Lilith
01-03-2003, 09:17 AM
saw this when hunting Sex News.....any comments???
Steamy ... our sex tips will hit the spot
FLIRTY, dirty Sex And The City returns to our TV screens today – with some new tantalising techniques for you to try out in your bedroom.
So hang the New Year’s Day hangover – the only place to start today is under the duvet, girls.
As the show’s raunchy Carrie Bradshaw would say, "bedroom boredom is strictly last season".
So every woman who wants to kick off 2003 with a roar rather than a whimper should take her cue from the sexy antics of Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte.
By SARA MEDLEY
and MEL HUNTER
(1) Create your own goody drawer, just like Miranda: Massage oil, chocolate, feathers - whatever turns you on.
(2) Do not let being single stop you getting the New Year off to a steamy start. Copy Carrie and have sex like a man "without feeling". Find your fella, make amazing love and then wave bye-bye. Watch him beg for more.
(3) Forget crime thrillers. Cuddle under the covers and read a romance or bonkbuster. Apparently women who park their noses in the pages of a Mills & Boon experience greater sexual satisfaction and have sex twice (yes, twice!) as often as those who write them off.
(4) Strengthen your most potent love muscle - the tongue - by eating yogurt straight from the pot using only your tongue. No hands allowed!
(5) Try the double chocolate kiss. You and your partner should melt chocolates in your mouths then kiss each other until the chocolate is all gone. If all else fails, do as Miranda did - substitute chocolate for sex. It is nearly as messy and tastes just as nice.
(6) Take Samantha's tip and have sex in unusual places. OK, so you may get caught (well, she did seduce an estate agent just as viewers were coming to see the house). But whatever happens, you can look back and laugh.
(7) If your partner tends to reject your advances give them a sensual full body massage, avoiding their sensitive bits until they are begging you to touch them there, then keep them waiting - the longer the better.
(8) Order a pizza. "The smell of fresh dough, tomatoes, mozzarella and basil are the perfect combination for sexual arousal in both men and women and can increase blood circulation to intimate parts of the body by up to 40 per cent," claims aroma expert Dr Alan Hirsch.
(9) Make sweet music. Breathe life into oral caresses by sucking a strong mint then gently blowing on your partner's sensitive bits.
(10) Make your partner an expert. There is no better time to improve each other's techniques than when you are lying exhausted together afterwards. It is when a little post-match analysis will be best received. Let him know what he did right, ask what he wants and plan what you would like to try next time. Then you should both be relaxed enough about new ideas when it comes to putting them into practice.
(11) Set your alarm ten minutes early once or twice a week for a glorious morning quickie.
(12) Buy a Polaroid camera to capture your most intimate moments and create your own erotic album to pour over when you feel like getting in the mood. Turn the camera on yourself. As Samantha says - it will give you something to look back on when your breasts are "in your shoes".
(13) Experiment. Results from a recent magazine survey show that a "willingness to experiment" is among the top three factors that make a person good in bed.
(14) This is the tip every girl wants to hear. Don't be afraid to pamper yourself first! OK, so few of us can afford the kind of designer lingerie that ends up in a crumpled heap over the bed frame in the girls' trendy Manhattan loft apartments. But a little splurge on some new bedroom frills can make all the difference to how sexy you feel. And it is sure to provoke more than a little more interest from him. So give those tatty T-shirts the heave-ho. Oh, and remember to remove the price tags from your new gear first.
(15) To heighten sexual sensation, men and women should strengthen their PC (pubococcygeal) muscles - the muscles that can stop pee mid-flow - by tensing and releasing them for a few minutes each day.
(16) Skip EastEnders and watch a couple-friendly erotic film with your partner. For erotica with a story line, we like Disclosure starring Michael Douglas and Demi Moore, and Bound which features Jennifer Tilly and Gina Gershon.
(17) If even Channel 5's soft porn is too graphic for your tastes, fuel your imagination with erotic literature. Read it aloud before foreplay or incorporate your favourite scene into sex games.
(18) Change the format. Italian sexologist, Giuseppe Cirillo found that, along with cheating on your partner and telling lies, using the same position in bed represented one of the three major causes of the failure in long-term relationships.
(19) Make virtual love without a helping hand from cybersex. Stare into each other's eyes and describe in detail everything you want to do to each other.
(20) Lose the bedclothes. When asked what she wore for bed, blonde bombshell Marilyn Monroe replied: "Chanel No5". Cuddle up close to keep warm.
(21) Place mirrors around your bedroom so you can watch yourself making love.
(22) Before foreplay, tie each other's hands (making sure you have a pair of scissors handy in case you can't undo the knots). With your paws tied you will learn a whole new oral repertoire.
(23) To treat and educate your other half, give them a full body demonstration of exactly how you would like to be touched before they repeat the performance on you. Swop roles the next night.
(24) While kissing your partner's body, hum a tune to produce knee-trembling vibrations over their skin.
(25) When your partner is misbehaving give them some Bart Simpson-style punishment and have them repeatedly write "I must be good" with their tongue across your body.
Steamy ... our sex tips will hit the spot
FLIRTY, dirty Sex And The City returns to our TV screens today – with some new tantalising techniques for you to try out in your bedroom.
So hang the New Year’s Day hangover – the only place to start today is under the duvet, girls.
As the show’s raunchy Carrie Bradshaw would say, "bedroom boredom is strictly last season".
So every woman who wants to kick off 2003 with a roar rather than a whimper should take her cue from the sexy antics of Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte.
By SARA MEDLEY
and MEL HUNTER
(1) Create your own goody drawer, just like Miranda: Massage oil, chocolate, feathers - whatever turns you on.
(2) Do not let being single stop you getting the New Year off to a steamy start. Copy Carrie and have sex like a man "without feeling". Find your fella, make amazing love and then wave bye-bye. Watch him beg for more.
(3) Forget crime thrillers. Cuddle under the covers and read a romance or bonkbuster. Apparently women who park their noses in the pages of a Mills & Boon experience greater sexual satisfaction and have sex twice (yes, twice!) as often as those who write them off.
(4) Strengthen your most potent love muscle - the tongue - by eating yogurt straight from the pot using only your tongue. No hands allowed!
(5) Try the double chocolate kiss. You and your partner should melt chocolates in your mouths then kiss each other until the chocolate is all gone. If all else fails, do as Miranda did - substitute chocolate for sex. It is nearly as messy and tastes just as nice.
(6) Take Samantha's tip and have sex in unusual places. OK, so you may get caught (well, she did seduce an estate agent just as viewers were coming to see the house). But whatever happens, you can look back and laugh.
(7) If your partner tends to reject your advances give them a sensual full body massage, avoiding their sensitive bits until they are begging you to touch them there, then keep them waiting - the longer the better.
(8) Order a pizza. "The smell of fresh dough, tomatoes, mozzarella and basil are the perfect combination for sexual arousal in both men and women and can increase blood circulation to intimate parts of the body by up to 40 per cent," claims aroma expert Dr Alan Hirsch.
(9) Make sweet music. Breathe life into oral caresses by sucking a strong mint then gently blowing on your partner's sensitive bits.
(10) Make your partner an expert. There is no better time to improve each other's techniques than when you are lying exhausted together afterwards. It is when a little post-match analysis will be best received. Let him know what he did right, ask what he wants and plan what you would like to try next time. Then you should both be relaxed enough about new ideas when it comes to putting them into practice.
(11) Set your alarm ten minutes early once or twice a week for a glorious morning quickie.
(12) Buy a Polaroid camera to capture your most intimate moments and create your own erotic album to pour over when you feel like getting in the mood. Turn the camera on yourself. As Samantha says - it will give you something to look back on when your breasts are "in your shoes".
(13) Experiment. Results from a recent magazine survey show that a "willingness to experiment" is among the top three factors that make a person good in bed.
(14) This is the tip every girl wants to hear. Don't be afraid to pamper yourself first! OK, so few of us can afford the kind of designer lingerie that ends up in a crumpled heap over the bed frame in the girls' trendy Manhattan loft apartments. But a little splurge on some new bedroom frills can make all the difference to how sexy you feel. And it is sure to provoke more than a little more interest from him. So give those tatty T-shirts the heave-ho. Oh, and remember to remove the price tags from your new gear first.
(15) To heighten sexual sensation, men and women should strengthen their PC (pubococcygeal) muscles - the muscles that can stop pee mid-flow - by tensing and releasing them for a few minutes each day.
(16) Skip EastEnders and watch a couple-friendly erotic film with your partner. For erotica with a story line, we like Disclosure starring Michael Douglas and Demi Moore, and Bound which features Jennifer Tilly and Gina Gershon.
(17) If even Channel 5's soft porn is too graphic for your tastes, fuel your imagination with erotic literature. Read it aloud before foreplay or incorporate your favourite scene into sex games.
(18) Change the format. Italian sexologist, Giuseppe Cirillo found that, along with cheating on your partner and telling lies, using the same position in bed represented one of the three major causes of the failure in long-term relationships.
(19) Make virtual love without a helping hand from cybersex. Stare into each other's eyes and describe in detail everything you want to do to each other.
(20) Lose the bedclothes. When asked what she wore for bed, blonde bombshell Marilyn Monroe replied: "Chanel No5". Cuddle up close to keep warm.
(21) Place mirrors around your bedroom so you can watch yourself making love.
(22) Before foreplay, tie each other's hands (making sure you have a pair of scissors handy in case you can't undo the knots). With your paws tied you will learn a whole new oral repertoire.
(23) To treat and educate your other half, give them a full body demonstration of exactly how you would like to be touched before they repeat the performance on you. Swop roles the next night.
(24) While kissing your partner's body, hum a tune to produce knee-trembling vibrations over their skin.
(25) When your partner is misbehaving give them some Bart Simpson-style punishment and have them repeatedly write "I must be good" with their tongue across your body.