How many Sexual Partners

[skipthisone]

In my adventure to bring back some old threads I came across this one, but it had gotten off topic by the later pages so decided to start again.

How many partners have you had?

Once upon a time my SO asked me that and I came up with 32...what about you all?

[Summer]

Umm ........ was I suppose to keep count. :rolleyes: :) ;)

LOL, damn, I am a slut!!!

[kleclere]

Only 2 so far. Still experimenting though.

[69 HER]

THE BEST 4 IN THE WORLD

at least thats what I have been convincing myself of

OK OK 2 where forgetful but the first and my wife Best

Not to take anything away from all u lovely Pixie women just can't loose what I have!

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[Lilith]

I can count them on one hand.............. so far;)

[PantyFanatic]

Summer? Perhaps we met before Pixies. ;)

[Peacelul]

5 I think.

[IAKaraokeGirl]

Gosh, I feel like a sexual goddess compared to some of you...and an apprentice wannabe compared to others.

Nah...I'm just a sexual goddess (who is at lucky #13).

Of course, we all know it's the quality that counts, not the quantity, right?

[dm383]

originally posted by Lilith
I can count them on one hand.............. so far


Me too Lil........ if I was to use a hand with "???" fingers!!!

:o

I guess my answer would have to be.... less than I wanted, more than I should have! ;) That's all you're getting!

DM

[Irish]

I'd tell you but then I'd have to kill you.Anyone that I have had any sexual contact with will only be known by me&them.Sorry,but it's something that I don't discuss.I have seen too many lives
ruined by people talking,truth or lie! Irish

[Scarlett]

Only 3 for me.

[BlondeCurlGirl]

I'm 22, and I've had 4 so far... makes me feel like it's a lot, since most of my friends have only had 1...

[cuteglutes]

Originally posted by Irish
I'd tell you but then I'd have to kill you.Anyone that I have had any sexual contact with will only be known by me&them.Sorry,but it's something that I don't discuss.I have seen too many lives
ruined by people talking,truth or lie! Irish

Good advise Irish, i'm with you on that one.

[exhib_it_all]

I think I lost count after 2....lol

[Loren]

Got lucky here, 1. My first pick was good enough I didn't need to try again.

[Neige]

None :( (......yet!)

[Sharni]

Pleads the 5th ;):D

[sugar & spice]

only 2 but I've learned a lot lol :)

[Lovediva]

1

[Lovediva]

errrrr...2

[Lovediva]

Nope wait....3

[Lovediva]

Ummm or was that 4???

[Lovediva]

Now I got it...it was 5!!!

[Lovediva]

Nope sorry....let's round it off tooo ............2 many!!! :D :D :D :D

[celticangel]

Quite a few I guess-------but "You have to kiss a lot of toads before u find your prince!!"

[Missy1965]

I can count them on one hand...and still have a finger or so left over!!!!

[Vigil]

I quite agree with Irish - but only when talking face to face with people, as my id is confidential I don't mind saying in the interest of the cultural mix up.

I'm from the Uk and in the 80's, the group I was with were obviously very promiscuous. So over 50 for me and a lot I can't remember their names and I'm sure they can't remember mine.

But 1 in the last ten years.

[don73153]

3 before, marriage was the 4th, and eleven since!

WoooooooHoooooooo!!

And still adding to that list, and I remember the names of every one, and they were all special women!

Don

[sassylove]

ummm....8. Which is quite a small amount compared to all my friends! lol....Yes, they are sluts! ha!!

Hey Irish, I don't think he was asking for names.....

[IenkiMoonshine]

Hmmmm 3 for me..

[whitehorse]

I can count all on both hands .......... almost.

[Vintage Vixen]

DAMN...I use to try and disprove the theory that if i guy sleeps around he's a stud..but if a woman does it it she's a slut.I got called alot of names by alot of people but i really didn't give a fuck,actually i did i gave lots thats why they called me names lol.All i know is i've changed my life in a big way and for the last year and a half i've been with 1 guy,my hunny:)

[kleclere]

I feel the word slut is used to libral today just because a lady has slept with more than one person does not a slut make. And just because a guy has slept with more than one person a stud does not he make. A woman I feel should be considered experienced as should a man. The words stud and slut are over used in my opinion. And they are only words. Just my two cents. Getting off soap box.

[Summer]

Ok fair deal kleclere. From now on you can just say I am experienced!!!! hehe Thank you for replacing that other word for me. ;)

[Vigil]

Ahhh experience - you can't buy it.

[IAKaraokeGirl]

Isn't that one of the first questions they want to know in a job interview--if you're experienced? (Ducking and running...)

[kleclere]

Good point. Honest we don't throw to much stuff.

[T-S]

Originally posted by Vigil
Ahhh experience - you can't buy it.

You can on some street corners ;) :D

[Vintage Vixen]

When i first posted my response i should have also mentioned that it took place from the time i was 19 till i'd say 30.I'm 42 now
and you can say that there shouldn't be the stud/slut double standard i agree.But beleive me the double standard is alive and kickin,and i still don't give a fuck.

[Vigil]

Head Wench - you're my type of strumpet, girl. Tell it like it is.

[denny]

I say the question is not how many, but rather how well.

[metaphysical700]

Just one. Not planning on extending.

[Doomsday]

Zero for now.... soon one... lol... my one and only...

[Scarecrow]

Would you beleive .... no that is to low. How about ... no that would constitute a mob action and there for illegal. So I must keep that number secret to keep from going to jail.;) :D



P.S. actually I lost count. Oh to be a child of the 60's:p

[husker21]

I'm 23, and have had 4 partners. 1 younger. 1 slightly older, and 2 over the age of 30.


i figure that ive had a pretty decent sampling!.

[Loulabelle]

Hmmmm - I wonder....should I tell, or should I make you guess?!

[Akasha]

Pleads the 5th.... Lets just put it this way: I can NOT count the number of men on two hands, And the number of women can barely be counted on two hands:)

[el barto]

first post and 3 would be me. the 3rd (and current), being by far the best and certainly most fun. she's an animal. :)

[CptMorgan]

In my head? Hundreds!!

In real life, two.

Of course, that is not counting those drunken nights in college where at 10pm the memory stops and I keep going.

[Saraphin]

I would be at 6guys atm and one female- most of which happened in my younger days ( not that i am all that old yet /giggles =) but still it took a few times to figuer out what sex was suppose to mean to me.

The guy am with atm would have to be the best . Both physically and emotionally =)

[Kitsune]

I'm 25 and I've had between 25 - 30 partners, it all depends on whether you count oral sex.

[Steph]

Over 30 for me but I was more promiscuous in my late teens and early 20s . . . always safe . . .

I just knew ever since I was a kid I'd want to experiment with different men, different drugs, etc. and I did!

Now at work, people think I'm straight-laced, I'd imagine many Pixie posters are looked at the same way at their companies.

If only they knew! :)

[Vigil]

Make us guess Loulabelle - but give us some background hints.

[Mr_Thursday]

not counting oral sex, 14
counting oral sex, 27

paid for giving oral sex to women, 1, best 30 bucks I ever made :).

[Loulabelle]

Originally posted by Vigil
Make us guess Loulabelle - but give us some background hints.

Background hints.......I'm 24, university educated and well.....read some of my posts and you'll soon get to know how I feel about sex! Lol

[Rayna]

since i AM a virgin and all... ive had sex with no one :-p (yet)

but as for sexual partners in general, no actual sex...

ive kissed 25
be fingered by 18
be eaten out by 11
given bjs to 7

(yes, some of them receive all or one of another, blah... ive been around, just not sex)

[rabbit]

Wow...I never counted it up before...

The answer to the question is 30, not counting oral of which I can't remember (maybe an additional 10).

29 of the 30 happened between the ages of 18 and 25 (before Mrs R hopped into my life). That was 12 years ago.

rabbit

[Vigil]

OK Loulabelle - one more hint - when did you first have sex?

[divot109]

Raven:

I'd love to change those numbers to: 26, 19,12, and 8, respectively.

[sugar]

13. most of them in the last few years since i'm single. two of them i'd rather not count, I'd actually rather erase them from my memory. But i have very fond memories of the other 11.

actually, it was fun counting them and thinking about everyone of them once again.... sigh...

[Rayna]

Originally posted by divot109
Raven:

I'd love to change those numbers to: 26, 19,12, and 8, respectively.

:p

And also, 17 of those guys ive kissed were between june and september of 2002. pretty wild summer. and i havent kissed or done anything with anyone but my bf for the last 4 months.

[Wicked Wanda]

Oh my God!
Do I have to answer this AGAIN?!!
It is a lot. OK?
Men, women, couples, 3sums, oral, "manual" ( my new name for being fingered, and fingering, and for stoking men until they climax so gorgeously.... I love to see it shoot out...) plus anal, plus a few other things I don't know what to call.
(Besided, the numbers have changed rather dramatically since the last time...)
Say.... ***. give or take a few lost memories of one time encounters...
Oh my!
That is a lot!!!
( do the boys who would climax by rubbing against me through our clothes count?)

Wickedly

Wanda, slut extraordinair ( did I spell that right?)

[LixyChick]

I'm pleading the fifth too!

No....wait......I'm drinking a fifth and pleading for mercy!

Have mercy on me because I never thought to put notches in my lipstick case! Where the f*&%k was Pat Benetar way back when this all started? I could have starting etching from the beginning if only that stinking song had of come out earlier! I would have even sung it to some of my conquests! "Come on! Hit me with your best shot! Why don't you hit me with your best shot.....fire away!" OMGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!

Oops! I get feisty when I drink a fifth of anything!

Now.......what was the question? TeeHee!

[pepsigirl]

gosh, i feel like such a slut. 24 guys.....and a couple more that were just oral. oh well.

[dadaist]

I probably shouldn't say, but..

First GF I had we really only groped each other without clothes on, never any sex as such.

Next one was "all the way" to coin a phrase.
The next was mostly just fooling around with, but I had a couple other partners during college...

2 that all I ever did was go down on them...

Couple more that I dated, 3 that were just for a night. (aHEM).

So lets see.

1 that wasn't much, sexually, nothing ever happened....

2 that were oral only, giving.

10 that were sex partners.

[dannithenympho]

*1*
And I know for sure if I didn't wait for this *1*, I would have had dozens by now, and probably dozens more to come.
Anyhoo yep :)
I can honestly say I've found the best of them all, anyone care to challenge that? lol

[MikeR89]

I've slept with 5 women...

Two of those - it was just sleeping -

Darn the luck ... so I can honestly say - I can count on one hand....

[seriousfun]

I am 46, Male...

I did a serious count a few years ago.

60 women. From 14 to marriage at 26, I earned my living (as it was) as a musician, which gave me opportunity. Since my divorce 5 years ago, I counted 17.

There are worse hobbies :)

[whatswithme69]

only one, my current girlfriend. i lost my virginity to her last august. damn, the sex is great :)

[rtctfield]

Five, but one of them had about several personalities, so I'm saying eight!

[skipthisone]

LMAO @ rtctfield

[luc328]

4 for me

[Dark Lord]

Well, before my horribly disfiguring accident, there was just
that Queen Amidala chick...then, come to find out many years
later, it seems that I planted the proverbial seed. Well, it was
easier to take over the galaxy without having to stop every
hour to change a diaper, or make a bottle...so I guess she did
me a favour not telling me!!!
But, other than her, it hasn't been easy finding a girl who
want's to give it to a deep fried dude such as myself!

[Irezumi Kiss]

:bump:

I was just surfing the various members' threads who're no longer posting...and seeing what pops up from the archives...

My tally is somewhere between 15 and 20...but I know I'm a bit off. I'm hedging in that estimate because there are some who stand out more than others and there are maybe some I'd rather forget...the funny thing is I can remember all of them but I can't remember all of them right now. If I take the time to sit down and chronologically think in order then I'd know for sure, but I'm too lazy to do that now. My fondest memories are of the more intense (crazy) liasons or the ones that I climaxed the strongest with.

Another funny thing is I can remember nearly all the women I've kissed more than the all the ones I've had sex with. Every now and then a memory pops up and I wonder what that lady's doing right now.

[CindyJ]

For all out sex, I would say.....around 20, but if you count just a blowjob or getting each other off without fucking too....probably around 30....more or less.

[dicksbro]

I thought I'd posted to this before ... :shrug:

One. Just one. And she's till my sweety after 43 years of marriage. :lurv:

[whosyour51]

I lost count but for sure over a hundred

[jbh3]

5...

[wrestlemark]

For all out sex, I would say.....around 20, but if you count just a blowjob or getting each other off without fucking too....probably around 30....more or less.



i must be getting old ........any thing sex was great ..............18 for me and that is" all the ways" :loveshowe :loveshowe :loveshowe



mmmmmmmmm gettin each other off mmmmmmmmmmmm :loveshowe :69:

[jbh3]

just............yes.....2 long terms and 3 no stringers......I wish it were more but .......oh well

[CrouchingBuddha]

Just one for me, on everything pretty much. That's managed to last for 5 years, and I expect it to last quite a bit longer than that. And I'm cool with that. I'm young, yeah, but where I may lack in sexual diversity, I like to think I've made up for that by finding love early.

And anyway, I may have only fucked one woman, but what a woman! :D

[1nutworld]

Do I HAVE to answer?

around 10, with another 3 or 4 that I've gotten oral sex from.

[Neige]

None :( (......yet!)

A update!

The number's up to 3.

[jbh3]

you go sprite !!!!!!!!!!

[whosyour51]

Ha Ha good girl

[wyndhy]

it took me forever to figure it out. 1009
























minus 1007. :p:D

[ShadowDancer]

In my adventure to bring back some old threads I came across this one, but it had gotten off topic by the later pages so decided to start again.

How many partners have you had?

Once upon a time my SO asked me that and I came up with 32...what about you all?



only one

[Outlaw]

Only 5 that I can think of.

[anna_charley]

I'm somewhere between 20-25 x

[Eros]

Can believe I've never answered this one. From the ones I can remember it's 16.

[Oldfart]

I'm sure I answered this one years ago too.

I lost count at 30.

[flutelady]

I've had a few, but only two that counted in the big picture.

[flutelady]

(One of them is the father of my children, and the other will be coming home to me tonight and every night. He's also the best Dad I've ever known, to his own kids as well as to mine :loveshowe )

[Coaster]

Hi Flutelady............. say hi to Denny!!!!

I've had a few..................

[flutelady]

Hi there Coaster, New Years hugs for you and your honey!

You want I should give Denny a kiss for ya? :molest:

[IowaMan]

Was just discussing this with friends on New Year's Eve. Been stuck on eight for a bit. Only one of those was a one night stand (about 13 yrs ago) and I'm still kicking myself to this day for letting myself do that.

Now if we're expanding the count to include all around messing around and not just intercourse I'd say about 23 (Hey, that number was good enough for Ryne Sandberg and Michael Jordan, may as well let it work for me too). I have a tendency to find myself very very happy to spend a few hours going down on a lady and then not getting around to actually having intercourse with her. Oh god, it doesn't get better than that......... but that's another story for another time. :D

Either way you count 'em, it's been way too long since I've had a sexual partner. And would love to add to my number in hopes of finding that one special lady who will make the tally stop permanently. So, any of you single Pixies ladies that think you'd want to see if you're "the one" I'll more than likely be hanging out in the smut games with dicksbro and jseal. :D

[osuche]

Counting strictly intercourse, there have been 9.

[campingboy]

I have had the pleasure of having intercourse with 5 beautiful ladies.

[Wicked Wanda]

I am a little unhappy seeing this thread again.
But time moves on, and so have I.
This is going to provoke comment, and so be it.
It really matters not one wit to me if you think these are accurate numbers, but I KNOW they are the result of my best efforts.
So I have sat here for some time, sipping my pinot noir, (about 4 glasses worth) and I am feeling resolved.
I am drunk, and therefore brave. (Mary Kay Place)

After all, I chose my life, and I revel in it. I love having sex, and have no issues internally with it, I just hate to actually set down the numbers for others to see.

(Last time I got nervous, and editied the entry, putting in ** where I had put numbers, but now I am older, more educated (YES!), and maybe a tiny bit more mature, sexually.

Besides, I suspect there is an emotional catharsis to come from this.

Sooooooooo...

Disclaimer; all numbers are at best educated guesses, with lots and lots of overlaps. I mean, most of the time I fuck a guy the "regular" way before we do anal. (though there are exceptions *smile*)

Oral sex, giving and receiving, (to orgasm, not brief sucks as a prelude to more intense things) over 400. (that is an honest, if a tiny bit conservative, guestimate)
Manual sex, receiving, (being fingered, fingering, and other forms of genital stimulation, such as handjobs) about 150.

Anal Sex: (yum) about 30, which includes about 15 double penetrations.
(You thought it would be more, didn't you. I am very selective about who gets to go there)

There are some practices that are hard to classify, including variations on frottage, such as lap dances that resulted in one of us orgasming, booby fucking (not too much, as I am woefully underdeveloped in that area) various fettish encounters, and some extreme practices such as bukkake and its' variations. So, I will say maybe 70-100.

OK...
Vaginal intercourse: I'm guessing, but due to a HUGE change in lifestyle, (attending "swinger" and BDSM parties, and yes, I finally took the plunge, so this number is including some truly fantastic gangbangs) more than 350.

God, it feels so good to finally do this!

Let the insults come, I 'm ready!!!

"slut", (yes, so what?) "whore" "cunt" "nymphomaniac" "sex addict"

I have been called all of the above since I discovered sex, and while I am happy to be a slut, I am none of the rest. I have a therapist who says so.
I mean, I have issues, (issues? fuck, I have a whole subscription!!) But I am NOT a "whore", (not in the business of providing sex for money.) I HAVE a cunt. Doesn't mean I AM one, (I don't particularly care for that term, I prefer "pussy" "twat" or the more medically acurate "vagina")

My therapist says I am not a nymphomaniac. Or a sex addict.

So pooh on you who have problems with my life and they way I live it.

"I have a life, not a lifestyle" (George Carlin)

"Going to go nap for a little bit." (Ronald Regan)

Bye bye

Linda

[osuche]

Linda -

Life's fun is in the journey...not counting up the final tally. Who cares? As long as you had fun, it's all good. Your sexiness is part of what makes you, you.

((((Linda)))))

[Scarecrow]

WW,

to each their own. In truth I jealous, I thought I had a wild youth in the '60s & early '70s, then I found someone to share life with. It did not stop all the fun, but it did slow it way down when the children arrived. So don't worry about what others think, just enjoy life as it comes.

[Wicked Wanda]

Could someone please tell me why everytime I post, it more or less kills the thread?

By the way, it's 352 as of this morning.

:3way:

Remember that's a guess, more or less, based on more than a few sort of confused memories, and remember, there is a HUGE overlap here. I mean, don't add up all the numbers and expect to see how many sexual partners I have had. I have probably slept with a guy before I let him try anal.
Most of the time, anyway.
Lots of "just blow jobs" there though. Some women, (and some men, I hear) don't count thoses as sex...
Anyway, this is just a fucking educated guess. (sorry couldn't resist a little "morning after" humor). I have recently realized that as I get older, and continue my active sexual life, the sheer weight of numbers is going to add up. I mean, anal sex for example. This means that since I discovered anal I have had a new partner have anal with me on the average of slightly less than twice a year.

I really felt the need to set this down. It might have been better, though, if I had been less inebriated.
I apologize to all my Pixie's friends for the rude attittude I expressed. I have had a few relationship strains recently, especially with the "other" gender.
*sigh*

WW

[IowaMan]

Could someone please tell me why everytime I post, it more or less kills the thread?

By the way, it's 352 as of this morning.

:3way:

Nope, thread not killed honey. I think most of us just took time away from this one to try and figure out a way to get to you so we could possibly add to the number in what would most certainly be one of the most memorable experiences of our lives. That's what I was doing anyway. My plan is to get you up here to help me supervise the floor refinishing. ;)

Yup, getting a bit light headed from the blood (and thus oxygen) rushing from my head just thinking about your 3 way. Hmmmmm, what a great way to start my day. :D

[Oldfart]

WW

I feel we have to keep posting what we think/feel/wish/do, otherwise we're self-censoring, and all we show is a shadow of ourselves.

[Wicked Wanda]

I keep adding to the number of amazing people here that I will someday just HAVE to meet.

:loveshowe


WW

[Irezumi Kiss]

Could someone please tell me why everytime I post, it more or less kills the thread?

By the way, it's 352 as of this morning....I have recently realized that as I get older, and continue my active sexual life, the sheer weight of numbers is going to add up.
Milady Wicked, if you think what you posted turned ME off in any way, yer dead wrawng! If anything, you just set off a lot of positive, libidinously joyful and muse-saturated explosions in my brain...and other less figurative, more tangible and syrupy explosions elsewhere... :teleport:

...now if only I could add to that "weight" on your scale... :wish: :wish: :wave: :hot: :heartbeat :spin: :lurv: :rofl:

Funny thing in reading the rounded-off tally of your experiences...I was just reading some Annie Sprinkle bio last night...numerically speaking in the transitive, you could be one of her long lost siblings in crime... :wine:

[Coaster]

Just bumping into my fantasy nurse!!! :D

[VeryLonelyMan]

Before I begin my count I want to say something. I have never held to the bull of the double standard. I mean what is so damn wrong with someone enjoying sex. It has always infuriated me that whole situation, but I have never believed it and do not hold to that.

Now then, this is my best guesstimate.

Intercourse: 10 (+2 Failed Attempts)
Everything Else (Groping, Blow Jobs, Cunnilingus, Various Other Acts): 100+

I am very experienced (referring to the earlier comments) and definitely a man whore. But I like it.