tax for the government

but anyway hopefully the economic is getting better in Canada, so i can go out and kick some butt.


:D :)

Loren
01-15-2003, 04:36 PM
If my wife were to quit tomorrow, it would bother me only because I know she wouldn't be happy not working.

Wildeye
01-15-2003, 05:19 PM
I do not care if she works or works at home, as long as she is happy

wildeye

Vigil
01-15-2003, 05:50 PM
I do all the shopping and all the cooking (just as well I like my food), I also work up to 12 hours a day. My wife is talented, if she didn't work I would find it in some way immoral/decadent and not the woman I fell in love with and love today.

Spoilt women are essentially very boring.

always_horny
01-15-2003, 07:39 PM
do u guys appreciate your wife and think that she is doing a good job for taking care of the kids and work around the house and help her out sometimes or just think that's her job is her duty to do so nothing big

actually, you just described ME! rotflmao! :D
so yes, trust me... i respect all women who do this. more and more men are actually 'reversing roles' these days, and its the women who are working and the men staying home, like me, raising the kid(s), cleaning the house etc. etc.
aint as easy as you'd think, guys! ;)
christ... my lady tells me all the time that I have the harder job!
haha! :D
we're not even married and its not even my kid, and I think that makes her respect me all the more for doing it... at least, Ihope she does...
so I respect all women who do this, 'cause I know first-hand what its like. I also respect women who make a name for themselves amongst the sexist drones of our society... more fuckin' power to 'em!
Of course, I have a great respect for women in general, so this only adds to the above-listed ;)

denny
01-15-2003, 08:13 PM
If you can scrape by, having Mom at home for her childrens benefit is great. That si what it's all about really. Now if I were a wife with no kids at home, I'd go nuts with nothing to do. I'd probably get in trouble with all that time on my hands. Don't ya; think?

quisath
01-15-2003, 10:24 PM
Well.............don't have a wife right now..............but I think HAPPINESS is most important. If work makes you happy then so be it. I also think idle hands are the DEVILS workshop. Oh well................just an opinion.

ChinesePussy
01-16-2003, 10:05 AM
thanks everyone

i would love to seee more input from other as well

but thank you for your feed back so far:)

Glyndwr
01-17-2003, 06:11 AM
Bored housewives at home during the day?????

They should be taking pics to post at pixies ;) ;)

Steph
01-17-2003, 01:20 PM
Er, the Canadian economy is very strong right now. More than 50,000 jobs were created recently. There are more jobs out there than I have the time to apply for. Our dollar is the strongest it's been since July, mainly fuelled by all the job creation.

Just speaking as a Canadian who knows the news . . .

pepsigirl
01-18-2003, 09:31 AM
i was at stay at home mom for 5 years. i liked it because i could sleep late and be lazy. now i'm back in the work force, and wishing for the days of being lazy again. lol

ChinesePussy
01-20-2003, 12:53 PM
Steph


i know there are a lot of job created for the past few months in canada. but do you know what are those jobs are? they are those part time job or those low pay or those in the factory or those non-relate to Computer at all.

my career is computer programming. And computer jobs are not that much in the fast few months.

more and more IT employee got laid off.:mad: :mad:

inman
01-28-2003, 05:02 AM
Hi every one I am a husband, father of 2 kids and my wife was working before we got married, but after that i asked her to leave the job as I am working and now she takes care of my home and my children, I do not ask here if she had done here work at home or not, i only ask here if she is tired or feeling sick of any thing.

She loves to work hard at home... she thinks its here duty to look after the kids and myself.

She belives that as I work outside to earn a living for all 4 of us, she works at home to take care of all.

If these does not go together then there is no fun. That is why we do not ... never complain to each other about our work. we both work for the well being of our family as a whole.

Can any one tell me what jobs are available in CANADA

ericthered
01-29-2003, 07:18 AM
She works, and I stay at home and do a bit of this and that. I'm afraid she has different ideas about what constitutes 'clean', but we compromise. I certainly appreciate the work she does (and the money she brings in).

Must rush - I've got to finish the ironing before she gets back......

ChinesePussy
01-29-2003, 11:46 AM
inman

I like the way you said, actually your reply sound so nice to me

heheheheheee

anyway I am gonna take my vacation to south east asia and stay there for 2 months in a hot tropical country.

my hubby goes with me for the first one month, after that he must come back to Canada coz he has a job here. I got to stay there another 1 month to relax and enjoy my free time.

hmm........i can't wait to fly now. I'll leave next week.


any one want any gifts from me?

tell me something you want, I'll go to shop during my 2 months there.

ChinesePussy
01-29-2003, 11:50 AM
any one want any gifts from me?

tell me something you want, I'll go to shop during my 2 months there.