Making love vs. F**king

[skipthisone]

Do you describe a difference...

I think sometimes the slow sensual in the dark dance is making love...but then there are the bend them over the couch and bang...to me that fucking!

What do you think?

[Lilith]

I say they are different to me! But it's a ^^^^^^^ blurry line.......aren't they all *shrugs*

[PantyFanatic]

YES!............................ and?

[Lilith]

and I like being in the blurry part best............:D:D:p

start off with some crazy flip me over, snatch me up by my hair, passionate fucking but when we recover make slow snuggly love to me.....................

next time I'll chain you up and ride you:p whatever works;)

[IAKaraokeGirl]

To me, the most obvious example is whether there is kissing involved...barring that, though, I think we can all agree that there are times and places for both. ;-)

[PantyFanatic]

Originally posted by IAKaraokeGirl
To me, the most obvious example is whether there is kissing involved...
...how can it NOT????:p :confused: :p

[IAKaraokeGirl]

You would be surprised...

O course, those guys end up on the "forgettable" list...and usually don't get a second chance. :-)

[BlondeCurlGirl]

STO-I think you described it perfectly

[kleclere]

I feel there is the passionate love making, kissing, caressing type and then the what ever happens, animalistic no holes barred,f**king. I think both are needed in a relation.

[axe31]

i think is more to do with how you are after when it's love the
sex bring you closer you fall asleep as one needing to be as close to them as you can where as f**king is just a way to vent your
lust

[Aqua]

Lights on... it's fucking

Lights off... making love

There's your answer.




















:p :p

[Lovediva]

Sorry Aqua but making love with the lights on is fabulous and can be very romantic.....

But when you shout out "Fuck me..Fuck me hard..." that's fucking..lights on or off! :p :D

[Aqua]

I can see your point, I wouldn't call it lovemaking when the lights are out and my S/O yells Fuck My Ass you Big Studly Man-Beast!

Damn female logic... :p :p :D

[Lovediva]

Fuck My Ass you Big Studly Man-Beast!

Damn..that works for me too!!!!!!:D

[Irish]

In my many tears of activity,I have found that there definately is
a difference.The difference is in ones mind!I have never been intimate(intercourse)with someone that I didn't care something
about emotionally,but that's just the way that I am.If you don't
have some feeling for someone,to me there's no sense! Irish
P.S.I'm not trying to label myself as a romantic,but that's the way
that I feel.

[celticangel]

making love brings u closer wither rough,weird, or romantic----fucking seems to be a more selfish activity(in a good way!) who knows!----as long as I get a hug I'm happy!

[Missy1965]

Irish...I agree with you 100 percent I couldn't have said it better myself. I also believe if a person does not take the time to kiss you then there is obviously something wrong. To me kissing is a very intimate thing and sometimes very over looked and a very passionate kiss can mean more then words at times. The bad thing is someone who never kisses you that should be a clue as to how things really are between two people.

[jennaflower]

actually... it has been soooo long.. I don't remember :( :(

[Coaster]

Oh poor Jenna!! OK everybody... let's go help Jenna remember!

[xanne]

They are different..............but it's ALL GOOD!!! :D:D ;)

Just different times for them I guess......

[gekkogecko]

Categories...fuck the categories.

It's all about intent, whatever the trappings.

yeah, there is a line there somewhere, but when I find it, I do my personal best to obliterate that line.

[denny]

My gf and I do and enjoy both. Our quickies are fast and furious and much different from when we make love. Both are wonderful.

[celticangel]

its all good in a loving relationship!

[BigBear57]

I'll say as a rule of thumb if one of you has to get dressed and go home pretty quick afterward, it's most likely fucking. Lovemaking from my point of view is an all enveloping endeavor. It's how you treat someone before and after the sex that defines it. You might say from a guy's point of view, it's the state of the heart not the hard that makes it loving.

[LixyChick]

I've never once said, "Oh baby, make sweet, passionate love to me". It might end up being what happens......but if I say anything, it's usually, "Oh gawwwwwwwd, I want you to fuck me so hard and deep........etc., etc., etc.!

So....what is my answer? I think I forgot the question! :confused:

[cowgirltease]

Originally posted by BigBear57
I'll say as a rule of thumb if one of you has to get dressed and go home pretty quick afterward, it's most likely fucking. Lovemaking from my point of view is an all enveloping endeavor. It's how you treat someone before and after the sex that defines it. You might say from a guy's point of view, it's the state of the heart not the hard that makes it loving.

BigBear.............. THE PERFECT ANSWER!!!!!!!;)

[WildIrish]

If there's bloodshed and the C word is involved it's fucking.

[SuzyQ]

I agree with you WildIrish, making love includes wine, dinner, and soft caresses, but could be followed by fucking and having the "C" word involved and even the "A" word and definitely the "F" word and probably many more from the alphabet.

:sex:

[naughtyangel]

Irish, we all know you're a romantic ;)

I think there's definately a difference...although I have trouble pinning it down, since I pretty much always get the snuggle afterwards :)

[Lilith]

Originally posted by WildIrish
If there's bloodshed and the C word is involved it's fucking.

Yummy:hump:

[Ryan²]

Making love I regard as serious, whereas fucking I regard as more fun. That's the way I see it anyway.

[punkgrrl18]

its all of the above: fucking, making love, having sex. Me and fiance are usually very passionate and gental, but for the arousal factor we do call it fucking as i do recall saying most of the time "FUCK ME FUCK ME FUCK ME HARD" not "make love to me harder" i like being thrown down he calls it making love though. its all the same to me.

[fardreamer]

I have to say that whether one "makes love" or "fucks" is a matter of subjective rather than objective thinking. I've only had meaningful sex with two women, and one of them I am madly in love with even though she is married and lives 2000 miles away. I thought, during the three days I was with my married lover, that I was making love with her even when we were doing it in a hurry....the first time, that is.

[osuche]

OK...first time during the evening is likely fucking. We haven't seen one another and I want him *bad*

If it happens again (or multiple times) it's making love. :p

...Of course, I *always* love him so why does the definition matter?

[SuzyQ]

After thinking about this long and hard, I really don't care...I have an orgasm I am happy.. -:)

[ericthered]

Was it Woody Allen

Sex without love is an empty experience, but while you're waiting for love, it's a very interesting way to pass the time.

[Holly]

There's a time and place for both in every ones lives.
Sometimes you want to be treated like a lady and seduced, having sweet nothings whispered in your ears as you "make love".

Other times... you feel so horny you just want to be "fucked" senseless and you don't give a stuff about how romatic it is!!

I know which one I prefer though!!

[SuccubusKitty]

For me if it's Making Love it's all about feeling the moment and being emotionally involved with the person you are with.

If it's Fucking, it's just sex. No emotional involvement. No attachment.